Ruth Schleppi-Verboom: Learning Yielded Faith with Joni


Surrender is hard—but it is always worth it.
In this heartfelt episode, Ruth Schleppi-Verboom shares how a life-changing mentorship with Joni Eareckson Tada shaped her understanding of trust, prayer, and daily surrender. Through years of close friendship and service, Ruth witnessed firsthand how yielded faith can transform suffering into spiritual depth and lasting fruit.
As Ruth reflects on lessons learned alongside Joni, she opens up about how surrender restored her marriage during a season of deep struggle, reshaped her prayer life, and clarified her calling as a wife, mother, creative, and follower of Christ. Her story is honest, hope-filled, and deeply relatable for anyone navigating disappointment, transition, or unanswered questions.
In this episode, listeners will:
-Discover what yielded faith looks like in everyday life
-Learn practical wisdom from Joni Eareckson Tada’s approach to prayer and suffering
-Find encouragement to release control and trust God in difficult seasons
-Gain clarity on how God uses ordinary faithfulness to produce lasting fruit
This conversation invites you to loosen your grip, lean into God’s kindness, and trust that He is faithfully at work—even when the path forward feels uncertain.
Our Guest: Ruth Schleppi-Verboom
Ruth Schleppie Verboom is the mother of four adult children, a nurse, an author, and a jewelry designer. She's warm, creative, thoughtful, and relatable. The kind of person whose life reminds us that God meets us where we are and uses our ordinary days in extraordinary ways. Her journey is full of moments where God invited her to yield, trust, and follow His gentle leading. Ruth and her husband, filmmaker Helmut Schleppie, alternate time between the US and the Netherlands.
Key Thoughts and Scriptures:
Jeremiah 17:7-8 NIV But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.
Yielding is rooted in trusting God's graciousness and kindness.
When we surrender ourselves, He uses what we offer to reveal His kindness to others in powerful ways.
“Surrender is not a one-time act, but a daily choice to trust that God's plan is better than your own.” - Joni Eareckson Tada
Don't expect anything from anybody, but expect everything from God and more.
Joni’s mission statement was to be the best audiovisual representative of God in difficult situations or in suffering, and of God and God's grace.
Ruth made a mission statement to introduce her children to God and to, with whatever she did, show them that God is to be trusted and that everything is in God's hands.
She knew in her mind that she could trust God. But she was fearful to yield to trusting Him in her marriage because it had been painful.
It took a while, but Ruth was able to see small glimpses of God's faithfulness and God's presence in the midst of it.
Ruth was able to trust God more and not be fixated on her circumstances.
Ruth learned she needed to change first. And God would deal with her husband.
Psalm 23:4 NKJV Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
Trust God directly in everything.
“Ruth, very early on, I learned to pray according to 80-20. I use 20% of my prayer life for the problem. And the whole other 80 % is to focus on God and see what He wants to teach me.”
When Ruth began to pray like that, her perspective changed.
All things of beauty are creating places where you can see God's goodness and God's grace.
Ruth realized when she was using her talents, that this was her way of sharing the gospel with other people.
God is so interested in each one of us and has made us precisely according to His plan with our talents and our gifts and wants to use those.
We're not all the same. God speaks to each of us differently.
And He uses each one of us to speak to other people who He's uniquely prepared for us to minister to.
John 15:16-17 AMP You have not chosen Me, but I have chosen you and I have appointed and placed and purposefully planted you, so that you would go and bear fruit and keep on bearing, and that your fruit will remain and be lasting, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name [as My representative] He may give to you. This [is what] I command you: that you love and unselfishly seek the best for one another.
Ruth shares that we can trust that God has appointed and placed and purposefully planted us.
Our salvation is not by works, but we have to be intentional in yielding to God and walking with Him.
The Three Marys
Luke 1:26-56 NIV Mary, the mother of Jesus
Young Mary was told that she was pregnant, yet the Bible doesn't tell us that she had too many questions.
It looks like she's yielding and trusting right away.
She's not looking at the circumstances, but right away is looking at God.
Matthew 27:55-28:10 NKJV Mary Magdalene
She was healed from seven demons and knew that she was loved by Jesus.
Luke 10:38-41 NLT, John 12:1-10 NIV Mary of Bethesda, the sister of Lazarus
Difficult circumstances, lots of questions, lots of turmoil and lots of insecurities. And she was just looking at Jesus in those.
“Contentment comes when we stop trying to be in control and place our lives completely in God's hands.” - Joni Eareckson Tada
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Hey friends, welcome to the Her God Story podcast
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where every episode brings a powerful story to
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encourage and strengthen your walk with Jesus.
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I'm your host, Jodie Chiricosta, ministry leader
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at Somebody Cares America and International,
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author and traveler on this incredible journey
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of faith. Today, we're leaning into the theme
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that shapes every part of the Christian life,
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yielding to God. Jeremiah 17, seven and eight
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in the NIV give us this beautiful promise. Blessed
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is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence
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is in Him. They will be like a tree planted by
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the water that sends out its root by the stream.
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It does not fear when heat comes. Its leaves
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are always green. It has no worries in the year
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of drought and never fails to bear fruit. Yielding
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is rooted in trusting God's graciousness and
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kindness. It's knowing that when we release our
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grip, He holds us securely and nourishes us with
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His presence. God holds all of us dear. But he
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expresses special concern through scripture for
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widows and orphans, which is why we began the
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lower left side. And that really brings us back
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to today's theme of yielding to God. When we
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surrender our resources, our plans, our time,
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and even our expectations to him, he uses what
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we offer to reveal his kindness to others in
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powerful ways. You know, few people express this
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kind of yielded, surrendered life more compellingly
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than Joni Erickson -Tatta. She's a beloved author,
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speaker, and founder of Joni and Friends, who
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was paralyzed as a teenager. She spent her life
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demonstrating that surrendered, joyful faith,
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looks like in real life and says, surrender is
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not a one -time act, but a daily choice to trust
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that God's plan is better than your own. That
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could be hard to do, don't you think? Our guest
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today has had the privilege of not only learning
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from Joni's example, but of experiencing that
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kind of faith up close and then living it out
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in her own journey. I first encountered Ruth
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Schleppi -Verboom through her book about her
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unforgettable time with Joni Eriksson Tada. And
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after reading it, I knew she would have much
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to share with us. Ruth is a mother of four adult
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children, a nurse, an author, and a jewelry designer.
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She's warm, creative, thoughtful, and relatable.
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The kind of person whose life reminds us that
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God meets us where we are and uses our ordinary
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days in extraordinary ways. Her journey is full
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of moments where God invited her to yield trust,
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and follow his gentle leading. Ruth and her husband,
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filmmaker Helmut Schleppie, alternate time between
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the U .S. and the Netherlands. Welcome, Ruth.
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Thank you, Jodie. Thank you for having me. You'll
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always have such inspirational women. on your
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show and I'm just honored to be here with you
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this morning. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you, Ruth.
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And let's start at the beginning. Would you share
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about your early years growing up in the Netherlands
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and how really you first encountered faith in
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a personal way? I grew up in the Netherlands.
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I was, I am the youngest of seven children. My
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parents had seven children in nine years. So
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it's a short time to have seven children at them.
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So it was a busy household and my mother ran
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a tight ship. My parents were both Christians
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and they, speaking of yielding, they really yielded
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their life and their trust and their faith to
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God, towards God in everything they did. They
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started the Bible study when I was still very
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young and that turned out to be a home church.
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So for many years we had a home church at home
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and I remember as young as I was we had to empty
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out our living room and kitchen. and we put as
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many folded chairs as we could in there, and
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we had our Sunday morning church at home. It
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was always very warm and very nurturing too.
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Just doing life together with that group of people
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was very... I have good memories about them.
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Well, you know, you grew up in that, but then
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in our adult years, things really take a turn
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because... Life changes for us. We have new freedoms.
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We have new responsibilities. We have new opportunities
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So what direction did you go and how did that
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impact your walk with the Lord? Yeah, definitely
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it was I Jodie as I said, it was almost as if
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I always have believed in God There was not a
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choice for me or it wasn't even a difficult decision
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for me to not believe in God But I still had
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to make it my own and I think it was more out
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of obedience or just the natural cause of things
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that I believed in God, but not yet that personal
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relationship or understanding. And I think that
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came later. After high school I went to nursing
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school and I was busy with that and I was busy
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with the boyfriend that I had at that time. I
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remember that I got baptized when I was 18 by
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choice, by my own choice, but nothing really
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changed after that. And also the conversion story
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that you hear sometimes of other people where
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it was just so beautiful and different for them
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when they met Jesus. And for me, it was a little
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bit more of the same as it always was. And I
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think it was privileged like that because it
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was uncomplicated. My decision to choose for
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God, but it was, I missed that difference in
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life or the difference that it would make. And
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I later understand that that just had to grow.
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Yeah. So let's fast forward. You got married
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when you were 24. You were working as a nurse
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and you got a degree in social work. And your
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husband was working as a director for movies
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and documentaries, which is a lot. Share about
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that busy time. Yeah, that was a very busy time.
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We were just married and my husband was working
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all the time. He had several businesses, made
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documentaries and television shows. I had the
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two young boys and then I remember one morning
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he said, what do you think if we move to Los
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Angeles to make a movie? And I just had my younger
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son, the baby, and it was like, whoa, what are
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we doing? Because I'm such a family person and
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I love the house that we lived in. But I also
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recognized his adventure that he He loves living
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like that, lots of changes. And also I knew that
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he wanted to make a movie. So we decided to go.
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So we packed our things, sold the businesses
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and moved to California. And to be honest, I
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thought we were so cool, but then we arrived
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in California and it turned out that everybody
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wanted to make a movie there. So there was nothing
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special about it, but we did it. So he did make
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a movie, but also very shortly after, in the
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three years since we had moved there, we had
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two more children. So now we were a family of
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four young children. So it was very busy. He
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was working. I was being a mom. And in the midst
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of it all, we didn't really learn to communicate
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or we missed the connection together. And I remember
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that time as very lonely, too, for both of us.
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Yeah, those big life changes can really throw
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our life off balance, really. And you mentioned
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how you were lonely and your communication wasn't
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great. So share a little more about that. For
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me, our intention for both of us was very good.
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We wanted to work and create that family that
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we had or encourage and build on the family that
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we had. But it was... We were both on our own
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island and disconnected from each other. And
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he thought, I'm such a good husband. Don't you
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see I love you because I provide and I create
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these opportunities for you. And I felt like,
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but don't you see that I'm taking care of our
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children and I'm building the nest at home. Don't
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you see that I love you? And it didn't connect
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well. So it was a difficult time. And I remember
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that my mother always said, don't expect anything
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from anybody, but expect everything from God
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and more. So every time he showed me to turn
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my hope and my expectation to God and not to
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my circumstances or anything else. And I remember
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that really helped me. Yeah, in the middle of
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that. uh, crazy life and loneliness. Um, you
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had a providential encounter with Joni Eriksson
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-Tadege that blossomed and led to a long -term
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friendship and really a mentorship for you. Share
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about that. Cause it was very unusual that you
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had this opportunity. I had known Joni, not personally,
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but since I was a teenager, because I read her
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book and I saw the movie and I also, um, attended
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one of the conferences that she was a speaker.
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when she came to the Netherlands and I remember
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I think I was 17 and she broke her neck when
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she was 17 but years later when I was 17 I heard
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her speak and I was mesmerized I thought she
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was so beautiful not just she is a very beautiful
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woman but not just that but there was more to
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her it was so attractive how she lived her life
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with God, how she was radiant in that. And I
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remember thinking that I wanted what she had.
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And then years later, when Helm with my husband
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and I lived in California, it turned out we lived
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very close to Johnny. And he started making documentaries
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for Johnny and friends, a few documentaries.
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So he started working with her. she invited us
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to her church. So we went to the church and I
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was so excited to meet her in person and get
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to know her. And I remember asking her, can I
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help you? Is there anything I could do? Because
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I wanted to be closer to her. I really wanted
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to become her friend. And I think she knew very
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well that I wasn't able to commit at that time
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with my four small children. But a few years
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later, invited me or she asked me if I could
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help her, she knew that I was a nurse too, and
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she asked me if I could help her in the morning.
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She has a small group of women who help her besides
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Ken, her husband, and who help her in the morning
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or in the evening. And I became one of them and
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after a couple of years it turned into the evening.
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and then in the Sunday evenings. In your book
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you describe a really a pivotal conversation
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with Joni about creating a personal mission statement
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and how that insight really helped save your
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marriage. Share about what she told you and what
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changed in you that and how that transformation
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played out. So the time with Joni there was always
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because when you live at Prado Plitia you need
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a lot of help. So the morning it took about two
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hours and in the evening two, one and a half
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or two hours to get ready and to get into the
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wheelchair. So we had a lot of time of being
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together and also having conversations. And I
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remember one time Johnny said that she had a
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mission statement and the concept of a mission
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statement was so new for me. So I asked her about
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it and she explained that her mission statement
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was to be the best audiovisual representative
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of God in difficult situations or in suffering
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and of God and God's grace. And I thought, wow,
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that is quite a mission statement. That is intense.
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And then you also know from close by about suffering,
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because otherwise you couldn't be the representative.
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So I saw the impact it had on her life to live
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by a mission statement like that, and I decided
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to make a mission statement for myself. And at
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that time, my children were still young. My mission
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statement was to introduce my children to God
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and to, with whatever I did, show them that God
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is to be trusted and that everything is in God's
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hands. And that played out nice because they
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were young, we had a lot of time together. I
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remember, for example, the pickups from and to
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the different schools. They were all in different
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schools and lots of time in the car. And we would
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always memorize scripture. So that was easy,
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and that was according to my mission statement.
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And we had lots of fairy tales, or Bible stories,
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all according to my mission statement. I thought,
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wow, I got this. This mission statement was easy.
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But then a few years later, our relationship
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got really difficult for my husband and I, and
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we were at a fallout, and it was... we just didn't
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see a way to connect or to come back together
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and that summer I was in the Netherlands visiting
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our families and I remember that he said we had
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a lot of fights and arguments and hurtful things
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and I remember that he said I don't think you
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should come home anymore I will take care of
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you and the children don't worry about that but
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I just don't see a way that we can be together.
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And it almost felt, Jodie, it almost felt like
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a relief. I felt, wow, that it felt like freedom
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because it was a heavy blanket that we had put
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over ourselves with our miscommunications and
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misunderstandings. And I was dreaming a little
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bit about how it would be if we would be separated.
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And then I realized my mission statement and
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I realized that what that I wouldn't be able
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to answer my children in a few years if they
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would say, but mama you said that everything
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is in God's hands and that God can be trusted.
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Why didn't you trust God in your marriage with
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Papa? And I knew that I wouldn't be able to answer
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that and that for that time and for us divorce
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was not the answer. And I'm not saying this about
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all the divorces, because every situation is
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different, but I knew that for me, it wasn't
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the answer. So what did you do? So I cried. I
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don't want to do this. Exactly. And then I said
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that, and then I wrestled with God. But I also,
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I knew, I knew that I could trust God. had not
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experienced it yet on that level, so I knew in
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my mind, in my head, that I could trust God,
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but I also was fearful to yield to trusting Him
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in this, because this was, it had been painful,
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but I did have that conversation with God and
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I remember saying to God, okay Lord, I trust
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that you will take care of my heart then. if
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I do that and that you will find us, for me and
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for my husband, a way out so that we will be
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able to connect and find each other again. Yeah,
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so you didn't stay in the Netherlands, you moved
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back home and was it immediately better? No,
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no, I didn't move to the Netherlands. I was just
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there for summer vacation for like three weeks
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or so. So I went back with the children. I remember
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the long flight of 11 hours and not showing the
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children my trepidations, but in my mind it was
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going on. And I came home and I told my husband
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what I saw about us divorcing and that we couldn't
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do that and that I wanted to trust God and that
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I wanted to give our marriage back to God. And
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he was like, okay, yeah, whatever. Because he
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was also so tired of it. And it didn't get better
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right away. It was very difficult. It took a
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while. But I did see small glimpses. I was able...
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I did see small glimpses of God's faithfulness
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and God's presence in the midst of it. And I
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was able also to trust God more and not to be
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fixated on my own problems and my own circumstances
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and my own... the righteousness of things and
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that it was unfair for me I could linger on those
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thoughts and I was able to to focus on God and
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trust him and see how I needed to change because
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I didn't really realize that too that I needed
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to change first for myself that that was my own
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responsibility to change and that God would deal
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with my husband And so, how many years have you
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been married now? We just celebrated our 33rd
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anniversary. 33 years. Yes. Congratulations.
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That's wonderful. God was faithful. I mean, we
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walk through difficult seasons, right? Psalm
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23 says, Even though I walk through the valley
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of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil,
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for God is with me. His rod and His staff, they
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comfort me. And may have felt like a death of
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a marriage, but God guided you through it to...
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a much better place. He really did, he really
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did. And this was about 15, 18 years ago. And
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it's still sometimes that we fall back into those
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difficult times, but God is so faithful. If we
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turn back to him, he really is. And so present.
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Well, I know that there were so many other things
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that you learned from Joni. I mean, there's a
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whole bunch of them you list in your book. We
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can't go through them all, but our listeners
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can go get that book if they want to know more.
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But share about another lesson that Joni imparted
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and the impact it made on your life. One of the
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other things that come to my mind is when she
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told me how she would pray or how she learned
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how to pray because By now, I really understood
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that Johnny trusts God so directly in everything.
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And for me, it takes more time, but she does
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in everything. But at one time, I remembered
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that she had COVID. And so Johnny lives in a
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wheelchair and is paralyzed from her neck down.
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And then she went through several bouts of cancer.
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and she had surgery and radiation and everything
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and then she had several hospital stays and pneumonias
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and now she had COVID and I could tell that her
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body was just tired and she was fighting so hard
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against it and her body was just tired and we
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were all afraid and see too that this would be
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it. So I asked her after she was healed from
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COVID, I asked her, Johnny, aren't you tired?
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Aren't you angry at least? Are you done now with
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this? Because it's, are you questioning God?
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And she just looked at me because I had a lot
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of questions. I thought it was so unfair for
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her to go through COVID too, on top of everything
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else. And she just looked at me and she said,
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you know, Ruth, Very early on I learned to pray
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according to 80 -20. And then 20 % of my prayer
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life I use for the problem. And the whole other
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80 % is to be away from the problem, to focus
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on God and to look at God and see what he wants
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to teach me or see how I can grow or maybe how
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I can help others even in this. And I remember
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when she told me this, I thought, wow, this is
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the world upside down. Because I liked, at that
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time, I liked to pray 200 % about my problem.
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And then we go again and again. And then for
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her to say that, I thought, wow, that's quite
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something. And I started to pray like that, and
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it changed me. It changed my perspective. on
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things. Well, clearly, because I wasn't so focused
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on my circumstances or on my problems or how
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asking God how he's going to change them and
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please change them quickly. It wasn't about that
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anymore, but I gave him my problems 20 % of my
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prayer time, so one sentence out of five, and
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the rest of the time I was focused on him, away
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from my problem. it changed my relationship with
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God, it changed my prayer life, it changed it
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changed my heart and I yeah it was it was really
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beautiful and it still is beautiful I love to
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pray like that and I wanted to remind myself
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of it so I decided to make a necklace with 8020
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on it just to you know how we play with our jewelry
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and just to remind myself of like oh 80 -20 that's
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it I should remember that yeah so I made a necklace
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yeah yeah well you uh you mentioned COVID that
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Joni went through COVID and really that brought
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a lot of changes in Joni's care um your weekly
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time with her paused soon after because all of
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your children had lived with you at that time
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um but then how did those sudden shifts you know
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of COVID and coming out of COVID reshape your
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rhythms and your identity and your sense of calling
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in that time. Our children all moved back during
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COVID and all the lockdowns and so they all moved
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back home. So it was almost like an encore that
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we had with them. A year that we had them all
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at home away from college or their work or their
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other places that they lived. and we had a very
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good year together and then they all moved out
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and my husband said what if we were still living
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in California in the house that we had lived
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for more than 20 years and he said what if we
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move back part -time to the Netherlands to be
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closer to our parents who were getting older
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both of our parents and he also knew that I longed
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to be there and be there and be available for
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our parents and that I missed the traditions
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and the life of the Netherlands. So we decided
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to move back part -time in the Netherlands and
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live part -time in the US. And that's what we
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did. Coming out, that wasn't that many years
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ago, but since then you've written a book and
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you have a jewelry company. I mean, how did those
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things get started? Those are huge accomplishments.
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Before, I was so busy with the children. and
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just with our nest and it felt like there was
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more time for me to pursue other dreams that
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I had and the book was one of them and I started
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writing things down not to forget the things
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the conversations that I had with Johnny and
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Johnny introduced me to her agent and that got
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us a book deal at Moody Publishers. And I just
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heard that the book, My Sunday Evenings with
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Johnny, that sold 5 ,000 copies. Wow. Congratulations.
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Yeah. Thank you. So the book was published and
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then the necklace that I talked about, the 8020,
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inspired me to make more necklaces or to make
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more jewelry because I saw something that I wanted
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to wear. that reminded me of the goodness of
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God that we would just wear and something pretty
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and something beautiful. Yeah I meant when we
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were talking initially you talked about how you're
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just drawn to beauty and you love to create that
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beautiful spaces and just talk about how that
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really is a gateway to God for you. Yes it is
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and I also think it doesn't have to be pretentious
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or for decoration that more to experience God's
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goodness through beauty and there are so many
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beautiful things like a teapot can be so beautiful
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or the use of green or the sunlight how it comes
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in or maybe just a conversation with somebody
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or a smile when you're standing in line at the
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DMV all those things of beauty are creating places
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I believe where you can see God's goodness and
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God's grace. And jewellery is one of them, or
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writing for me is one of them too. And before
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I thought, oh, I'm not a real evangelist. I don't
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know how to explain it to people, how do I explain
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the gospel? But then I realized when I was working
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with those things, like the jewellery and words
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and writing a book, or just connecting with women,
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I thought this is my way of sharing the gospel
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with other people. And it made me realize that
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God is so interested in each one of us and he
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has made us so precisely according to his plan
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with our talents and our gifts and he wants to
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use those. And for me, being drawn to beautiful
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things, beautiful plates or setting a table and
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cooking a meal, he can use that for his glory
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and to show others and myself the goodness of
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God. Yeah, you mentioned that, you know, living
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in California, being in the film industry, Helmut
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being in the film industry, you you encountered
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and we're friends with many people who didn't
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know Christ and Your jewelry in particular and
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your book also really opened up conversations
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for you to share a little bit more. Yes, absolutely.
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And that's also what I love, that God uses that.
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Like, I'm not a big evangelist, I'm not a Billy
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Graham, but I can connect with people over those
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things, over things that I love, that are close
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to my heart. and talk about those things and
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point them to Jesus. Yeah, that's beautiful.
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I love it that God knows us. He created each
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one of us uniquely, and He knows what will speak
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to us. We're not all the same, you know? God
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speaks to each of us differently. Our relationship
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with the Lord is different. They're unique. And
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He uses each one of us to speak to other people
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who He's created uniquely. for us to minister
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to them. So it's beautiful that the book and
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the jewelry have really opened doors of conversation
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about the Lord. Yes, I recently found the Bible
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first that just emphasizes it, what we are talking
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about. when I saw it for the first time because
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I was reading it in a different translation.
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I read it in the Amplified and it is John 15
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verse 16 and 17. So very easy to remember. John
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15, 16, 17. And then in the Amplified it says,
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you have not chosen me. These are Jesus' words.
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You have not chosen me, but I have chosen you,
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and I have appointed and placed and purposefully
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planted you, so that you would go and bear fruit
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and keep on bearing, and that your fruit will
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remain and be lasting, so that whatever you ask
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of the Father in my name, he may give to you.
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And this is what I commend you, that you love
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and unselfishly seek the best for one another.
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And I just love that verse so much because I
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feel like when things are very difficult that
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we can yield to that and lean on that, that we
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can trust that God has appointed and placed and
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purposefully planted us. So in my merit he had
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appointed and placed and purposefully planted
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me there and that it also says at the end in
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verse 17 it says I commend you that you love
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and unselfishly seek the best for one another
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so it is in difficult situations our marriage
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or maybe at work or difficult situations maybe
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with our children or just our lives or our health
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or finance situations he has appointed place
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that perfectly planted you so that you would
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go and bear fruit and keep on bearing but also
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with fun things like with For example, for me,
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the jewelry or with writing a book. Yeah, I love
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that. I love the expanded, the amplified version
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of that. It adds a little more depth to the meaning
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of it, gives us a little more understanding.
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It is intentional. I mean, you know, we can't
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just float along in life, although our salvation
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is not by works, but we have to be intentional
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in yielding to God and walking with him. As we
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get ready to close here, is there a woman in
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the Bible whose story has encouraged you in your
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journey with the Lord? Yes, there is. I'm thinking
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what comes to mind is the Marys of the New Testament.
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Each of the Marys, Mary the mother of Jesus,
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Mary of Magdala, Mary of Bethesda, Lazarus. Sister,
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they all came from such different circumstances,
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and their circumstances were so raw and difficult.
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Wow, and instead of looking at their circumstances,
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like young Mary, who was told that she was pregnant.
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Well, I would have so many questions, but the
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Bible doesn't tell us that she had too many questions.
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It looks like she's yielding and trusting right
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away. I love that, that she's not looking at
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the circumstances, but right away is looking
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at you, at God. And Mary of Magdala, she was
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healed from seven demons, and she just knew that
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she was loved by Jesus, and not her circumstances,
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but the love of Jesus. That was it for her, and
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Lazarus' sister too. difficult circumstances,
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lots of questions, lots of turmoil and lots of
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insecurities. And she was just looking at Jesus
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in those. I love that, about all three of them.
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And I want them as my examples. And Johnny too,
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Johnny's the same. Yeah. Yeah. Well, thank you
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so much. You know, dear friends, Ruth's story
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reminds us. that yielding to God and trusting
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Him is not about losing control, but it's about
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placing our lives in the hands of God who is
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endlessly kind, deeply gracious, fully trustworthy.
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And Jeremiah 17 that I read at the beginning
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assures us that when we trust in the Lord, our
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roots grow deep, our hearts remain steady, our
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lives bear fruit, even in difficult seasons like
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Ruth mentioned, because God's faithful through
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it all. Things don't always change instantly,
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but He works in us and through us in those difficult
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situations. And I'm reminded of some other pearls
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of wisdom that came from Joni. She said, contentment
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comes when we stop trying to be in control and
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place our lives completely in God's hands. That
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is the heart of yielding. That is where peace
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comes. And that is where God grows fruit in us
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that endures. Ruth, before we close, would you
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take a moment to pray for our listening friends,
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especially those who might be struggling to surrender
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something to God right now? Heavenly Father,
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thank you so much for your goodness and your
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guidance. Thank you for your Son. Your love for
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us is amazing. It's too much often for me to
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understand. But every time I see it or see glimpses
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of it, I'm so grateful. Thank you for your love.
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And Lord, I ask that for each one of us in whatever
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situation we might be, that we may see you more
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and more of your love. Lord, help us to trust
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and to yield to you. And what Johnny said, that
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the contentment comes when we stop trying to
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be in control. Lord, we pray that we are able
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to give our control over to you because we love
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you and we trust you. In Jesus name, Amen. And
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now dear friends, I want to speak a blessing
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over you that's adapted from Jeremiah 17. May
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you be blessed as you trust in the Lord and place
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your confidence fully in him. May your roots
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grow deep into his faithfulness and love. When
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heat or hardship come, may you stand unafraid.
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sustained by His grace. When life feels dry,
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may your spirit remain green with hope. And may
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your life bear fruit, abundant, enduring fruit,
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as you yield to the kindness and wisdom of your
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God. Remember, you can find today's notes and
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