Oct. 10, 2025

Love's Battlefield: The Dark Comedy of 'The Roses'

Love's Battlefield: The Dark Comedy of 'The Roses'

In this episode of *Movies First*, Chris and Jessica explore the sharp and witty world of *The Roses*, a dark comedy that reinterprets the age-old adage "all's fair in love and war." With powerhouse performances from Olivia Colman and Benedict Cumberbatch, the film takes a modern spin on the classic War of the Roses narrative, diving into the complexities of career dynamics and power shifts within a seemingly perfect marriage.

The hosts discuss the film's captivating setup, featuring Theo as a perfectionist architect and Ivy as a talented chef, whose lives unravel after a spontaneous move to Northern California. They highlight how the decade-long facade of marital bliss crumbles as success becomes a double-edged sword, culminating in a hilarious yet poignant moment when Ivy's restaurant, whimsically named "We've Got Crabs," receives a game-changing review just as Theo's career faces disaster.

Listeners will appreciate the role reversal that ensues, with Ivy becoming the breadwinner while Theo adapts to life as a health-obsessed househusband. Chris and Jessica delve into the film's clever use of parenting differences as a metaphor for power struggles, with nutrition choices sparking a proxy war between the couple. The episode showcases Tony McNamara's brilliant writing, which balances humor and emotional depth, creating exchanges that are both funny and devastating.

The discussion also highlights the supporting cast, particularly Kate McKinnon as the awkwardly flirtatious Amy, and Florian Hoffmeister's stunning cinematography that transforms beautiful locations into a battlefield of emotions. Jay Roach's direction is praised for its ability to juxtapose comedy with psychological tension, making the film feel incredibly relevant to modern relationships.

With a solid rating of 8.5 out of 10, *The Roses* offers a compelling look at the thin line between love and hate in contemporary marriages, serving as both a scathing commentary and an entertaining cinematic experience. Join Chris and Jessica as they dissect this unique film that invites reflection on the complexities of love in a modern world.
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Chris: You know what's fascinating about

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relationships? They can start as a perfect

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fairy tale and end up looking more like Game

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of Thrones. And this new film, the

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Roses, proves that a

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444-year-old saying about love and war

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is more relevant than ever.

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Jessica: Let me tell you why that's so interesting.

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This phrase, all's fair in love and war from

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1579 feels completely modern in this dark

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comedy, especially with powerhouses like

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Olivia Colman and Benedict Cumberbatch

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bringing it to life.

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Chris: Well, what really grabbed me is how they've

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reimagined that classic 1989 War of the

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Roses film, but with this contemporary twist

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about career dynamics and power shifts.

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The way they set up these characters. Theo as

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this perfectionist architect and Ivy as this

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brilliant chef. It's like watching a time

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bomb being assembled in slow motion.

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Jessica: Hmm. M. And the fuse gets lit when they make

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that spontaneous move to Northern California.

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Right? The way they show this decade of

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seemingly perfect marriage before everything

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starts to unravel.

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Chris: You know what's exactly what makes this so

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compelling? Watching how success becomes this

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double edged sword. I mean, Theo

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designs this ambitious nautical museum while

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Ivy's stuck at home. Then he gives her this

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chance to open her restaurant with that

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hilarious name. We've got crabs.

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Jessica: Oh my God. Yes. And then fate just comes

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in like a wrecking ball. That storm

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destroying Theo's career. Right. When Ivy's

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restaurant gets that game changing review,

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it's like watching a perfectly choreographed

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disaster.

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Chris: Well, the role reversal is what really takes

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this to another level. When Ivy becomes the

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breadwinner and Theo transforms into this

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health obsessed househusband, it's like

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watching two people trying to rewrite their

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entire relationship contract without actually

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talking to each other.

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Jessica: Speaking of which, how brilliant is it that

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they used the kids nutrition as this proxy

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war? Like sugar treats versus green

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smoothies becoming this whole metaphor for

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their power struggle.

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Chris: And that's where Tony McNamara's writing just

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shines. I mean, this is the same guy who gave

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us poor things. And the favorite, the way he

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crafts these exchanges that are

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simultaneously hilarious and devastating.

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It's like watching a comedy routine performed

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with surgical scalpels.

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Jessica: Let me point out how the supporting cast adds

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these perfect layers of complexity,

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especially Kate McKinnon as Amy making those

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awkward advances toward Theo. It's like

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watching someone try to flirt during a

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hostage situation.

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Chris: You know what really elevates this whole

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thing? The way Florian Hoffmeister's

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cinematography transforms these gorgeous

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locations into this battlefield. And when

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we get to that dream home design, oh

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man, it's like watching someone build their

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own personal Titanic.

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Jessica: That's exactly what makes Jay Roach's

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direction so impressive. The way he balances

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these moments of pure comedy with this

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underlying current of psychological warfare.

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Chris: Well, what's really fascinating is how

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they've managed to make this story feel so

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relevant to modern relationships.

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The way they handle career competition,

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parenting differences, and the slow erosion

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of trust. It's like watching a relationship

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autopsy that's somehow both hilarious and

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horrifying.

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Jessica: So what you're saying is this film really

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captures how thin the line is between love

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and hate in modern marriages?

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Chris: Precisely. And that's what makes it so

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powerful. It takes these relatable elements

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of modern relationships. The career

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pressures, the parenting battles, the power

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dynamics, and pushes them to their logical

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extreme. It's like holding up this

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funhouse mirror to marriage that

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somehow shows us the truth more clearly than

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a, uh, regular reflection would.

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Jessica: Let me tell you why this resonates so much.

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It's because underneath all the clever

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dialogue and stunning visuals, there's this

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universal truth about how easily love can

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transform into something else entirely.

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Chris: And that's really the genius of this film. It

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manages to be both a scathing commentary on

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modern relationships and. And an incredibly

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entertaining piece of cinema. It's m

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definitely one of those rare films that makes

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you laugh while also making you think deeply

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about your own relationships and what it

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really means when we say all's fair in love

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and war. This is mental and physical

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comedy at its finest and makes for a

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thoroughly enjoyable time at the cinema. The

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roses scores an 8.5 out of 10.