Episode #174-“Return Of The Virgo”

0:01 What up? Good people. Big tis once again out here. He is sick, he is on leave, he is on vacation. I don't know what the fuck he's doing. But we are joined by very special guest co hosts, Miss Virgo Vixing. How are you? How are you this morning? Ma'am? It's been a while. It's been a long time. It's been a minute, it's. Been a while. All right, Before we get started, want to ask you question. Men crying? I need a quick opinion, men crying go yes, yes, good, yes. Yes good? All right. I have more questions, but you know.

0:41 We don't get into the questions on this episode of mix Tape Game. Ki kicks Yes, yes, yes. I would like to welcome me all to another episode of Grumpy Old Mixtape. I'm your host, Dove Hs, and like I said, I am joined by very special guest co host. It's been a while since she's been in here. She is the Virgoist of all virgos, Miss Virgo Vexing period. How you ma'am?

1:26 Man, I'm doing great. That's good. That's good. But before we get started, make sure your father's cross all social media platforms. That's Grumpy Old Mixtape across the board. Be sure to join Grumpy Old TV on YouTube rate like, subscribe and tell a friend to tell a friend to tell one more motherfucker that you're indeed fucking what you got? Damn boys, what you been up to? Relaxing and living life? What is that? In intel of no more working six and seven days week? That's great because you've been it's been a minute. Yes, yeah, it's been a minute. And so you know, in preparing for this episode, I went back and listening to some of my old episodes, and I did not realize how long I was working hard as fuck, Like it's really been at least two years, and you're working hard as fuck and being tired as fuck, Like, what the fuck?

2:25 So I've just been relaxing, like just enjoying life, living life, taking plenty naps. That's good. That's good, right, h Yeah about crying? Now, you know I was injured recently? Did you cry? I was injured recently? Like injured? Okay, you really was? Yeah, I'm still injured still, I'm down for at least I got physical therapy for fifteen weeks. Damn only been there a week maybe two. Yeah, I got fifteen weeks of that. But you know, I told the story of the injury or whatnot. You know, And when I tell stories, people say I leave out important parts, which I mean, I just tell the story. I don't want to, you know, stretch it out too much, especially if it ain't nothing funny.

3:16 But all right, so let me go back over the story, not that I got hurt part. Everybody know I got hurt playing basketball laid out. Yeah I know, I know, all right. So so people listen to the episode who were involved in it, they were like, you ain't telling everything. You ain't telling how I helped you. You ain't telling how this person helped you. You ain't telling this. You ain't even say no names, which I don't say names because maybe not everybody wanted no names, right, maybe nobody don't want their name because. This is like forever, it always out here. I get it. So but you know, people complaining, you know what, I'm gonna say some names. Oh yeah, let's go all right, So let me going all right. Now, when I got hurt, I was driving to the I drove myself, so I'm driving, so I had to call miss Monique. So when she called me back, you know, I didn't tell this part of the story, but I didn't find it being that important.

4:20 I was like, baby, I hurt myself bad, But I wasn't crying, all right. It was just like, goddamn, I hurt myself. I'm hurt, I'm injured. Baby help me. In her mind, she's telling everybody, I was crying. That's what she that's how that's how she tells the story. He left the fact that he was crying. He called me crying. I wasn't crying, but anyway, so apparently I was crying. So I cried all the way up there, supposing. But the injury, I mean the injury, it would be understood if you weren't, but I was. That was some real serious ship.

5:05 Yes, it was very cried. I should have now did a tear form. That's tear form because it was pain. But when I called her, I was not crying. Let the record state that. I was not fucking crying. Have I cried before, Yes, I've cried many a times for real, Yeah, why not? Don't give a fuck you. Like I said, there's many reasons for people to cry, and we're talking about me and crime. It's many a reason. We did an episode about this mentime when we was stuck in traffic. Thing called the crying games. You need to go back and listen to the crying game. I do. I'm gonna have to. Talking about that. Yeah, okay, So yeah, you can cry from pain, you can cry from no injuries, you can cry from hurt, confusing happiness. It's many a re I have cried, but once again I did not cry. Understood, but supposed that I did. So I get there, I get there, boom, they rushed me straight to the back.

6:10 So all right, everybody like, what the fuck is going on? What happened? It's like I'm shooting basketball, so I have to get a X ray. So shout out to miss Laura. Period period, X ray tax doing your things. She helped get the shoe off because it was stuck because I couldn't yeah, because it's like my ankle's not moving, so when you pull it, you gotta be you can't just put Yeah, as far it was, it was fucked up. So she did assist in getting my shoe in sock off. Thank you, Laura. That's number one. Thank you Laura. Thank you Laura. So also thank you. They got me in there quick, got the X ray. Everything was done. Boom.

7:00 Then I had to go get an MRI. So the medical tech AJ, she set up everything like boom, fuck it. He VIP get him in here, shout out AJ, thank you. Got me right on in there, like look, no you're not sitting around, come right up here. We get you here. VP got me in there, knocked that out. Next day, put me right on the schedules to talk to the doctor. Boom, shout out doctor Massey. Shout out doctor Massey. Massy, Massy, Massy handclout, got me right in there. It's like, look, we're gonna get you taking care of tomorrow. Damn.

7:40 So it happened Tuesday, Wednesday appointment, Thursday, I was operated on. So shut out for getting me in there, everybody involved, Time out, time. Out, because I just the text that I got was I'm having surgery today at twelve fifteen, at like eleven son, I'm like, what the fuck? What do you mean? Exactly? Text said it all, but that's how quick it was. But what I'm saying is and so I ustantly tear it up, like what the fuck is going on? Was that? Was that in La you were and that ship fucked up, fucked me up for a minute, I'm looking at the phone, like where the bubbles? What do you mean? What's going on? I'm in here. I'm like, wait a minute, wait a damn minute. I was very nervous, very prayer. What the fuck? And then when I heard like, damn again, you need to only walk.

8:26 I know that said walk and don't do nothing. Now my door said just walk. Just won't play no basketball, it's too dangerous. Don't do anything else. Those are legit words. You can't play basketball because it's too dangerous. You're at a certain age to where and not only that, you've had a lot of the most random at shit happened to you and your body. I have, I have, but it is what it is. So it got me taking care of in and out of there. I had my first my follow up visit. I think it was last week or the week before, but I had my first follow visit. Shout out to a mill Yeah, thank you a million. She came. She was like, boom, we're taking this off. Blood shooting, not my scar. No, let me say nothing, blood shooting. Not when it when he took the stitches out, it like kind of like open back up a little like yeah. Yeah.

9:20 So they had to witness that. So shout out you so like you were sitting down and they was doing this like your leg was propped up. I was laying I was laying on my stomach in a manly way, in a manly way. What'sman way? Tuned it up? You know what manly way? You're laying on your stomach, you definitely know, So shout out to and they handled that part well. Yeah, man, I just I felt like I needed clear all that up. I mean, you know, it was no offense not naming names. Some people just don't like them. Now, I may say your name, but if I'm saying a name like I don't know Tracy still you thieven motherfucker. That's because I want everybody to know your fucking thief. You know what I'm saying. So I say names, but to people that I feel are important enough.

10:26 That's what it is exactly. You may not want your name mentioned, so I don't take it personal miss Laura, because she was the main, main one, you know. So, but shout shout out to the whole staff. I'm gonna send y'all some grumpy old wristband. You can remember me as you cutting open another man hooker but yeah, shout at all them. Man, but I didn't cry. So that I did not cry. I will cry. I don't give a fuck. I cry right now. I cried there before, yesterday, I prior. But we all know this. You've cried many odd times. You cried from a closet before.

11:13 I did. Yes, you did, which is wild because I vividly remember that. Yeah, so that Yeah, yeah. But yeah, but shout out to them for real, shout at them for helping me get through this. The journey is long, but we're still we're still going. Yeah, we appreciate it. Fifteen more weeks or fourteen or thirteen may anyone. It's a lot of moments. Yeah. Man, it's rough. It's rough, but I'm doing good. In case you warned, I'm doing it. Yeah, we look good, thank you. A little too tall for the schooter, but I. Mean I'll be scooping around on that too. Don't let me be out in the public on it and they looking at you. Like what's wrong because it doesn't look like there's anything. No, do they know.

11:57 It's a whole accident back then? Yeah, it's bad, but we're here, we're here here. What's good with you? What you got what you got. You send me some stuff you wanted to. I felt like you needed to touch on. Oh wait a minute, though a minute, wait a minute, what's up with this song? Man? What this song? So shout out to my cousin Mayana. So for her birthday, this was this was her. Plan, whole soundtrack. Oh we gotta fucking et beat that ship hot birthday. Wow. So for her birthday, this is what she wanted to do.

12:39 We she wanted to go to the studio of coorse some songs. So, as y'all know, I reached out to y'all, like you know, I was like, I need some beans, like because I can't make a beat, and I know y'all have them in the stash. So I reached out to both of y'all. You did because one of them we used, and that's the one I want to let you hear. Not today, but that's the I am not. So we got to the studio because you know, I needed some a little bit of liquid courage. So we laid we laid the first song down and it was amazing. But I tell you, shout out to Connor at Union Recording Studios because he made it. Sound like shout out Connor.

13:20 Connor. Oh yeah, Connor did his day, Connor. So we recorded the first song. So we had like five hours of studio time, which included the engineer, and it was on like two hundred and fifty dollars. So we went in there. I was nervous as ship because I can't sing, I can't rap, but I did both and that shit sounds fucking amazing. Shout out Connor because so the more we drank a little bit more, yeah more concert yeah, so because what happened was so the plan was to make like just three rap songs. But when we was at Maana house and she was singing, I said, wait a minute, so why you not singing on this track? Like you can sing a little bit.

14:02 Let me let me interrupt you. What you sound like you've been doing this for years. Why you're not singing on this track? Yo? That's what I said, because she was just walking around the house singing, and I was like, why we're not singing on this track exactly? And I was like, if my fucking city girls, if Sexy Red, if these witches can make songs, we can make songs. Because they really just talking over the track. They're not rapping or nothing. They're just talking. We can do this? Is that what it is? Or is it talking over beat? If the words rhyme, they're rapping, Get. The fuck out of here. There is. So Booty Whole Brown. It's a rap. Stop it Poundtown Booty Whole Brown. That rhymes rap.

14:51 And it's a solid like no skips, Like it's a solid. It's only three songs. But when I say these witches is fire, no skip, it was like no, I love it. No skills. Yeah, I'm very proud of it. So you're about to play it, I'm not okay now. You know, for people to be able to sing the words, they got to hear it. Okay, all right, I. Mean I'm gonna let you hear it now. I feel like I feel better where I can let you hear it. So that was the plan. All right? All right? Well, congratulations on your EP soundtrack to the Streets. What what the game has been missing? Shut out? For those who want to go back and listen. Mims Virgo Vixing. She had her own podcast for how long? Went on?

15:42 Three years? It was three years, yeah. Because it started February twenty, twenty twenty. Wow. I was like, wow, so it was called Virgo to Hell. Check and check out some whole episodes. If you stay Patty episode thirty all right, what was I was Petty as. He was talking about I feel like Petty is cool to me. Yeah, that was the one we were talking about inn f beefs. That one and the one the one I was listening to on the way here was me, you and Big Tie on the phone because Tyrone was it down and out with his foot and I had just got out the hospital.

16:25 Oh yeah, that's when, y'all. That's when was about to croak on me. Yeah, everybody, Yeah, y'all had to stop. So it was that one. It was. I listened to probably like three or four of my episodes, and it was one where it was the episode after me and Miana had an episode, So that must have been a dreams one. And I was talking about Javon and how happy, like just the pride that you hear my boys talking about my son. I got real emotional. I teared up a little bit, like I am really proud of him. You know, I got I got my children older. I got the youngest at two all the way up to old we three. She's just certain three I apologize, mellow, she's just certain three. I actually tore my ankle up the day before birthday, So all right, we was talking about this. It's like you could be in the same household, get brought up the same way, have a child as a serial killer, have a child as a doctor. What do you feel accounts for that? Do you feel it's just something in the person, or you feel at some point you did something wrong? How you feel about that.

17:43 You're not gonna raise your children the same. It don't matter if they like you might have the same rules and stuff, but you've learned from that first child to the second, so you do things differently, You react to them differently, you parent differently because it's a whole learning shit. But at the end of the day, you're not parenting them to be a serial kill. No you're not. That's again, that's what the fuck they chose to do with They likee that I have nothing to do with you, that has nothing to do with you, that has nothing to do that's choices that they made. But like now, even looking at my children now, they were definitely raised different because I learned more along the way. Definitely fucked up on some shit and learned. Oh let me not do that no more because the way. And it's so funny because they're like, oh, you spoil Jamia.

18:27 First of all, I'm tired, and I'm older and some shit, I just so, yes, I'm like, for real, you learn along the way. Some shit don't require a whole bunch of energy. I don't said what I said. I'm not going back and forth with you, like you just learn. You don't raise them differently, all right, all right, because I mean you do raise them different Yeah, you're raising differently right now. Like Melo, she's three and. You're an older parent. Think about how young you were with the first set, Yes, how old you are with this set. Yes, you tired some it don't require as much energy. And no, you've learned and you've changed. You're not the same person. So it's really like, I'm pretty sure there's plenty times you looked at meloone.

19:15 And said, yeah, you got it. Yeah, exactly see what I'm saying, because you know we're not We're not the same energy. Like so sad though, but you create a monster, you create a monster like that. Yeah, but but yeah, because i'm take out, so like you know, I used to believe in whoopings and stuff like that, and then when it comes to the mill, I'll be like, I don't even care, like like, are you bleeding? Did you break anything? I know? And now that he's bigger than me, and I'm realizing, oh, you should have got more whoopings because you clearly be testing my gangster. But he's he's the third is.

19:56 I was tired so you basically like the bunking your whole theory, like, all right, I did something wrong here, now I'm a fix it here, but then I'm gonna break it again when it gets to the third one. I don't know. I don't care, like I'm so hear me out. I love them all, but I'm so sicky like taking care of you when I say I'm ready to live, Like at this point, I've done all that I can do. I've given you the structure, the boundaries. I've given you everything up. To you to take advantage of the great ship I taught you as a parent. This is your life. You choose to funk it up, that's all you. I don't know what to tell you.

20:37 I love you, I love you and I love you, but uh, and it's so funny because the other two they like, you don't, you don't make him do that, you don't. I'm tired. I don't have the energy to be going back and forth argument. You're either gonna do it, you're not. So it's just free fall, free fall. I don't even But it's like, but that's what all of them now. But I think that's more has to do with where I am in my life. Like shit, y'all do don't require my energy. Yeah, Like, like I said, my two are like grown grown, and then there's mellow. So especially with my son. My son get his own choices.

21:21 Yeah, made his own choices. And it's like I talked to him, talked to him about a month or so ago, and I'm talking, I'm listening to him talk and I'm like, you still don't get it. You just don't get it. And I when he was getting into making his choices and they will affect me, you know, I would tear up and be like, damn, what the fuck I'm doing? Basically now, you didn't do anything. I didn't do shit exactly, but help give this motherfucker like seventy grand Yeah. So I don't know, man, Maybe it's like I just the only thing I trust for right now is for just to wake up and just be like, you know what, but I get it now.

22:02 I don't give a damn how old is you can be. You can be. Damn all ready. But as a parent, you can't help to reflect on yourself when your children do things that are disappointing because I felt that before and be like, damn, what did I do wrong for this child to do this and act like this? Then it's child, yeah, and what have I done for you to feel this way about me? Like damn? How bad of I was a parent? But then I was like fuck that. I was learning too, Like I'm learning this shit as I go. Nobody tells you how to be a parent. Nobody teaches you. You you fuck up the first child you're learning, try to fix it with the decks with it, and then by the time the other one come on, you're fucking tired.

22:44 So it is. I'm tired, like you know, you try to do better, but it's like nobody, it's no guide to this show. Everybody puts out to do this and say do this exactly. That shit don't work. Now, none of that works. It's like you just do what you can do to make it till the next day that's it. And it's just like one of my coworkers told me, like their parents told them, like being a parent is the only job you don't know if you've done it right until twenty years later. Wow, And I was like exactly, So thinking about it, it's like, damn, I don't know if I fucked y'all up until later on. But even even sometimes then, you can't say that because you can look back and see the things you've done right and see the growth, and then twenty years later they decide fuck all that I'm gonna do this, So that's not your fault, so you can't you can't even say that either.

23:40 I've been trying to get them all into therapy, like y'all need to go because I was your mom and I know, and it was a lot of shit I did wrong when I didn't know no better. You need to go day to day to day. Just drop somebody on their head. Why are you taking so long answer this question. Because I'm thinking, I never know, I've never dropped any of them. Did you slam somebody's head through the window? I mean, like I'm saying, it's like that's the type of brutality I see where you fuck somebody up, Like I mean, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. I mean sometimes you can let what troubles you leak into them, but at the same but at the same time, you're still aware in your and you are trying not to do that, you know what I'm saying.

24:29 Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. Like, if anything, I feel like I'm a much better parent now then back then, aside I from not I don't give a fuck factory. That's because like your main parenting skill right there, right now, that's what you just said. You said your main what I heard was your one of your attributes to your parenting skill is not giving a fuck, And that's at ninety five. It's ninety five. Giving a fuck is round about sixty eight. Because it's like I used to be a helicopter parent. Yeah, So it's definitely evolved in different stages. Where I was the PTO mom, I was PTO mom, cheerleading coach, t ball coach, whatever you need then not elevated to where you're going what you're doing when you come back. So it's different stages. Now I'm like do what the.

25:25 Fuck you want to do? Just come back alive. Who you going with? Where you going? What are you doing? All right? Sure? Sure, yeah, go, you know, because it's I don't know. I don't know either. I don't know. It's no, it's no right or wrong. It is no right or wrong. I just hope y'all don't suck up. And that's really what it is. But that's what anybody just don't make no you know, right from wrong? Yeah, So when when do you be Like, at what point do you say you be? Like, you know what, I can't help you right now? I can't. I'm not helping you again far as just shit, you should have an order by now or or is that always going to be there?

26:14 It's hard because I was talking to my daughter the other day and so it was so funny because like, so at one point I realized this little girl is me. Like once I realized she's me, it changed my whole way of interacting with her and talking to her. So, you know, we get into it. She'll hang up on me, don't call me for a month, and it be the most peaceful month, and then she'll call me back like, ain't nothing happened and I'm like, first of all, you do the same shit. So I was talking to her the other day and I was like, you can get mad at me, fuss at me, yell at me, hang up in my face, you ain't dealing with me no more, whatever, whatever.

26:59 But at the end of the day, if you were to call me now saying that you need me and you need me to help you, I'm gonna be there, Like that's the fucked up thinking about it, Like you was just treated me like shiit two weeks ago, But if you need me, I'm gonna be there like and that's how And she fucking know it, bru. These kids know it. They know that we could treat our parents like shit, but if we need them, they gonna be there. So I'm not to that point the where I really don't give a fuck because so this is my thing. I tell her, don't make me come up there, and and there's no need to elaborate, there's no need to go into it. That's not don't make me come up there, don't make me do it, don't make me just a yeah, because you know it's another part of my life.

27:41 Yeah, they know and and like you said that, they know it and they know it from age two and they know it like right now, mellow, she know it? She do? She probably she probably know from your body, from your tone of voice. No further, Yeah, yeah, all she'll sit there, I'll be I'll be in a different room for her, from her. From her. And she's crying and whiny. You think she's crying whine she's making all the noise you peep around the corner. She's on her phone like this, playing on her phone, whining and crying, acting like why she on her phone? Man? She man, I don't know. Man, she got you right here? She got hand? Is she a little girl?

28:24 Oh? She got you bad? I mean, but what are you? What are you supposed to do? Nothing? Exactly. It's like that's that's what gives me. People like, she got you wrapped around her? Dug, what else is she gonna have? That's what's supposed to be going on. Oh, nobody be like, oh ship, damn. You really don't give a fuck. She's all outside in the street running around. No, that ain't how it worked. It is what it is, just waiting. My moon won't come back because it's gonna be a wrap You talking about wait till Jordan. I mean, wait, wait man, you just wait. It's a rap. She about to be horrible because here to bring over and I'm rough. We went to the We went to the store the other day because you know, she did something good and it was like, we want to reward her with a toy.

29:06 We go to the store. You know, I was on the on the school. She'sooing around. No, she gonna push me on. She cheers me on. See me struggling. She'll be like, father, you can do it. You can do it for a good job, clapping all kinds of ship. It is so cute. So we have a handicapped thing on your car. No, we're gonna get one. We're gonna ask for one on the next visit. So so we get there, get to the store, going around the store, and each hour we go down, I got that, I got that, I got that. Oh, I got that. I got I'm like, fuck, damn. Like we we knew she had a lot of ship, but when you're there and she's pointing out all the ship that she has and we got it, I'm like, damn, that's bad.

29:52 It's not don't look at it like that, look at it like this. Think about when you were and able to get the child and your child that they want. So if anything, it's a blessing and it makes you reflect again. Got to practice that gratitude, Like I'm so grateful I'm in a place where I can get my child the things that they want. Like I'm like you, yeah, So it's like, don't it's not a bad thing. It's like I can afford to do the things that I couldn't do before. Because like I want to get your middle car. You don't have no license, but I've been thinking about, like I want to. I want to buy on my car, like I don't. The other two are going to be mad because I didn't. Well I did give Javana Carr and Jordan's had too, but still like I want to, like get him a car. And it's like I'm so grateful that I can even think about the process of purchasing him a vehicle. Like fifteen years ago, no, I would not even think about that, Like, but you broke you don't, so it's like you have to think about I'm in such a better place in life where she can say I have these things because my parents worked hard for it and afforded it to me, you know, like she won't know the struggle. No, she ain't exactly.

31:07 She gonna tell them people that she gonna tell them people at school. I see, oh man. See yeah, oh yeah, because what the fun? It's a flex and I got a phone, and I got a phone, and I got a phone, Like it's a flex. But you know, you got to look at it differently. That's true. That's true. I agree with that it is. But it's like damn, oh well, you know that's that's mellow. That's mellow. And my my other daughter, you know what I'm talking about. It is what it is. Man, she don't listen to the show anyway. My daughter. She asked me for help, like if a car acts up or whatnot.

31:50 You know, I for give me, give me a hundred, I'll pay the other three. You just pay me back this mount this and blah blah blah, I do it. I don't see it, but in my mind, I got I'm not gonna see it, you know, that's in my mind. If she gives me something back, wow, all right, cool, I don't see it. But this particular time, she asked me for one hundred and fifty dollars I'm like, she just got a new job. I'm like, all right, cool, you know what, I ain't got one hundred and fifty. I got a hundred, but I need this back when you get your check, like you said, all right, I got you. I got your still haven't seen it now.

32:30 In my eyes, I'm like, all right, this is the one where you well, I told you I needed it back. You said I'm gonna get my check on this day and you will have it back. You spoke to somebody saying, well, father needs this money back, so I gotta get I feel if you don't pay me back no other time, you should pay me back that time. Especially if I say I needed it. Yes, and not only that, it's gonna cut off any future assistance and it has Oh damn, that's hurt. I bet you didn't get it back. Now if she listens to the if she listened to the podcast, but. It's like, that's what That's why I asked, when do you just be like, you know what, I can't do it.

33:14 I can't do it because I'm like, you can't because yes, you can't see and I'm giving you just two examples. Those are two you can't. It's like, but this time it was like I need this, but she asked the missus to the missus misgiver at six o'clock in the morning, she got her money back. Oh well, hmmm, I don't know, man, I don't know. Is it just like that's father you should give you should give me money. Yeah, that's what it is. I'm a child. But then again, well I don't get shipp from my daddy that don't care. But my mother, Yeah, I'll give her money when she helped me and to help out. It's different.

34:05 It's tough. It's tough. I mean plus and they know you, they know you old softy, they know you're gonna come through again. You gotta not come through like two more times, for like two more times for her to learn her lesson. You got to tell her no for two more times. Do I need to add the reason why? I know? Like, look, no, no, because I told you she knows why. Don't even provide any explanation. That was a complete statement. No, she know why. It's all right, man, I agree, like I said, I just it's parenting thing. Is it's off? This more of a this is more of a Virgo to Hell episode. It is we called this from Virgo to Hell.

34:47 So because because I wanted to have my children on to see what type of parent I was. You know, he's gonna tell the truth. They're gonna be like just imagine Jordan sitting right here talking about kind of parents, and you'd be like, you can say whatever you want to say. What she's gonna. Say, mam, you treat my brother's better than me, exactly, she treated she treated the boys better than she treat me. That's what she gonna say. I know what she gonna say. But I mean, that's all right. I'm over it. You ain't over you're still ringing it up. She wouldn't be on my show. That's not the one I would have drawn. You can't have just the one you know, gonna talk good about you. That's not how this works about.

35:29 Yes, well you know what he said. He also says he's the favorite because. Get right on here and talk good about you. Well, no, Jamil, Jamil thinks I'm a weirdough, so that's what he would say. I'm weird. He thinks I'm a whole weirdo, but I am a weirdo, like he being. Wrong being a weirdough not wrong with it. But that's tough. It's tough. It's tough because especially like starting over, you don't remember none of that ship, like really starting over, like really first some people start over, but this is really starting over. I remember when we're walking out the house, we don't have nothing but the baby, no nothing, just the no bags, no nothing. Oh well, we was just free balling. We just you was just freestyling.

36:22 That's what I was thinking about. Like in order for even Jasmin to come visit, there's so many changes I have to make to my house to make sure it is babyproof because now she's walking and running and shit, messing with stuff. And you know what, that's funny, like with Meil, like we got all the things over, the plugs and shit, she's never in her life been over by one. Like we got the things, we got the things to hold up the cabinet shut. She'll walk by and see it unhooked and she'll hook it back up. So it's like none of that ship has never bothered. And I feel like if it's another if we have another child in here, they do everything she didn't do. And that's all that's all I got for that. You got any anything else?

37:05 You would like to before we get out of here. Let me see that I text you anything else. So this lost episode? Oh that was the one way you was crying like a bitch? Was it? Was? It? What? And I'm like, what episode? I said, we were talking? It was with your cousin. She was on and I said you would it's fucked up. You were just talking about stuff and you was like getting a little attitude. I said, damn, is everything all right at home? Just playing? And boy, that was it. I need to listen to that. I ain't got it no more. Oh man, what is it? You deleted it? Yeah, it's gonna it's just it. I didn't think I deleted it, but it might be on some SD card somewhere.

37:49 But yeah, it was. It was bad. It was bad about it. I'm gonna have to ask about it. Because she was sitting. Right there like, I hope you still recording you crying like a mother, And I'm like, and then she's gonna reach cross, pat you on the back on my lit it out, lit it out. She got one hand patty on the back, the other hand like keep the glooding this ship. Yes, I'm gonna. Ask about it. I bet she remember it. I bet she so speaking of podcasts, So we were supposed to record an episode while we was down there, mind you her her show is on hiatus. My show is on hiatus. It really was just some ship for us to do. Yeah, so I'm like, well, when we record this episode, but how are we going to really doing?

38:43 You have no show. It's just me there, we. Have no show, Like, what the fuck, We're just doing it for ships and giggles like, and we never recorded because I didn't. Make no sense. I was. I was thinking about that. And because that was because she was like, I guess it's for like content later on. So if anything miss my show, you miss your show, like for real, Like I'm gonna lie so listening when I was listening to the old episodes yesterday, I was like, Yo. People like good like your show man, A lot of people like your show. I missed my show. So we got we gotta talk to come back because I missed my show.

39:26 Once we get the three thousand dollars a month, you can fire that bits back. Up at first five thousand. Oh yeah you did, Yeah it was five thousand, but like between three and five, we get the three thousand dollars a month. You can have a show. We'll fire that bitch right on up. Wait till this EP drop that get us, get us? Oh man, I got one more. I got one now, all right, this is like off of all the subjects. All right, it's kind of on them, all right, but you know, you know I'm hurt, so I'm not moving on. I'm sitting. I'm sitting in the recliner, leg propped up.

40:07 I hear conversation in the kitchen. This is with Miss Monique and Miss baby Mama. They talking on the phone about me. Miss Monique said, yeah, your baby daddy didn't hurt itself. I hear her say, yeah, you better tell your husband to sit his ass down. This is This is a conversation. I mean, like what and then it ends like this, I love you, I love you too. And I'm sitting there, I'm like, this is like some bullshit almost, it's almost it's like it's not the bullshit day relationship. It's the bullshit. And they're talking about me.

40:50 That's bullshit. Yeah, you better tell you that you need to sit this old lass down some way. But I talked. I talked with you. I didn't say like I said. I didn't say anything was wrong with it. It's just listening to them talk about me. Yeah, it's it's one day. One day. We're all in here, like she's here too, We all in the front. We're just talking. Big Tie walks through the door. He was He looks and just stops, like the going on. In here down, like wait a minute, this is not supposed to be having.

41:32 But it wasn't that type of part. It was all cool, man. But I just thought that was funny just to sit there and be like. It's actually really sweet. Like I'm just shaking my head, like really, y'all are like really talking and about me. Yeah, I mean that's grown that's grown up ship. Oh yeah, that's grown up sh for really, I've never i ain't never been on some I've never wanted to have that relationship with it, like it's like we too. That's a whole other episode. Oh man, Oh funny ship. So because we were talking about funny things from the episode child Support, that ship cracked me up about when he called me a bitch in the courtrooms. Funny when I tell you, ILL cracked up all over again, Like I had never heard these episodes or said these words that ship was so fucking funny.

42:28 Like a lot of ship. It's like it's like throughout your episodes once again, y'all go back and listen. They're still there. Virgo to Hells, Virgo Vixen, and yours truly the bike seat to And you made. Me crying the episode. That was what I needed to say. So it was one episode and you was talking about how you're not gonna be as vocal anymore, You're just gonna be there, and I started crying, and because I was like the fun like I really started crying the episode, and you was like, calm down, calm down, like you really ain't here crying. It was such a crime, and that was funny, like listening to the interaction. Like I process, like you really crying, right man?

43:10 Yeah you didn't. It was like calm down the fuck because and it wasn't even nothing to your emotion. For all you said was I'm about to back up a little bit. It was after I did this solo episode and it was like, yeah, you know, you see the direction I'm going in and I'm about to, you know, just step from behind the maple. And I was like, wait, what you mean? Like the fuck does that mean in his bitch crime, Like you can just hear me. Hey, man, it happens, Man, it happens. But yeah, go back and check out those episodes. There's some good episodes, and you see the evolution of Miss Virgo Vixen from here today. Because she started out she talked about saying names.

43:55 She didn't want to say no, maybe name. She didn't want to say nothing thing when nobody can be like, oh she's talking about She didn't want to say none of that. Then after a while I was like fuck it. Yeah, So that being said, thank you, miss Laura, Thank you, Miss Laura, thank you aj thank you, A, thank you Amelia, thank you Amelia, thank you, doctor Maxie, doctor Carter, miss Monique, everybody, thank you all for getting me through this. I might send you all some donuts. I've definitely seen some grumpy old grumpy old rich bad.

44:37 Ship. Oh that's it, man, if you got anything, got anything to the people. When it's when this album releases? When where the album released? Party gonna be wait, the listening party. So we have to coordinate because she lives on on the you know, she lives on virtue one. Virtue No, I really want to do I really want to do a listener party. I'm not even gonna lie. We got three songs, dude, stop it. It's a coming out with songs that are two minutes long. Our songs are look. Now, but when they have an album released parties. No skip on the three song EP, that's good. You ain't got much of you if you skip twice the bitch over, So that's that's a good point to make. No skips is awesome on the three song e B God and not a sixteen song album.

45:34 Lord, we got stage, James, and we got a art we got. A name for what's the name of group? It ain't ready. I ain't telling you, man, I want. To know the name of the group. You already not let me release the songs on the earth? The name of the group? What's your stage name, cheries, what's the name of the group? Huh? What's the name of the group? The group. Whatever? So if you don't want to say it on the show, you better not ever tell me. Because afterwards, yeah, afterwards, I'm gonna. Say it on the next episode. Tell you not, I won't.

46:15 I gotta I got to get permission from my teammate. Just tat the name of the group. Yeah, I got it. We are team. Well, you gotta shake your head something like that. We are not to sell the city girls. We are not breaking up. You're talking like a damn he she we had team. We have teen. Oh ship man? All right, man, once again, I want you all to follows on all social media platforms. That's Grumpy Old Mixtape across the board. Be sure to join Grumpy Old TV on YouTube. Rate likee subscribe, Tell a friend to tell a friend to tell one more motherfucker that you're innad fucking with you. God damn boys, shout out.

47:01 Big time and hope you feel better. I don't know what's wrong. He probably sick, and I think I just said that. They try to make it more business like, but then I fucking all the business up at the end of the show. He just fucking That was another episode where he was fussing at me about being sick and had me crying on the phone and his ass was sick. So yeah, I remember that, ship ty, and we want to talk about that later. Episode. Yeah we have we guess I put that out and I cut it short. Yeah that's the day we became family. Yeah sure, but yeah, shout out once again and like I said about this time, if I tell you that a duck can pull a truck to shut up and hook the fuck up Big trade, shut out, shout out, shout out, Oh ship mm hm