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Restraining the Response to the Impulses Attractive to the Vital Nature Is the First Step Towards Mastery

Restraining the Response to the Impulses Attractive to the Vital Nature Is the First Step Towards Mastery

reference: Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, Looking from Within , Chapter 4, Ordeals and Difficulties, pp.78-80This episode is also available as a blog post at https://sriaurobindostudies.wordpress.com/2025/05/17/restraining-the-response-to-the-impulses-attractive-to-the-vital-nature-is-the-first-step-towards-mastery/

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A lesson in control of impulses
was described by Homer in The

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Odyssey.
The protagonist, Odysseus, is on

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his ship trying to return home
after the Trojan War.

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He approaches an area that was
home to the Sirens, whose

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alluring voices would lure
sailors to their death.

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As the ships crashed among the
rocks, he wanted to experience

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the call of the Sirens without
succumbing to their force.

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He had his crew stuff their ears
with wax and then had himself

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tied firmly to the mast so that
he could not do anything to

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steer the ship towards them.
He successfully experienced the

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magnetic force of the Siren's
call while saving his ship and

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crew from destruction.
We can learn several things from

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this.
First, that survival sometimes

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requires the ability to tune out
the forces that try to get us to

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act.
Second, even a mental knowledge

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in advance of the doom awaiting
any response is insufficient to

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prevent an individual from
reacting and responding to

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certain forces, thus
necessitating restraints that

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prevent the response from
manifesting.

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Third, some forces are so
powerful that they are

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difficult, if not virtually
impossible, to resist.

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This tale illustrates the
difficulty the seeker faces when

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he confronts the inducements and
enjoyments that the vital nature

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seeks and tries to control them.
The mother advises us that

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development of the strength to
resist these calls is something

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that can occur, but it takes
time and continued effort as one

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slowly builds up the inner
strength of resistance through

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repeated practice in exercising
restraint.

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The 1st and most important step
is to not give in to the impulse

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one way or the other, similar to
the steps Odysseus had to take

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to successfully resist the lure.
The shift to the witness

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consciousness of the nature is
an enormous aid in accomplishing

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this, as the individual creates
some amount of distance between

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his conscious awareness and the
actions of the nature, thus

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making it somewhat easier to
detach oneself from the

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enjoyments and allures that the
vital nature seeks and desires.

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The mother writes.
Quote.

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It happens only when you have
decided, Well, this time I am

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going to try not to do it and I
shall not do it.

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I shall apply all my strength
and I shall not do it.

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Even if you have just a little
success, it is much not a big

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success, but just a small
success, a very partial success.

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You do not carry out what you
yearn to do, but the yearning,

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the desire, the passion is still
there, and that produces worlds

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within but outside.
You resist.

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I shall not do it, I shall not
move.

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Even if I have to bind myself
hand and foot, I shall not do

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it.
It is a partial success, but it

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is a great victory because due
to this, next time you will be

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able to do a little more.
That is to say, instead of

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holding all the violent passions
within yourself, you can begin

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calming them a little, and you
will calm them slowly at first,

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with difficulty.
They will remain long, they will

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come back, they will trouble
you, vex you, produce in you a

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great disgust, all that.
But if you resist well and say

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no, I shall carry out nothing,
whatever the cost, I shall not

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carry out anything.
I will stay like a rock.

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Then little by little, little by
little, that thins out, thins

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out, and you begin to learn the
second attitude.

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Now I want my consciousness to
be above those things.

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There will steep still be many
battles, but if my consciousness

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stands above that, little by
little there will come a time

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when this will return no longer.
And then there is a time when

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you feel that you are absolutely
free, you do not even perceive

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it, and then that is all.
It may take a long time, it may

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come soon.
That depends on the strength of

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character, on the sincerity of
the aspiration.

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But even for people who have
just a little sincerity, if they

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subject themselves to this
process, they succeed.

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It takes time.
They succeed in the first item,

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in not expressing.
All forces upon earth tend

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towards expressing themselves.
These forces come with the

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object of manifesting
themselves, and if you place a

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barrier and refuse expression,
they may try to beat against the

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barrier for a time, but in the
end they will tire themselves

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out and not being manifested,
they will withdraw and leave you

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quiet.
So you must never say I shall

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first purify my thought, purify
my body, purify my vital, and

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then later I shall purify my
action.

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That is the normal order, but it
never succeeds.

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The effective order is to begin
from the outside.

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The very first thing is that I
do not do it, and afterwards I

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desire it no longer.
And next I close my doors

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completely to all impulses.
They no longer exist for me.

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I am now outside all that.
This is the true order, the

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order that is effective first
not to do it, and then you will

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no longer desire, and after that
it will go out of your

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consciousness completely.
End Quote.

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Reference.
Fiora window and the Mother

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looking from within.
Chapter 4, Ordeals and

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Difficulties, pages 78 to 80.