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Nov. 5, 2025

Common Fear-Based Objections to Grace (028)

When grace shows up, resistance follows. From religious and church traditions to personal objections, we walk through some of the fear-based objections people raise concerning grace and the surprising freedom that comes when ...

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Sept. 30, 2025

Gospel Add-Ons (027)

In this episode we talk about the simplicity of the gospel and how we clutter it up and make it complicated with add-ons. But it isn't complicated. Join us as we talk about Susan's recent church visit and we take a look back ...

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Sept. 23, 2025

Life Changes, Growing Older, and What Matters Most (026)

In this episode of The Grace Cafe we talk about life changes and what's important and what isn't as we grow older and grace becomes more important than ever. _____________________________ Other places you'll find us: The Grac...

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June 15, 2025

Is Jesus a Role Model? (025)

Many people try to live like Jesus, thinking that's what makes them right with God. But if Jesus is only our role model, we’re left with an impossible standard. When Jesus is viewed only as a role model, as is often the case ...

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March 10, 2025

Come Untangled: Breaking Free from Religious Control (024)

Has religion tied you down instead of setting you free? In this episode, we share some of our own experiences in escaping the religious mindset so prevalent in many institutional churches. We talk about the dangers of rigid l...

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Feb. 10, 2025

Why We Lose Friends When We Leave The Institutional Church (023)

In this episode of The Grace Cafe podcast we start out by talking about why we lose friends when we leave the institutional church. Then our conversation turns to an analogy from C.S Lewis' book, The Voyage of the Dawn Treade...

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Dec. 15, 2024

All Sufficient Grace (022)

In this episode of The Grace Cafe, we talk about grace in the midst of suffering in the context of Mike's cancer and his ongoing treatments. In the institutional box church, where one-size-fits-all is the assumed norm, our pe...

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Dec. 8, 2024

Covenant Confusion: A Conversation With Mike Kapler (021)

This episode of The Grace Cafe is a conversation from 2018 that Mike had with Mike Kapler of the Growing in Grace podcast. It centers around the content of Mike Kapler's book, Clash Of The Covenants: Escaping Religious Bondag...

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Nov. 30, 2024

Set Free to Be Free: A Conversation with Nora Shaw (020)

In this episode of The Grace Cafe we reached back to episode 50 of the old Grace Cafe podcast to a conversation Susan had with our late friend Nora Shaw. This is an energizing conversation about the freedom Jesus intends for ...

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May 23, 2024

Mike's Health Update (019)

I am posting this conversation on The UnSunday Show podcast as well as here. It's a short health update from yours truly. Push play and give it a listen and thank you for following my podcasts! I was recently invited to speak...

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April 28, 2024

Sin Management (018)

Welcome to the Grace Cafe! We're Mike and Susan, AKA, The Husband and Wife Grace Team! In this episode we talk about the dark side of sin management and the sin police in institutional church and religion. ___________________...

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March 31, 2024

Who We Are in Jesus: A Deep Dive Into The Gospel of Grace with Matt M…

Who are we in Jesus? Is there anything lacking in our new identity in Jesus? Is the cross enough? Are we ever not doing enough? Does God expect more from us? Is God ever disappointed in you? Is there a list of things we need ...

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March 24, 2024

The Holy Spirit: Friend or Foe? (016)

In this episode of The Grace Cafe, we talk about the Holy Spirit and how religion and the box church give us a version of the Holy Spirit that's more like an angry mobster than a comforter and loving friend. Along the way we ...

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March 17, 2024

Breaking Point with Amber Stephens (015)

Our friend Amber joins us in this episode. In her own words, each of us has two stories; a life story and a faith story. Amber shares both of her stories and the breaking points that led to her seeing grace as grace and a ret...

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March 3, 2024

Freedom That Leads to Rest (014)

Welcome to The Grace Cafe! In this episode we talk about the freedom we have in Jesus and how this freedom allows us to rest from our own works and effort. But organized church and organized religion redefines freedom and res...

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Feb. 11, 2024

Under Grace The Pressure Is Off (013)

Welcome to episode 13 of the Grace Cafe podcast. This episode is a conversation about how religion and institutional church dilutes grace with performance goals designed to keep the institution alive. There is no rest apart f...

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Feb. 4, 2024

Rooted and Grounded in Grace (012)

Welcome to episode 12 of the newly relaunched Grace Cafe Podcast. In this episode we talk about the importance of being rooted and grounded in the grace of the New Covenant. The write of the letter to the Hebrews put it like ...

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Jan. 28, 2024

A Look Back At Why We Left Religion and the Institutional Church (011)

This episode is a look back at our journey out of institutional church. Leaving religion and coming into a better knowledge of grace was a years-long process for us. Being a pastor in a high-performance based church setting f...

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Jan. 21, 2024

Life Update From The Grace Cafe (10)

Welcome to episode 10 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. In this first episode of 2024 we update you on what's been happening with us, including Mike's recent health scare, a little bit of our back story, and our current dilemma of c...

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Oct. 18, 2023

A Weaponized Faith (09)

Welcome to episode 9 of The Grace Cafe podcast. This is a past episode (98) of the old Grace Cafe from New Year's Eve, 2020 that we wanted to share with you. In it, we talk about ways Christianity has weaponized faith and th...

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Oct. 4, 2023

The Leftover Scars of Complimentarianism (08)

Complimentarianism and hierarchy are not neutral. They are harmful to the people in it, especially women and children, and they are in opposition to the gospel of New Covenant grace. In this final installment of our series on...

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Sept. 20, 2023

Can Women Be Pastors? (07)

We're closing in on the end of our series on women in the church. The topic in this episode is Can Women Be Pastors? One objection to women pastors that is raised by those opposing the idea is that Paul told Timothy an elder ...

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Sept. 6, 2023

Headship and Submission (06)

Welcome to episode 6 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. We're continuing our topic of women in the church and how historically, the church's view of woman has been harmful and abusive. It's not a good track record. In this episode we...

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Aug. 23, 2023

Did The Law of Moses Silence Women? A Second Glance at 1 Corinthians …

We're continuing with the overall topic we started back in episode 2 of women in the church. More specifically, how the institutional church has weaponized certain verses in the New Covenant scriptures and used them against w...

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