Feb. 21, 2026

Getting Out of Your Own Way: Finding the Courage to Podcast

Getting Out of Your Own Way: Finding the Courage to Podcast
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Hey, it’s Dave Jackson. In this episode, I’m talking directly to those of you who want to start a podcast but feel paralyzed by fear, perfectionism, or that nagging voice telling you you’re not good enough. I share my personal tips for getting your content out of your head and into the world—without letting things like criticism or imperfect editing stop you.

I start by reflecting on a post I saw on Reddit, where someone struggled with overthinking, fear of criticism, and worrying about making mistakes. This resonated with me because I've definitely felt the same way. I break down how I personally organize my thoughts: writing a blog post, reading it several times to get the overall message, and then distilling it into bullet points I riff on while recording—just like I’m talking to a friend across the desk.

Do People Care About Ums?

I address the big question: do people actually care if you ramble, or if your audio isn’t perfect? The truth is, people only care if you waste their time. An “um” here or there isn’t the problem—what matters is not losing their attention or making the show all about you with no lesson or value.

It Doesn't Have to Be Perfect

I also highlight the importance of starting small and being okay with imperfection. Your first episode won’t be as good as your tenth, and that’s totally normal. Focus on your audience and what they need to hear, rather than dwelling on your own fears.

When your need to serve outweighs your fear of looking silly, you'll finally press record and publish.

I Have A Cold

I even recorded this episode while I had a cold—proof that you don’t have to be perfect to provide value! If you need feedback, consider joining a listener party at the School of Podcasting, where you can get constructive, uplifting advice on your episode before going live.

If you want help or someone to listen to your work, visit schoolofpodcasting.com and use the coupon code "listener" for a discount. Thanks for joining me, and remember: don’t let perfectionism keep you from creating a truly great podcast. I’d love to see what happens when we work together.

My WorkFlow

This is what works for me.:

  1. Write a blog.

This helps me figure out what I'm trying to say and how I want people to feel.

  1. Read Your blog Three times.

This helps you get it into your brain. Not to memorize, but to "get the gist of it." Do not cheat. read the whole thing from top to bottom three times.

  1. Boil it down to bullet points

This is the map to attempt to keep you on track

  1. Press Record and Talk To Your Friend

Much like a phone call, press record and talk to the invisible person on the other side of your desk and "riff" on your bullet points.

  1. Edit

Anything that went off the rails too much, edit out. That starts with knowing who you are talking to.



This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:

OP3 - https://op3.dev/privacy

00:00 - Untitled

00:38 - The Question

02:20 - The Answer

02:58 - My Workflow

05:42 - You Can't Improve If You Don't Start

06:42 - Quit Think About You and Think About Them

07:06 - Surprise - I Have a Cold

07:36 - Join the School of Podcasting

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You've been wanting to start a podcast for a while. You keep

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trying to record and you are just paralyzed

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with fear. I'm going to tell you some things that I do to

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get your content out. Welcome to Your Podcast

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Consultant, small lessons with big value.

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downloads, this Hall of Fame podcaster is a

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featured speaker, author, and mentor to

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thousands. Now he wants to work with you.

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He's your podcast consultant, Dave Jackson.

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So I'm on Reddit and I see this post, and this person says,

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I have a message I need, want to get out,

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and literally cannot get out of my own way. I keep thinking about

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all the editing I'll have to do, uh, followed by the criticism

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I'll receive from God knows whoever. I also tried

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telling myself, do it for you, but I still freeze

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before I even hit record. Perfectionism?

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Hell yeah, she says. I want it to sound so good,

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like really good, but I don't have the budget right now for production,

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so I'm stuck between just drop it and but

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what if it's bad? Here's my other issue: I have

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notes, but I ramble anyway. I have a script

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and it sounds like a Roam bot. Then I have, of course,

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nothing. She says Whitney Houston here. Nothing, nothing, nothing.

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And the thing is, some of my best stuff happens when I'm just

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in it, in the zone, talking, uh,

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feeling it. But I can't figure out how to capture that in a way

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that is also listenable without spending 4 hours editing out

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every um, like, and tangent. So the main

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question is, do people care? Like, do people

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actually care about the rambling or the audio quality if the content

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hits? Is there a format that lets you be in the moment

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and still keep things tight, or do you just let it be

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messy and trust that people will follow you anyway? Are

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there folks here who just record and post with minimal editing?

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How do you live with yourself? Because I have something worth saying

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and I'm tired of it sitting in my head. So this is what I

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recommended, and I realize I didn't read this

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whole thing. The question is, do people care?

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They do when you waste their time.

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They do when you— that's the big thing. Podcasts are free, but

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they're not. People are paying with their attention

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and their time. And so I said, I have found that

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even if you over-edit, because people do say,

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um, But when they say, um, like, you know, um, so much, um, that

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it gets annoying, that's a problem. So an um here

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and there isn't a big deal. So this is what works

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for me. I write a blog. Why? Because I'm kind of ADD,

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and I have to figure out what am I trying to say and how do

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I want people to feel. And so that's the first thing.

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Then I read my blog 3 times. Not to

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memorize it, but to get the gist of it.

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And I do not cheat. I read the whole thing from top to

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bottom 3 times. Then

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I boil that down to 3 or 4 bullet points, however many bullet

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points you need, and that's kind of my map to keep

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me on track. Then I press

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record and I talk to my friend, you, You're sitting

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right across the desk from me right now. And much like a phone

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call, it's just this invisible person on the other side

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of the desk, and I riff on the bullet points.

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Then what do you do? You edit, because you're not perfect.

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Anything that went off the rails too much, you edit out. And that starts by

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knowing who you're talking to, because again,

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you don't want to waste their time. Keep in mind,

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you don't have an audience yet, so you're worried about people leaving comments.

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Who? You don't have an audience yet. And so this person

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is worried about people leaving comments. If you're really worried

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about comments, don't start a podcast. It's that simple. You're

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gonna get comments. You will eventually get a 1-star review, and

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that's okay. There's a name for that person: not your target

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audience. But also, you don't have an audience yet.

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You're not going to get any comments because you're going to get maybe 10

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downloads that first episode, depending on how many cousins you have.

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So even if it's bad, nobody's going to hear it, and

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you should get some feedback before it goes live. At the School of

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Podcasting, we have listener parties. I love them because

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it's just the most constructive feedback an

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uplifting experience. Everybody that's done it loves it.

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And so we often say at the School of Podcasting, thanks to,

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uh, Ryan Parker, he was the first one that said it. He said, look, nobody's

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gonna punch you in the face. It's, you know, you're across the world.

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So keep that in mind. Do people care? Yeah, if you

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waste their time. And I have listened to

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shows where it was just someone talking

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about what they did during the week, but there wasn't any lesson

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to learn. I always say you want to make people laugh, cry, think,

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groan, educate them, entertain them,

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and if you can save them time or save them money, that will deliver

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value. But here's the other thing: you can't

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get better at something if you aren't doing it.

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When I first started to play the guitar at a young age, my fingers were

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too small. When my hand grew, I was left-handed,

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and it was like trying to learn how to play the guitar in a mirror.

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And so I said, that's it, I'm not left-handed anymore. And then it was

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a matter of I wasn't strong enough to press hard. You have to press hard

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on a guitar to get the notes to sound right. But I

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kept trying, and eventually I was able to play. And

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I've played since I was, I don't know, probably I don't know,

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12. I mean, I tried when I was 5, my hands were too small. But

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it's not something that you're just going to turn on the mic

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and all of a sudden you have the same experience as someone who's had

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3 years on a microphone. But how do you get better? You

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practice and you keep going and realize that there is

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nothing you can do. There's nothing you can do to

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make episode 1 as good as episode 10. Here's

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something else you can do. Instead of focusing on you and how scared you

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are, focus on your audience. Focus on that one

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person who really needs to hear your content.

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Because in the end, when your need to serve

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is larger than your fear of looking stupid,

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you will press record and you will publish.

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Now here's the other thing I'm gonna point out, and maybe you've already figured it

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out. I have a cold. I've stopped 3 times to cough,

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and my nose is a little stuffy. Who cares?

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Yeah, I sound a little different. Can you understand what I'm saying? Yes.

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Don't overthink it. Don't let perfectionism stop

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you from making, you know, what could be a really good

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podcast. If you aim for perfect and you miss,

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you might land on really, really good. If you need help

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with this, if you need somebody to listen to your stuff, maybe you want to

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have a listener party of your own, go over to

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schoolofpodcasting.com and use the coupon code listener,

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and that'll save on either your monthly, quarterly, or your yearly

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subscription. See, I can't breathe, and so I can't talk.

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Do we care? No, because you know exactly how this feels when you're

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sick. But I wanted to get a message out. I've been on the road

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and I saw that and I was like, oh, that's this week's episode. So

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schoolofpodcasting.com. I'm Dave Jackson. I help

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podcasters. It's what I've been doing for almost 21 years now,

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and I want to see what happens when I work with you because I want

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to be your podcast consultant.