Stop Selling, Start Helping: The Secret to Self-Promotion in Podcasting
If you’ve ever struggled with promoting yourself or your offerings, I get it—it can feel awkward, even "salesy." But what if you thought of it as a nudge to value instead of just another call to action? In this episode, I dive into why it’s so important to let your audience know about the valuable products and services you provide. I share some personal stories about the mental barriers that often make self-promotion feel uncomfortable and how shifting your mindset can help you better connect with your audience.
As podcasters, understanding self-promotion is key to monetization. And here’s the truth: the most profitable strategy isn’t running ads—it’s selling your own products or services. I share a story about a fellow podcaster who hesitated to promote her speaking engagements, fearing she’d come off as pushy. That hesitation is something I see all the time, especially among creatives who undervalue their own work. That’s why I encourage you to reframe self-promotion—not as selling, but as sharing value. When you make that shift, it becomes easier to talk about what you offer in a way that feels natural and beneficial to your audience.
I also dig into the psychology behind why so many of us avoid self-promotion. No one wants to be seen as aggressive or overly pushy—but here’s the thing: promoting yourself is simply a way of guiding your audience toward something that could help them . I talk about how you can subtly weave your experiences and expertise into your content, creating a natural and relatable narrative that informs your listeners without feeling like an ad.
As I wrap up, I emphasize the importance of having a clear call to action—what I like to call a “ nudge to value .” I break down practical ways to integrate this into your episodes, from personal stories to simple shifts in language, so that promoting yourself feels more authentic.
The goal? To help you build trust, foster a stronger community, and ultimately grow your podcast in a way that aligns with your values. If self-promotion has ever felt like a struggle, this episode will give you the confidence and tools to make it work for you —without the sleazy sales tactics.
Takeaways:
- Promoting your own products or services is often the most profitable monetization strategy for podcasters.
- Many podcasters hesitate to self-promote due to fear of sounding salesy or pushy.
- Instead of viewing it as a call to action, consider it a nudge towards value for your audience.
- Self-promotion can be subtle; share stories that naturally illustrate your services without being overt.
- Understanding your audience's needs allows you to create products that genuinely help them.
- Communicating the value you offer to your listeners without feeling uncomfortable is crucial.
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00:00 - Untitled
00:07 - Introduction to Podcasting Success
01:46 - Overcoming Self-Promotion Hurdles
03:06 - The Power of Self-Promotion
04:33 - The Nudge to Value
06:05 - Consulting and Community: Building Your Podcasting Business
07:11 - Introduction to Podcasting Support
If you want your audience to buy a product, you have to let them know it exists.
Podcast ConsultantWelcome to youo Podcast Consultant.
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Podcast ConsultantWith more than a decade of experience and millions of downloads, this hall of fame podcaster is a featured speaker, author, and mentor to thousands.
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Dave JacksonYou have to let people know what you have to offer.
Dave JacksonSo today we're talking about monetization and the number one way, the most profitable way to monetize.
Dave JacksonYou want to guess?
Dave JacksonGo ahead.
Dave JacksonNope, it's not ads.
Dave JacksonSo many people think, oh, I'm going to start a podcast and get ads.
Dave JacksonThe most profitable way is selling your own stuff.
Dave JacksonAnd maybe we'll talk about that in a future episode.
Dave JacksonBut I was doing a episode of the podcast review show.
Dave JacksonThat's a show I do with my buddy Eric K.
Dave JacksonJohnson, who's got probably 30 years in radio.
Dave JacksonAnd we were talking and I said, oh yeah, I talk about that in my book.
Dave JacksonAnd he said, you have a book?
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Dave JacksonAnd he said, I've never heard you mention it.
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Dave JacksonAnd so I thought I would share another story.
Dave JacksonI had a friend of mine I'd known for about six months.
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Dave JacksonI saw her and I was like, hey, how's the podcast going?
Dave JacksonShe's like, it's going great.
Dave JacksonNumbers are going up, like excellent.
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Dave JacksonAnd she goes, yeah, but I'm not getting any speaking gigs.
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Dave JacksonAnd she goes, yeah, I'm not getting any speaking gigs.
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Dave JacksonBut you do you speak.
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Dave JacksonAnd she goes, yeah, I just spoke to a bunch of high school kids in the Bronx and I was like, I've known you for six years and I've listened to every episode of your show.
Dave JacksonI've never heard you mention this.
Dave JacksonAnd she said, I kind of feel a little salesy when, you know, I self promote.
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Dave JacksonAnd she's like, yeah.
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Dave JacksonYou need a call to action.
Dave JacksonI thought, you know what, the phrase call to action might be the problem, because when you think about the word call, if we go back again to the 70s, don't know why we're doing a 70s themed show today, but, you know, we used to hear about cat calls.
Dave JacksonYou know, the guys on the street, hey, honey, what's going.
Dave JacksonYou know, that whole nine yards?
Dave JacksonCat calls are not good.
Dave JacksonDon't do that, guys.
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Dave JacksonYou're calling at somebody.
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Dave JacksonI remember once I was in Las Vegas, fancy hotel for a podcast event, and one of the shops on the first floor.
Dave JacksonEvery time I walk by, hey, well, we don't want to do that.
Dave JacksonAnd then there's action.
Dave JacksonYou know, call to action.
Dave JacksonSounds almost military.
Dave JacksonWe're telling people what to do.
Dave JacksonAnd I get that.
Dave JacksonSo let's change that phrase a little bit.
Dave JacksonDon't think of it as a call to action.
Dave JacksonThink of it as a nudge to value, not a call to action.
Dave JacksonYou're nudging them.
Dave JacksonYou're helping them to something that has value, because you know your audience, you know what they want, and you've made a product or service that's gonna fit them like a glove.
Dave JacksonIt's not a call to action.
Dave JacksonIt's a nudge to value.
Dave JacksonAnd don't be afraid to do that.
Dave JacksonSo my buddy that had been speaking in the Bronx, I said, you know, we.
Dave JacksonWe don't want to feel salesy.
Dave JacksonWe all think we have to do something like this Sunday, Sunday, Sunday.
Dave JacksonNo, I said, here's how you let your audience know that you're a public speaker.
Dave JacksonStart off your next episode.
Dave JacksonAnd go, I was speaking to a bunch of high school kids in the Bronx, and this young man came up to me and asked me a question.
Dave JacksonI go, there you go.
Dave JacksonYour audience now knows you speak to high school kids.
Dave JacksonIt doesn't have to be super blatant.
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