Why do so many men get perimenopause completely wrong—and how is it quietly damaging relationships?
In this episode, I sit down with Sam Anderson, author of Perimenopause: The A–Z Guide for Us Idiots, to break down what’s really happening behind the mood swings, brain fog, anxiety, and emotional shifts that often leave partners confused, frustrated, and taking things personally.
Sam shares his real-life experience navigating perimenopause with his partner—and the biggest mindset shift that changed everything: you don’t need to fix it… you need to understand it.
We talk about:
Why men often take symptoms personally (and why that makes things worse)
What “support” actually looks like day-to-day
The truth about the “hormonal hurricane”
Common mistakes partners make without realizing it
Simple shifts that can improve communication and connection
If you’re in a relationship and feel like something has changed—but you can’t explain it—this conversation will give you clarity, perspective, and practical ways to show up better.
🎯 Key takeaway: It’s not you vs your partner—it’s both of you vs the problem.
📘 Get the book: Perimenopause: The A–Z Guide for Us Idiots (available on Amazon)
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