July 31, 2026
THE KINK CONSULTANT - CONSENT, INTIMACY AND TRUST - AMANDA DAMES
Are you ready to explore desire without shame while making conversations around intimacy more approachable and rooted in consent and trust?
Join us with Sexologist and Dominatrix Amanda Dames aka The Kink Consultant as we open up the taboo topic of kink, BDSM and emotional safety. We dive deep into our fears of judgment and rejection and discuss why shame and secrecy is so prevalent around the topic of kink and BDSM. Amanda brings grounded perspective to these conversations and helps understand how honesty and clear communicated desire can strengthen intimacy and trust. And also, we get into the fetish of spanking and punishment.
GUEST: Amanada Dames
BIO:
AMANDA DAMES, aka The Kink Consultant, is a sexologist, Somatica® Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, podcast host, and former NYC Dominatrix specializing in kink, intimacy, and communication. Through coaching, education, media appearances, and her podcast The Kink Consultant, Amanda helps people explore desire without shame while making kink feel approachable, empowering, and rooted in consent, confidence, and connection. Known for her honest, playful, and accessible teaching style, Amanda has built an online audience of more than 300,000 followers across social media and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Women's Health, POPSUGAR, and Court TV for her expertise in kink and modern relationships. Her work focuses on helping individuals and couples communicate openly about fantasies, power dynamics, and emotional intimacy so they can create relationships that feel more authentic, exciting, and fulfilling both inside and outside the bedroom.
LINKS
- Website: https://www.amandadames.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thekinkconsultant/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_kinkconsultant
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thekinkconsultant
- Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920
FREE RESOURCES
- Guide for couples with mismatched desire to have more open and honest conversations in a safe framework: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1
- BDSM Menu for couples who are curious to explore each other's kinks: https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist