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Oct. 1, 2024

The Dreams of Childhood Are the Realities of Mature Age

The Dreams of Childhood Are the Realities of Mature Age

reference: Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, Powers Within, Chapter III Imagination, pp. 34-35 This episode is also available as a blog post at https://sriaurobindostudies.wordpress.com/2024/09/27/the-dreams-of-childhood-are-the-realities-of-mature-age/

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Most individuals wind up having
to abandon their childhood

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dreams and aspirations.
They follow the career path set

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before them by their society,
their family, their teachers,

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and their peers.
Yet in most cases, they never

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fully lose their deeper
aspiration, which surfaced in

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their childhood before they were
fully indoctrinated in the ways

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of the world.
This may rise as a midlife

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crisis, as a sense of failure,
regret, loss or lack of meaning

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for their lives, or a turn to
alcohol or drugs to dull the

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inner sense of meaninglessness
of how they have invested their

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lives.
Or a feeling of emptiness when

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they realize that happiness
eludes them despite the career,

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the family, the house, the cars,
the bank accounts.

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In some instances, it leads to a
new direction, a new inspiration

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and a new birth, so to speak,
when they realize that they have

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strayed from their dreams as a
child.

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One individual case we witnessed
in the recent past involves

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someone who came from a highly
political family.

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He was pushed to high office,
eventually succeeding to one of

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the highest positions in the
political world.

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He was not cut out for that life
and struggled with it.

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Eventually he retired and took
up art and painting, and one

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could see the joy he could now
express once he could follow his

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artistic dreams.
Not every childhood dream,

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imagination or aspiration is for
spiritual knowledge.

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Many come with specific dreams
to focus on music, art, dance,

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sports, science, exploration,
etcetera, etcetera.

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Those who are circumstanced to
follow their line of approach

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with the support of their family
sometimes can take a very direct

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route to accomplishment.
In other instances, it takes

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time and much suffering to
eventually come back to the

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vision of youth, the mother
observes.

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Quote.
One must have a lively power of

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imagination, for I seem to be
telling you stupid things, but

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it's quite true.
There is a world in which you

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are the supreme maker of forms.
That is your own particular

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vital world.
You are the supreme fashioner

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and you can make a marvel of
your world if you know how to

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use it, if you have an artistic
or poetic consciousness, if you

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love harmony, beauty, you will
build there something marvellous

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which will tend to spring up
into the material manifestation.

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When I was small, I used to call
this telling stories to oneself.

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It is not at all a telling with
words in one's head.

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It is a going away to this place
which is fresh and pure and

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building up a wonderful story
there.

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And if you know how to tell
yourself a story in this way,

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and if it is truly beautiful,
truly harmonious, truly powerful

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and well coordinated, this story
will be realized in your life.

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Perhaps not exactly in the form
in which you created it, but as

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a more or less changed physical
expression of what you made.

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That may take years, perhaps,
but your story will tend to

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organize your life.
But there are very few people

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who know how to tell a beautiful
story, and then they always mix

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horrors in it, which they regret
later.

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If one could create a
magnificent story without any

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horror in it, nothing but
beauty, it would have a

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considerable influence on
everyone's life.

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And this is what people don't
know.

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If one knew how to use this
power, this creative power in

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the world of vital forms, if one
knew how to use this while yet a

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child, a very small child, for
it is then that one fashions his

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material destiny.
But usually people around you,

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sometimes even your own little
friends, but mostly parents and

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teachers, dabble in it and spoil
everything for you so well that

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very seldom does the thing
succeed completely.

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But otherwise, if it were done
like that, with the spontaneous

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candor of a child, you could
organize a wonderful life for

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yourself.
I am Speaking of the physical

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world.
The dreams of childhood are the

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realities of mature age.
End Quote.

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Reference Sri Aurobindo and the
Mother, Powers within, Chapter

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3.
Imagination, pages 34 to 35.