In this episode, Sandy&Lon continue with John briefly educating us on a coaching course they had done years ago for parents titled Parents: Outside The Trap . Are you interested in knowing more about the course? Let us know h...
For many of us during this time of “physical distancing,” we’re finding ourselves at home, sheltered in place, and in close-quarters with family members, and just maybe feeling a bit overwhelmed by it all. As Lon&Sandy said i...
How do people move from ordinary relationship to extraordinary relationship?
How do people move from ordinary relationship to extraordinary relationship? In ordinary relationship, we react to upsets by pulling out of the experience of relationship, the experience that we actually long for. It’s extrao...
Are you open and willing to start from scratch?
Well, our first question for you is, “Are you willing to set aside your penchant to fix, change or leave your relationship?” Leaving, either physically or emotionally, surely doesn’t resolve anything. It simply transports you...
Issues dissolve simply by being in relationship
At the beginning of our workshop, “ Relationship: The Real Deal ,” some participants are startled when we announce this intention: “The issues you have been dealing with, trying to fix, or just plain tolerating … dissolve/dis...
You could get curious rather than defensive
Have you ever said something snarky , spiteful, unkind, or just plain thoughtless, to someone you love? How did it go? Did you get into a fight or hear a defensive reaction? Or worse. Perhaps you ended a relationship. It …
Lon and Sandy, Zach and Sierra, and John
We thought today we’d give you some excerpts from the Community Calls we have a few times a month. We take people’s privacy seriously. You’ll only be hearing from the leaders of Relationship By Design. If you like what you …
July 18, 2020 led by Paul and Carol with Sandy and Lon present
We thought today we’d give you more excerpts from the Community Calls we have a few times a month. We take people’s privacy seriously. You’ll only be hearing from the leaders of Relationship By Design. If you like what you …
August 15, 2020 led by Sandy&Lon, Carol&Paul, John Biethan, and with permission, Carol England
The original title of this episode recorded on August 15, 2020, was “Do you have your relationship handled? Part 2" HOWEVER at the top of the call Lon asked the question “What’s possible with going forward?” So as it is …
August 29, 2020 led by Sandy&Lon, and Carol&Paul
Today our topic is “The Pitfalls of Promises” on our twice-monthly Zoom Community Call. At the end of the call, someone asked if there would be a replay of the call? We took a poll to make sure nobody would …
Today our topic is “Compromise in Relationships" recorded with the community on October 10, 2020. Happy Halloween! Anyone can join in on these calls by going to our Community Page and sign-up to receive notifications about up...