The Essential Nature of the Inner Attitude in Relation to Meeting the Challenges or Deciding on the Direction of One's Life

0:00 In the Bhagwad Gita, Arjuna asks how one can identify a realized soul. His question indicates there should be some outward sign that can be observed. Sri Krishna, however, demurs and indicates it is not by any specific outward action or formation that such a soul can be recognized. Everything depends on the inner standpoint, or as the Mother calls it, the inner attitude. The mother observes quote. There are very many things one does and about which one is not in the habit of thinking beforehand. When the circumstance comes, one obeys it, so to say. And indeed these things, like almost everything one does in life, are not important in themselves. The only thing that matters is the attitude with which they are done, the fact that you do something because that action is present there before you for one reason or another, and that you are, so to say, always obliged to act as long as you are in the outer life.

1:11 All this has a certain importance from the point of view of the management of life. If these acts are liable to have far reaching consequences in life, As for example, getting married, we're going to live in one place or another, we're taking up one occupation or another, these things are generally considered important, and they are so to a certain extent. But even for them, from the point of view of yoga, everything depends much more on the attitude 1 takes than on the thing itself. And so, above all, for all the very small actions of daily life, the importance is reduced to a minimum.

1:57 One may try to find out what is the truest thing to do, but it is not by a mental discussion or a mental problem that these things can be resolved. It is in fact by an inner attitude which creates an atmosphere of harmony, progressive harmony, in which all one does will necessarily be the best thing that could be done in those particular circumstances. And the ideal would be an attitude complete enough for the action to be spontaneous, dictated by something other than an outer reason. But that's an ideal for which one must aspire and which one can realize after some time. Till then, to take care always to keep the true attitude, the true aspiration, is much more important than to decide whether one will do gymnastic marching or not, and whether one will go to a certain class or not, because these things have no real importance in themselves.

3:02 They have only an altogether relative importance. The only important thing is just to keep the true orientation in one's aspiration and a living will for progress. End Quote Reference Srioro Bindu and the Mother Looking from within, Chapter 1. Looking at Life and Circumstances, pages 8 to 9.