Dating Episodes

Are you interested in hearing more from gainers and feedists about how their relationships function? Then the Dating eps are for you! In each episode, we explore the experiences and perspectives of gainers and feedists from across the globe, and uncover how their relationships came to be, and how they function. We tackle the common queries and sometimes, we get salacious with the answers!
March 18, 2025

DTT: Gainin' n' Datin' (w/biggerisbest7, laissezsusan, & thegainproject)

This week, we sit down with a selection of guests to discuss the intersectional wants and needs when it comes to feedist dating. What are the common pitfalls? And what's the secret to a prosperous relationship? Who are we? We...
Sept. 3, 2024

Dating: I'm a Side (w/chubbyalex571)

This week, we discuss the subject of dating while being a Side. We're all familiar with being Top, Bottom and Vers, but what does this new sexual position mean? And how does it align with the gaining journey? Who are we? We'r...
July 16, 2024

Dating: Gainer4Encourager (w/onethembosjourney)

This week, we discuss the gainer and encourager dating dynamic. How does it work? And does it meet the expectations that we build up in our minds? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to explore everything ab...
Feb. 14, 2024

Bonus: Happy Love Handles Day, Everyone! (w/superjere & feedmyman500)

In this bonus episode, we talk about all things romance on this Valentine's Day special! What goes into making a gainer relationship work? And how do we look after one another when challenges come our way? Who are we? We're J...
Feb. 6, 2024

Straight Talk: The Dating Experience (w/feedxmexdaddyyy)

This week, we discuss the dating experience in the feedist community. What are feedees looking for? And what red flags should folk look out for? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to explore everything abou...
Aug. 29, 2023

Dating: Married (w/brave_heart_lion1 & aryastarch)

This week, we explore the reality of marriage; what does that look like when gaining is involved? And what kinds of hurdles need to be overcome along the way? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to explore e...
June 14, 2022

Dating: Polyamory and Constellations (w/pup_bearzy)

This week, we explore polyamory and what it looks like; we look at what cheating means, and we consider how a polyamorous relationship might benefit the gaining lifestyle. Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want...
Nov. 23, 2021

Dating: Gainers, Big and Small (w/sneakyseabear & art_with_ghosts)

This week, we explore relationships with two gainers, but with an existing difference in size; is it a relationship like everyone else's, or does it come with its own unique experiences? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two g...
Sept. 7, 2021

Dating: Gainer4Civilian

This week, we discuss dating, specifically the experience of being a gainer and dating civilians. We explore the different experiences, what they mean for both parties and how they connect. Who are we? We're James and Tim; tw...