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Relationships Episodes

March 21, 2024

Understanding the Gift of Compassion

Dr. Ray Self will discuss the gift of compassion, which happens to be one of the most misunderstood.
March 14, 2024

Whatever Happened to Compassion?

Dr. Ray Self discusses the issue of compassion and, more importantly, why we see such a lack of it.
Feb. 16, 2024

The Christian Response to Toxic People

In this replay of a popular episode of Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self, Dr. Self discusses the Christian response to toxic people or toxic relationships.
Jan. 26, 2024

Don't Rock the Boat

There will always be people at your present level who will try to hinder you from moving to the next level. Often, these people may take action to discourage you.  Dr.  Ray discusses this principle, how to deal with it, how …
Dec. 7, 2023

Her Needs, His Needs

In a marriage relationship, we must understand the needs of our spouse. In this vital show, Dr Ray discusses the primary needs and desires of a woman and a man, as God wisely points out in Scripture. In the show, you can lea…
Nov. 3, 2023

Responding to Toxic Family Members

It is unfortunate, but almost everyone has at least one toxic relative. This is the kind of relative who harms your spirit and grieves your soul, and you wish you did not have to be around them. But it is the holidays, and t…
Oct. 10, 2023

Look Back to Move Forward: The Nehemiah Principle

The story of Nehemiah, a prophet, can still be relevant to our lives today. In a significant episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses how examining your past can lead to healing and a prosperous future for both you and your family.
Sept. 8, 2023

Living in an Unhealthy Relationship

In this episode, Dr. Self addresses the difficulties faced by Christians who find themselves in unhealthy relationships. While forgiveness and turning the other cheek are biblical values, navigating day-to-day life in such s…
July 3, 2023

Defining Covenant Relationship

What is the biblical meaning of covenant? Why is that important, and how does that impact our lives today? Dr. Ray Self answers this question and more in this crucial episode. The web defines a covenant as a relationship bet…
May 4, 2023

The Need to be Known

In this episode of Self Talk, Dr. Ray Self addresses a vital issue that affects all of us.  1 Cor 13:12  For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also …
April 20, 2023

Spirit of the Leviathan

Job 41:1  "Can you draw out Leviathan with a fishhook? Or press down his tongue with a cord?"  Have you ever wondered why you say one thing and something else is heard? The spirit of Leviathan will twist our words so that wh…
March 30, 2023

Healthy Conflict

Dr. Self discusses how conflict can build respect IF it is handled in a healthy way. Unfortunately, most people do not manage conflict very well. In this episode, you will learn about the four ways people fight. Hint -three …
March 16, 2023

Honoring Military Spouses

We don't think twice about honoring a military member we see out in public, which is definitely appropriate and well deserved. In this episode, I talk about the sacrifice of military spouses, the challenges, the blessings an…
Dec. 22, 2022

The Attack Upon Our Children

Never before in our nation’s history has there been such a spiritual assault against young people, but there is hope. Our children are under demonic attack. Dr. Self discusses what we can do to recognize and destroy this hor…
Dec. 1, 2022

The Spirit of Leviathan

Job 41:1  "Can you draw out Leviathan with a fishhook? Or press down his tongue with a cord?"  Have you ever wondered why you say one thing and something else is heard? The spirit of Leviathan will twist our words so that wh…