May 19, 2025
Restraining the Response to the Impulses Attractive to the Vital Nature Is the First Step Towards Mastery
reference: Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, Looking from Within , Chapter 4, Ordeals and Difficulties, pp.78-80This episode is also available as a blog post at https://sriaurobindostudies.wordpress.com/2025/05/17/restraining-the-response-to-the-impulses-attractive-to-the-vital-nature-is-the-first-step-towards-mastery/
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1
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A lesson in control of impulses
was described by Homer in The
2
00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:08,960
Odyssey.
The protagonist, Odysseus, is on
3
00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,280
his ship trying to return home
after the Trojan War.
4
00:00:13,120 --> 00:00:16,800
He approaches an area that was
home to the Sirens, whose
5
00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,800
alluring voices would lure
sailors to their death.
6
00:00:20,240 --> 00:00:24,840
As the ships crashed among the
rocks, he wanted to experience
7
00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,040
the call of the Sirens without
succumbing to their force.
8
00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:33,840
He had his crew stuff their ears
with wax and then had himself
9
00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:37,880
tied firmly to the mast so that
he could not do anything to
10
00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:42,480
steer the ship towards them.
He successfully experienced the
11
00:00:42,480 --> 00:00:47,280
magnetic force of the Siren's
call while saving his ship and
12
00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:52,240
crew from destruction.
We can learn several things from
13
00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,480
this.
First, that survival sometimes
14
00:00:55,480 --> 00:01:00,040
requires the ability to tune out
the forces that try to get us to
15
00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,920
act.
Second, even a mental knowledge
16
00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:09,280
in advance of the doom awaiting
any response is insufficient to
17
00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,360
prevent an individual from
reacting and responding to
18
00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:16,880
certain forces, thus
necessitating restraints that
19
00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,120
prevent the response from
manifesting.
20
00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:24,240
Third, some forces are so
powerful that they are
21
00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:28,640
difficult, if not virtually
impossible, to resist.
22
00:01:30,320 --> 00:01:34,120
This tale illustrates the
difficulty the seeker faces when
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00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,000
he confronts the inducements and
enjoyments that the vital nature
24
00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:44,080
seeks and tries to control them.
The mother advises us that
25
00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:47,520
development of the strength to
resist these calls is something
26
00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:53,240
that can occur, but it takes
time and continued effort as one
27
00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:57,640
slowly builds up the inner
strength of resistance through
28
00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,960
repeated practice in exercising
restraint.
29
00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:07,000
The 1st and most important step
is to not give in to the impulse
30
00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:11,800
one way or the other, similar to
the steps Odysseus had to take
31
00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:17,600
to successfully resist the lure.
The shift to the witness
32
00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,160
consciousness of the nature is
an enormous aid in accomplishing
33
00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:25,520
this, as the individual creates
some amount of distance between
34
00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:30,040
his conscious awareness and the
actions of the nature, thus
35
00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,280
making it somewhat easier to
detach oneself from the
36
00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:38,200
enjoyments and allures that the
vital nature seeks and desires.
37
00:02:39,920 --> 00:02:41,520
The mother writes.
Quote.
38
00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:47,160
It happens only when you have
decided, Well, this time I am
39
00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,560
going to try not to do it and I
shall not do it.
40
00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,240
I shall apply all my strength
and I shall not do it.
41
00:02:55,520 --> 00:03:00,800
Even if you have just a little
success, it is much not a big
42
00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:05,920
success, but just a small
success, a very partial success.
43
00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:10,960
You do not carry out what you
yearn to do, but the yearning,
44
00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:16,760
the desire, the passion is still
there, and that produces worlds
45
00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,920
within but outside.
You resist.
46
00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,760
I shall not do it, I shall not
move.
47
00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:29,040
Even if I have to bind myself
hand and foot, I shall not do
48
00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,880
it.
It is a partial success, but it
49
00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:38,640
is a great victory because due
to this, next time you will be
50
00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,440
able to do a little more.
That is to say, instead of
51
00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:46,600
holding all the violent passions
within yourself, you can begin
52
00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:50,960
calming them a little, and you
will calm them slowly at first,
53
00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:55,680
with difficulty.
They will remain long, they will
54
00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:00,680
come back, they will trouble
you, vex you, produce in you a
55
00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:05,760
great disgust, all that.
But if you resist well and say
56
00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:11,240
no, I shall carry out nothing,
whatever the cost, I shall not
57
00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,520
carry out anything.
I will stay like a rock.
58
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Then little by little, little by
little, that thins out, thins
59
00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,920
out, and you begin to learn the
second attitude.
60
00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,840
Now I want my consciousness to
be above those things.
61
00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,920
There will steep still be many
battles, but if my consciousness
62
00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:38,480
stands above that, little by
little there will come a time
63
00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:44,200
when this will return no longer.
And then there is a time when
64
00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:49,000
you feel that you are absolutely
free, you do not even perceive
65
00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:55,160
it, and then that is all.
It may take a long time, it may
66
00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,160
come soon.
That depends on the strength of
67
00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,760
character, on the sincerity of
the aspiration.
68
00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:07,240
But even for people who have
just a little sincerity, if they
69
00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,720
subject themselves to this
process, they succeed.
70
00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,680
It takes time.
They succeed in the first item,
71
00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:19,480
in not expressing.
All forces upon earth tend
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towards expressing themselves.
These forces come with the
73
00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,320
object of manifesting
themselves, and if you place a
74
00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:31,280
barrier and refuse expression,
they may try to beat against the
75
00:05:31,280 --> 00:05:35,840
barrier for a time, but in the
end they will tire themselves
76
00:05:35,840 --> 00:05:40,240
out and not being manifested,
they will withdraw and leave you
77
00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:45,000
quiet.
So you must never say I shall
78
00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:51,080
first purify my thought, purify
my body, purify my vital, and
79
00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,840
then later I shall purify my
action.
80
00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,160
That is the normal order, but it
never succeeds.
81
00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,240
The effective order is to begin
from the outside.
82
00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:08,200
The very first thing is that I
do not do it, and afterwards I
83
00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:12,240
desire it no longer.
And next I close my doors
84
00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:16,480
completely to all impulses.
They no longer exist for me.
85
00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:22,040
I am now outside all that.
This is the true order, the
86
00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:28,240
order that is effective first
not to do it, and then you will
87
00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:32,880
no longer desire, and after that
it will go out of your
88
00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:36,080
consciousness completely.
End Quote.
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00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,920
Reference.
Fiora window and the Mother
90
00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,640
looking from within.
Chapter 4, Ordeals and
91
00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,240
Difficulties, pages 78 to 80.
00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,720
A lesson in control of impulses
was described by Homer in The
2
00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:08,960
Odyssey.
The protagonist, Odysseus, is on
3
00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,280
his ship trying to return home
after the Trojan War.
4
00:00:13,120 --> 00:00:16,800
He approaches an area that was
home to the Sirens, whose
5
00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,800
alluring voices would lure
sailors to their death.
6
00:00:20,240 --> 00:00:24,840
As the ships crashed among the
rocks, he wanted to experience
7
00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,040
the call of the Sirens without
succumbing to their force.
8
00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:33,840
He had his crew stuff their ears
with wax and then had himself
9
00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:37,880
tied firmly to the mast so that
he could not do anything to
10
00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:42,480
steer the ship towards them.
He successfully experienced the
11
00:00:42,480 --> 00:00:47,280
magnetic force of the Siren's
call while saving his ship and
12
00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:52,240
crew from destruction.
We can learn several things from
13
00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,480
this.
First, that survival sometimes
14
00:00:55,480 --> 00:01:00,040
requires the ability to tune out
the forces that try to get us to
15
00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,920
act.
Second, even a mental knowledge
16
00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:09,280
in advance of the doom awaiting
any response is insufficient to
17
00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,360
prevent an individual from
reacting and responding to
18
00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:16,880
certain forces, thus
necessitating restraints that
19
00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,120
prevent the response from
manifesting.
20
00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:24,240
Third, some forces are so
powerful that they are
21
00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:28,640
difficult, if not virtually
impossible, to resist.
22
00:01:30,320 --> 00:01:34,120
This tale illustrates the
difficulty the seeker faces when
23
00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,000
he confronts the inducements and
enjoyments that the vital nature
24
00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:44,080
seeks and tries to control them.
The mother advises us that
25
00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:47,520
development of the strength to
resist these calls is something
26
00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:53,240
that can occur, but it takes
time and continued effort as one
27
00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:57,640
slowly builds up the inner
strength of resistance through
28
00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,960
repeated practice in exercising
restraint.
29
00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:07,000
The 1st and most important step
is to not give in to the impulse
30
00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:11,800
one way or the other, similar to
the steps Odysseus had to take
31
00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:17,600
to successfully resist the lure.
The shift to the witness
32
00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,160
consciousness of the nature is
an enormous aid in accomplishing
33
00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:25,520
this, as the individual creates
some amount of distance between
34
00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:30,040
his conscious awareness and the
actions of the nature, thus
35
00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,280
making it somewhat easier to
detach oneself from the
36
00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:38,200
enjoyments and allures that the
vital nature seeks and desires.
37
00:02:39,920 --> 00:02:41,520
The mother writes.
Quote.
38
00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:47,160
It happens only when you have
decided, Well, this time I am
39
00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,560
going to try not to do it and I
shall not do it.
40
00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,240
I shall apply all my strength
and I shall not do it.
41
00:02:55,520 --> 00:03:00,800
Even if you have just a little
success, it is much not a big
42
00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:05,920
success, but just a small
success, a very partial success.
43
00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:10,960
You do not carry out what you
yearn to do, but the yearning,
44
00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:16,760
the desire, the passion is still
there, and that produces worlds
45
00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,920
within but outside.
You resist.
46
00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,760
I shall not do it, I shall not
move.
47
00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:29,040
Even if I have to bind myself
hand and foot, I shall not do
48
00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,880
it.
It is a partial success, but it
49
00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:38,640
is a great victory because due
to this, next time you will be
50
00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,440
able to do a little more.
That is to say, instead of
51
00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:46,600
holding all the violent passions
within yourself, you can begin
52
00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:50,960
calming them a little, and you
will calm them slowly at first,
53
00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:55,680
with difficulty.
They will remain long, they will
54
00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:00,680
come back, they will trouble
you, vex you, produce in you a
55
00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:05,760
great disgust, all that.
But if you resist well and say
56
00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:11,240
no, I shall carry out nothing,
whatever the cost, I shall not
57
00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,520
carry out anything.
I will stay like a rock.
58
00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:21,120
Then little by little, little by
little, that thins out, thins
59
00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,920
out, and you begin to learn the
second attitude.
60
00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,840
Now I want my consciousness to
be above those things.
61
00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,920
There will steep still be many
battles, but if my consciousness
62
00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:38,480
stands above that, little by
little there will come a time
63
00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:44,200
when this will return no longer.
And then there is a time when
64
00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:49,000
you feel that you are absolutely
free, you do not even perceive
65
00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:55,160
it, and then that is all.
It may take a long time, it may
66
00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,160
come soon.
That depends on the strength of
67
00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,760
character, on the sincerity of
the aspiration.
68
00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:07,240
But even for people who have
just a little sincerity, if they
69
00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,720
subject themselves to this
process, they succeed.
70
00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,680
It takes time.
They succeed in the first item,
71
00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:19,480
in not expressing.
All forces upon earth tend
72
00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:23,200
towards expressing themselves.
These forces come with the
73
00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,320
object of manifesting
themselves, and if you place a
74
00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:31,280
barrier and refuse expression,
they may try to beat against the
75
00:05:31,280 --> 00:05:35,840
barrier for a time, but in the
end they will tire themselves
76
00:05:35,840 --> 00:05:40,240
out and not being manifested,
they will withdraw and leave you
77
00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:45,000
quiet.
So you must never say I shall
78
00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:51,080
first purify my thought, purify
my body, purify my vital, and
79
00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,840
then later I shall purify my
action.
80
00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,160
That is the normal order, but it
never succeeds.
81
00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,240
The effective order is to begin
from the outside.
82
00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:08,200
The very first thing is that I
do not do it, and afterwards I
83
00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:12,240
desire it no longer.
And next I close my doors
84
00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:16,480
completely to all impulses.
They no longer exist for me.
85
00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:22,040
I am now outside all that.
This is the true order, the
86
00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:28,240
order that is effective first
not to do it, and then you will
87
00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:32,880
no longer desire, and after that
it will go out of your
88
00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:36,080
consciousness completely.
End Quote.
89
00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,920
Reference.
Fiora window and the Mother
90
00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,640
looking from within.
Chapter 4, Ordeals and
91
00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,240
Difficulties, pages 78 to 80.
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