From Hot Rooms to Healing: Leaving Harmful Lineages and Finding Real Practice
What happens when devotion slips into blind obedience? Harmony opens this episode with a frank reflection on power, consent, and autonomy in yoga. She then welcomes Tamara Cole, a yoga teacher and former boat captain whose journey took her from Bikram’s hot rooms to a life of freedom and integrity in the Galápagos Islands.
Together, they unpack how groupthink, hierarchy, and manipulation take root in spiritual spaces — and what it looks like to rebuild a practice grounded in awareness, consent, and community. Tamara also shares her upcoming Galápagos Yoga Retreat, where participants reconnect with nature through snorkeling, island exploration, and mindful movement.
The conversation closes with Harmony’s 21-Day Money Magic & Manifestation Challenge, an embodiment-based program that helped Tamara rewire her scarcity stories and rediscover self-worth, grace, and generosity.
Episode Breakdown
- Devotion vs. Obedience in Yoga: Harmony explores where trust becomes compliance
- Tamara’s Story: From Florida business owner to devoted Bikram practitioner
- Inside Bikram Training: Bootcamp culture, sleep deprivation, and witnessing abuse
- Moments of Resistance: Choosing to walk out when a teacher crosses the line
- Groupthink and Belonging: Why students stay, even when boundaries are broken
- Life in the Galápagos: Conservation, connection, and the beauty of coexisting with nature
- Retreat Highlights: Three uninhabited islands, snorkeling, cacao ceremony, yoga, and rest
- Money Magic Challenge: Healing inherited beliefs and redefining abundance
- Community as Medicine: Why doing the work together creates lasting change
Guest Bio
Tamara Cole is a yoga teacher and 100-ton licensed boat captain who spent nearly two decades teaching in Hawai‘i before relocating to the Galápagos Islands. She began practicing yoga in 2008 and trained in the Bikram system before shifting toward more holistic, heart-centered approaches. Tamara now leads transformative yoga retreats that weave movement, mindfulness, and connection to nature.
She is also a graduate of Harmony’s Lightworker Mastermind program, where she deepened her somatic and energetic practices while developing her signature Galápagos retreat.
Find Tamara on IG: https://www.instagram.com/yoga.with.tlc/
Find Tamara on FB: https://www.facebook.com/tami.cole.31
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00:00 - Introduction to Finding Harmony Podcast
00:41 - Exploring the Dark Side of Devotion in Yoga
02:23 - Interview with Tamara Cole: A Journey Through Yoga
06:50 - Tamara's Early Yoga Expe riences
09:41 - Bikram Yoga Training: The Good and the Bad
23:20 - Life in the Galapagos Islands
28:31 - Joining the Lightworker Mastermind
30:30 - Details of the Galapagos Retreat
36:15 - Retreat Details and Pricing
36:37 - Money Magic and Manifestation
37:57 - Personal Money Mindset Journey
42:05 - Money Exercise: Reframing Beliefs
51:40 - The Power of Community in Healing
54:11 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Harmony Slater
Finding Harmony Host / Coach / Spiritual Wellness Teacher
Harmony Slater is a Spiritual Wellness Coach whose mission is to support spiritually-curious entrepreneurs with “science-backed woo” to create a deeply fulfilling life and a business they love.
She's a National Board Certified Health Coach, Certified in both Quantum Coaching and in the Mastery Coaching Methods. She's also Certified Ashtanga Yoga Teacher, one of less than 20 women in the world to hold this honour, after training in India for 15 years.
She began travelling to East Asia in 2002 to study Buddhism, after completing two degrees in Philosophy and Eastern Religious Studies. In 2004, I began a life-long love affair with India, spending the next 15 years living there for extended periods of time immerse in Yoga practice, Vipassana meditation, Ayurveda, and Philosophy.
For the past 20+ years Harmony's been focused on sharing these deeper teachings + practices of multidimensional wellness to support women around the world in eliminating midlife burnout + restoring joy, to create a life and wellness business that nourishes both their soul and bank account. She's taught workshops and retreats in over 30 different countries.
She’s the host of the Finding Harmony Podcast, an active Board Member for the non-profit organization Yoga Gives Back, and has been featured in two anthologies on yoga, pregnancy, and motherhood in: ‘Yoga Sadhana for Mothers’ and ‘Strength and Grace: A collection of Essays by Women of Ashtanga Yoga.’
Tamara Lynn Cole
Yoga Instructor
I was born in Houston, Texas, in 1975. My birth certificate listed my father’s race as “white” and my mother’s as “yellow.” Gotta love Texas.
At Mayde Creek High School, I graduated with honors, though by the end I was more interested in marijuana, psychedelics (especially the free ones growing in the nearby cow pastures), and avoiding athletics. I wasn’t flexible—every year I failed the sit-and-reach test, and I’d walk the mile in 15 minutes just to frustrate my PE coaches. I mention this because people often tell me they “can’t do yoga” since they’re not flexible. Neither was I when I started, and thank goodness I wasn’t on social media at the time or I might have believed the lie of what a yogi was “supposed” to look like.
In 1998, I graduated from Trinity University in San Antonio with a degree in biology. Not ready for more schooling, I joined the Student Conservation Association and spent a season protecting sea turtle nests on Cape Lookout National Seashore. That led to a paid role with the National Marine Fisheries Service, working alongside pound-net fishermen in North Carolina, tagging turtles and collecting samples. From there, I contracted with NOAA, monitoring bycatch on commercial vessels—shrimp trawlers in the Gulf of Mexico, longliners in Hawaii and the Northeast. For weeks at a time, I lived at sea, weighing, measuring, and recording both catch and bycatch.
After four years in fisheries and no more patience to watch amazing animals perish, I shifted into tourism. I started as a deckhand on a snorkel boat in Koʻolina, then earned my 100-ton US Coas…
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