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It IS true that 'you are good enough the way you are'.

You are special.

You are lovable.

You are allowed to just be YOU.

But those ideas are INCOMPLETE truths.

You were also designed, created, and evolved to continually aim to become YOUR best version of you.

So you'll never feel completely content remaining the way you are now.

No matter how many times you tell it to yourself.

The only way to be completely fulfilled is to regularly work on letting your inner light shine...

To get comfortable with discomfort, because that is how you grow...

To become self-aware enough to know when to give yourself grace and when to push yourself harder.

Because loving yourself for who you ARE -- and being discontent for who you've not yet BECOME...

...being grateful for the progress you've made -- and being dissatisfied with the results you've gotten so far --

-- are two sides of the same coin.

And wholeness comes when you learn to hold and operate by these two seemingly opposing viewpoints.

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