July 2, 2024

Living the dream with change management expert and Embodiment Queen Gao Motsemme

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Join us in this episode of Living the Dream with Curveball as we delve into the world of change management and regaining confidence with certified change manager, Gao Motsemme. Gao shares her compelling journey of overcoming personal and professional adversities, from losing her corporate job to being separated from her children for five years. Discover how she uses African ancient quantum medicine to heal generational wounds and empower individuals to reclaim their confidence and live their true purpose. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that will motivate you to embrace your unique journey and achieve greatness.
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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Welcome, um, to the living the Dream podcast with curveball. Um, if you believe you can achieve Chee Chee, welcome to the living the Dream with Curveball podcast, a show where I interview guests that teach, motivate and inspire.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Today, we're going to be talking about change management and regaining your confidence, as I am joined by certified change manager Al, uh, Mutson May.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>She is a certified change manager, and she helps individuals regain their confidence and rid themselves of generational toxic relationships and imprint. She helps them regain their confidence so they can begin to crush it from the bedroom to the boardroom and beyond. So, Hal, thank you so much for joining me today.

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> Al Mutson May>Thanks for having me. And I love to do this by starting with the greetings to you and your audience. And I do this in my native language. So dumelang, jumelang, Lokai.

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> Al Mutson May>And in a direct translation, Dumelang is agree. And that's what I want to ask you. What are you agreeing to when you come here to live in the dream with Kev ball?

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> Al Mutson May>So, as you are joining us today, I just invite you to connect to your body and be present.

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> Al Mutson May>And, uh, one thing, especially when you're talking about change management, is choose not to know, you know, and just let go of everything that you've known and be present. And being present this time around, I invite you to be more in your body and allow the sensations that are coming through to communicate with you.

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> Al Mutson May>Allow your body to communicate with you. And Lokai, what it means is, where are you? Which is where. Where are you? Locate yourself. So that is that being present that I'm inviting you to. So thanks for having me.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Absolutely. And we call her how, uh, the queen. So can you start off by telling everybody a little bit about yourself?

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> Al Mutson May>I love that. How the queen.

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> Al Mutson May>I am the queen, and we are all kings and queens in our own rights. But, um, I grew up in a family, a very african traditional family, you know. And, uh, uh, when I came through, I came with this entrance, the big entrance of here.

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> Al Mutson May>I'm the queen. But then there were many questions that were asked and one word or a few lines that my mom used to say a lot was, you are not like my other children. And, uh, that created that wound of not feeling accepted as I am.

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> Al Mutson May>And along, um, the way life happened as well. But most importantly, I would say my childhood setting created that foundation of being unique is a problem. And I went with that to the society, and, uh, I felt not accepted. And I created a lot of. A lot from that wound, that template of who I am. Is not okay. And, uh, life happened, you know, and I believe life was happening for me because through that as much as it was painful, which, uh, this is the reason why I love this podcast, because he's talking about living the dream with a curveball, you know, and that's what life does.

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> Al Mutson May>So I woke up to who I went through through different life changes, including losing my corporate job, my younger brother, heavy and near death, um, accident, losing my mom.

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> Al Mutson May>I lost my father, actually, when I was 14. And then from there, going through an experience that separated me with my children for five years. And there's a mother, which is, um, I would say this, I say this is a generational wound because women, we are esteemed by our children, you know, that's our identity. They become our identity as soon as we have them. And if we have children earlier, that's what defines you, that's what esteems you.

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> Al Mutson May>And you don't know anything besides that.

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> Al Mutson May>And, uh, when I was going through this, I was called to find myself. And in finding myself, that's when I remembered that I've always been a queen.

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> Al Mutson May>And it doesn't matter what happened in life, I do not lose who I am just because of life happening. So, in short, that's all I can share about who I am and where I come from. And we'll see where, where you want us to go.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Well, talk about the judicial issue that you had, uh, of losing your kids.

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> Al Mutson May>Yeah, I had, um, two children with this guy, and we're not married. And this is one of the things that I say when I say, you know, where we come from, one or the other informs us. And at times, even if we're doing great things, we are still making choices based on what we are trying to avoid or what we are trying to learn from. And that is, I was not married to this guy. I had the first child with him. And at the core of my being, I knew that this relationship is not for me. But on the other hand, I didn't want to have children from different relationships.

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> Al Mutson May>And we had the second child and, uh, things were not working out, you know, so I was a single mother of two going through life by myself. And I wore this mask, which I call the I am strong mask.

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> Al Mutson May>I wore that mask, I went through life.

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> Al Mutson May>And, um, by the time he started this judicial injustice, I met somebody. And the plan was for me to relocate from Botswana to Germany, which is where I am right now.

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> Al Mutson May>I've been presiding here for ten years, and he, um, didn't want me to do that. And he knew that I wouldn't leave my children behind. So he went to court. I guess the agenda was for me not to leave the country. And I walked in that court with my head high because I just knew that, you know, what this is in case we're not married. Um, and, uh, I was taking care of the children by myself. But when I left, uh, that first hearing, I couldn't believe what just happened, you know? So I started questioning a lot of things, but at the same time, there was a lot of anger that was just coming through. And as we all say, as mothers, we say this, I will kill for my children.

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> Al Mutson May>So at that time, I was also hungry. I was thirsty for blood.

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> Al Mutson May>I wanted somebody gone. Anyone who comes between me and my children is not meant to be here. But life was here to teach me a different way of being. Like, literally, because, uh, I went through that situation. Everything was against me, even though it was simple. But the main thing that came through, especially when you're talking about a mother and, uh, her identity and her children, when you're saying, I've been separated with my children, people raise eyebrows.

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> Al Mutson May>They are questioning your motherhood.

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> Al Mutson May>It's different from when somebody's talking about the loss of someone who died, because in that sense, we understand, like, it's God's will, what can we do? So there was that shame that came with that. But still, I relocated, and, uh, I went through with my life for that five years, still fighting for my children while I was here. But nothing was working until I received a call one day and my ex boyfriend said, you may need to sit down for this one. And he just told me that I don't think Fiona will walk again because she just had. And she was bitten by two rot violets. It was like a day before her first, her, uh, birthday before she turned nine.

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> Al Mutson May>And that was a moment when, like, every anger and everything in me somehow just dissolved. And I remember the words that I said where I don't want to be strong anymore. I was tired of being strong. And for the first time, I allowed myself to feel deep emotions, deeper than just the anger. Because anger is just like just opening the bottle and allowing a little bit of air to come out, but I allowed myself to go deeper.

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> Al Mutson May>Yeah. But through that journey, as I was going through that, I went back home at that time.

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> Al Mutson May>And, uh, I still tried to do what I could, but nothing was working. And I came back. And I remember when I was coming from work, I took a paper. I just had the nudge to start writing. I took a paper and I started writing.

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> Al Mutson May>And the words that came through were, who are you without a job, your husband, your wife, your mother, your father, your church, religion, all those. There were like lots of questions that we identify with as humans. So I started writing all of that, and I was like, oh, okay, this is a nice conversation. So I thought, I'm just gonna put it out there, you know, share with other people.

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> Al Mutson May>But at the end it said, who are you without a children?

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> Al Mutson May>That's when I stopped and I started crying. I didn't know who I was. And this is also an invite to everyone who is listening. Who are you without anything and everything that you identify with? Do you have your own individual connection to you besides all the things, whether it's material or other people that you identify with? So that was like the beginning, because as I wanted to go and hire the 8th or 9th lawyer, I've lost count by this time. The words that came through was, the odds are against you. You're not going to win. Like, you're not going to win. So I asked, what am I going to do then? What should I do? And I was told, you need to forgive. I just started laughing like a, uh, crazy woman. I laughed with tears strolling down my cheeks. And I said, that's crazy. Do you know what really happened? You know what this guy did? And the next response was, do you really want your children?

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> Al Mutson May>And at that moment, I paid attention and I said, yeah, I do.

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> Al Mutson May>Then you better do the work. And I said, I don't know how to forgive. And I'm sharing this because often we go through stuff and, uh, when someone speaks about forgiveness, we just, like, I have forgiven. And I always, I hear this off, I have forgiven, but it's coming through with a lot of emotions, anger and all that that is, that is being carried through even that word. Or we can just say, oh, um, I'm gonna forgive this person and move on. It's not a mental game because there's a lot that is going on. And the most important thing is to honor the part of us that is hitting at that moment. Because I went, I was asked to go through this journey, my higher self, higher intelligence, inner voice, inner intelligence, whatever you call it. For me, it just guided me to sit and allow, and I gave, I dedicated time to sit in a meditation, and I didn't know what I was sitting in for because that was not the logical way of doing things.

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> Al Mutson May>And the question that I asked is, how would I know that I have forgiven? Because I don't know what you're talking about. The house will change, and you'll have your children. And I don't know when the shift happened, but what I know is I remember the time when I sat in my altar, and at this moment, I was praying for my ex boyfriend because he was going through some stuff. And I said, my children need their father. So I called his ancestors and everybody, and I guide him into the light for him to remember who he is. And at that moment, I was like, I don't even know who the heck I am, because this is not the person who I was when I was for blood.

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> Al Mutson May>That's when I knew that whatever that I was doing, even though it didn't make sense, was working. And I'm now reunited with my children as we speak.

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> Al Mutson May>They've been with me for five years.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Well, congratulations on that.

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> Al Mutson May>Thank you.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Tell the listeners what made you want to go into this, this special nature feeling?

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> Al Mutson May>That's a great question.

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> Al Mutson May>I can't really say I wanted to go into it. I would say, you know, whatever we seek is seeking us, too. And, uh, I was going through these trials and tribulations where I felt like life is happening to me. And I want to honor that aspect of myself that felt like a victim, because at times, we dismiss m the victim because we don't want to be seen as that. So there was a moment when I felt like a victim, when I was going through this, all this, but I didn't know that it was for me. And, uh, as I was going through this, the words that came through is, it's time for you to do what you came here to do. And actually, what happened? It was like a vision. I was just lying in bed, and this words came through you. It's time for you to do what you came here to do. And I asked, what is that? And I remember I had this experience, out of body experience.

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> Al Mutson May>And at that moment, I started connecting m with everybody's emotions. It's kind of like I was just pull through in the. In a pool of emotions for in everyone who is in the world. And it was excruciatingly painful. And afterwards, I was brought back into my body, and the question was, do you want to sit here while so many people are, uh, going through this, while so many people are suffering? And, uh, I didn't know where I was going to start, which is what I started. What am I going to tell people even when I talk about this? Teach them away a new way of being. Those are the words that came through but when I started this, I started trying to find out what people are doing, and, uh, I wanted to do what other people are doing. But the moment I was following other people, I felt disconnected. And I didn't know exactly what my unique gift is or my genius is until I was told, you need to go back to your roots. So I started pulling back and connecting deeply with my roots, which is ancestral lineage. And that's when I started connecting with this inner, uh, knowing.

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> Al Mutson May>Because whatever that I'm doing and whatever that everyone is called to do, it's ingrained within their being, within their personality, within their DNA. So it's a matter of going in and accepting who we are. So this niche, especially healing, breaking free from generational, um, ancestral parents and imprints, it's basically where we create life from the old templates that we are born in. And if you do not, if you just continue with whatever that you carried, including your name, then that's why some things happen.

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> Al Mutson May>Because even when I went back to my roots, I got to understand and heal some deep hidden stuff that were apparent that my parents also played in or repeated. And I was also creating from that, because when you look at things, they did not really start with us. So that's how I got to really be on. Embark on this path, on this niche, which is, um. Yeah, it's a joy to my heart. It makes me. The word is just orgasmic, blissful. That is coming through. So that's the magic of connection to who we are, because we get to embody who we are at a deeper level than what we think.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>So give us an example of somebody who has benefited from your method. You know, somebody who has been able to transform and get rid of the, uh, generations of toxic relationships.

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> Al Mutson May>Yeah, I had different people. But what is coming through is, uh, this amazing woman who. She was amazing in so many ways, but, uh, she experienced, um. I'm just gonna start where she started what she thought it was a problem where she. She went through. She was doing. She was working somewhere. And there were some problems which resulted in her quitting her job, and she quit her job and just stay home with her husband and her children. But still there was a part of her that felt like, this cannot be it. You know, I did all this schooling, going to work for all these years, and now this is where I am. But she knew that she didn't want to go back to work because of the experiences that she had.

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> Al Mutson May>So when she came to me, her pain was money. As many people can relate. I need money. So the first thing that came through in the first session we had, it was more like her father. Like I was led more to her father. And I said, oh, the moment you stop, um, resisting and denying your father, then you're gonna have your flaw. And she was just laughing like, no, that's not gonna happen. So we dive deep, and here are the things that we found, um, which is like part of the core of what I do.

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> Al Mutson May>She was in this war with her father, but it was not about her and her father. She was basically protecting her mother. So she took all the imprints or whatever that her mother was not processing and she kept it.

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> Al Mutson May>And because the father was the breadwinner, she felt like, this man is abusing my mother because of the money that she has.

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> Al Mutson May>And she interpreted that money is this evil thing or the part that is, uh, uh, oppressing other people. And she didn't want anything to do with that. So the relationship with her father of this man is bad, whatever it was. More like money's bad and all that. And she experienced this when she went to work because her relationship was okay, but this imprints were showing more of at work.

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> Al Mutson May>So we started working together. I found out that she's carrying the unprocessed emotions from her mother. And she's fighting her mother's war, which is not her place. Another thing, there was also a m molestation that happened when she was young, which she just dismissed, uh, you know, and this was also playing with her, with her creation.

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> Al Mutson May>And uh, we worked on those things. And after twelve weeks, she did not apply for a job or anything. Her husband got a call and somebody said, I'm looking for someone who's got the skills and they share the skills that she's got. And she said, oh, my wife can actually do that.

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> Al Mutson May>Okay. I said to send the CV. She did not even update her cv. From the past seven years, she has not been doing anything. She just submitted it as it is. And she was invited for a meeting. And when she got there, they said, we actually want you, but we don't want you as an employee. They hired her as a consultant, offering her 90k. She hasn't been working for seven years and she didn't even want to go back as an employee. But here she is getting an opportunity, paying her ninety k and as a consultant as she desired. So that's one experience that is coming through.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Well, talk about some common misconceptions of, uh, aligning one's life with their purchase purpose. And how does your method help get rid of those misconceptions.

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> Al Mutson May>Yeah. Actually, when it comes to purpose, we believe that it's something I'm here doing this work, spiritual work, healing work. And uh, people believe that it has to be something like that. You know, out of. Even though it's out of the ordinary. But the most important thing, I would say it's more.

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> Al Mutson May>It's built within us. There's people who may be doing something that is their purpose. But because they are not connected to themselves, they are not able to embrace. They just know that, okay, fine, I love doing this. But they don't embrace it at a deeper level.

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> Al Mutson May>And purpose is also something that I would say we are doing on a daily basis. The question is, are we being our true self? Because when we are with our children, especially those people that are mothers, those who love to just be home and nature and all that, you know, there is something that they are doing that is beyond that.

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> Al Mutson May>And that is beyond just the mothering role as it's taken for granted. So the skills and whatever that they do, it's something that is built within them. This is why for them it's kind of like I just love to nurture, I love to take care of people and all that. When they develop it, even if they want to use it or want to be paid for it, they can be successful in that. So the most important thing is connecting deeper to ourselves.

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> Al Mutson May>And uh, because I think everybody knows what they love to do. Even though because of the systems we don't really get to somehow. This is what I say.

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> Al Mutson May>If you have like a mother wound or father wound or the society culture taught you a different way of being or who you are, it's hard for you to connect your truth and mother wound often also what it does is it creates that mistrust. We don't trust our ah, inner uh, guidance. Because we are more looking outside, wanting to be accepted.

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> Al Mutson May>So people have disconnected from their truth from childhood. Following the cultural, societal imprints, parents, whatever that they were taught. So when it comes to purpose, we think it's something that is out there. The question is, what is it that you're doing? What led you to that? You know, is it something that you did? Which is I invite everyone to just look at that. Is it something that you did because you wanted to prove a point to somebody or you wanted to make somebody happy? Especially when I look at even one of the father wounds. That I also realize at times is like the father is always busy. It happens even with mothers, especially these days. Always busy working hard and all that, and we don't have time to bond with our children. So the only time that children get to receive love, it's when they did something.

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> Al Mutson May>So when you are used to getting a compliment, when you do something, you're just gonna want to do something to make someone proud. And you are not in the picture. You don't even know what makes you happy because you are still trying to get love, whether it's through the compliments and all that. So the misconception is that, uh, it has to be something wild out there, but it's more like, what is it that is truly within us? And, uh, the words that I use is, what is it that turns you on?

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> Al Mutson May>Because it's connected to our sexual energy, whatever. When you are really following your purpose, you'll feel this deep excitement. But if you haven't been connected to your purpose, you may feel.

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> Al Mutson May>You may feel some fear. You know, it's not like it's gonna be like full orgasmic bliss at first. If you're thinking less of yourself, unworthiness issues and all that, it's gonna scare the shit out of you. But you get to also embrace that turn on energy that is present and follow it. So what is it that you love to do that? Let's start there.

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> Al Mutson May>And how often are you doing things that turn you on? Because this is the guidance. If you are connected to yourself. If you are not, you may still want to really have a look to say, am I really doing things that are really my thing or I'm just following what I was handed over. So that's the misconception that I'm talking about. That people think it's something out there, but it's just what is built within us, what lights up, what turns us on. So we get to follow that and then it will, uh, evolve into that mastery that your soul wants to give birth to in this lifetime.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>So talk about how you use african ancient quantum medicine in your practice and how that differs from the traditional form of healing.

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> Al Mutson May>Mhm, that's a great question. Um, with my work, as much as I may be talking, it's not about the talking, it's more about what the body and other, uh, because we have this emotional body, mental body and all the other energetical bodies. So what is the body sharing, you know?

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> Al Mutson May>So with my work, I get to sit and have a conversation. What do you want? I want an amazing loving partner. If you want that, the body gets to light up where you are storing emotions, blogs or this inherited imprints that, ah, are getting in the way of that. And it's quite interesting because just by speaking about that, even the energy that is coming through is more like, um, the wounded masculine is the energy that is coming through as I'm speaking about relationship. So anything that we desire, anything that we talk about, there is certain imprints that are stored in the body.

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> Al Mutson May>So when we do this work, we're, we're going to go there, we're going to allow the body to guide us into what needs to be moved for you to receive whatever that you desire. And it's different in the sense of, it's not about the mind, what we think, you know, because even when you're talking about love, yeah, it's easy.

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> Al Mutson May>I want to be with somebody who loves me.

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> Al Mutson May>And all that is the word that we use is a four letter word, but it means different things, um, based on where we come from. Because the first thing that I love to ask people, when you want an emotionally available partner, what kind of love were you exposed to? What kind of love do you know? You know, because our nervous system craves what it knows. When somebody comes here, somebody, uh, who is more like, who provides that healthy relationship that you need, they're going to turn you off.

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> Al Mutson May>Because what turns you on is what, you know, somebody who is bringing the toxic imprints, that's a person who's going to be like, oh, my God, this guy here, you know, because those are the imprints that are. Your nervous system craves that. So the difference with my word, with my work is I don't work with the mind. You know, we can talk about something just to give the mind something to hold into. But the most important thing is what is it that the body is holding into? Whether it's ancestral and all that. And, uh, as I mentioned, I'm a human MRI psychic surgeon. So with the scan of the body, and then when we dive deep, I get to remove that, just like you do surgery, but without any opening.

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> Al Mutson May>So that's what makes my work different.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>So tell us about any upcoming projects or current projects that you're working on that the listeners need to know about.

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> Al Mutson May>Okay, I have just launched the extraordinary woman embodiment blueprint.

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> Al Mutson May>I'm, um, yet to launch the magnetic leadership one, which is mainly for men.

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> Al Mutson May>So. And I have another ongoing program of unapologetically youth program that I. That I have.

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> Al Mutson May>And that is like a one on one. The extraordinary woman embodiment blueprint is more for women.

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> Al Mutson May>It was meant to be an eight weeks program.

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> Al Mutson May>Right now it's a nine weeks. But the way I'm getting downloads, it's going to end up being a twelve weeks program.

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> Al Mutson May>Because, um, as much as I have an idea of what I'm being called to do or to deliver in a program, but it shifts depending on the need. And uh, this is what I'm working on.

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> Al Mutson May>We just completed the third week, um, this past week of healing the father wound.

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> Al Mutson May>And uh, we're just going to be diving in, into the healing, the experiences that somebody had. So those are the ongoing programs that I have, that are currently running. But uh, the unapologetically you is more often a one on one session where somebody wants to dive in by himself or herself.

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> Al Mutson May>And we get to look at what is needed, is customized.

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> Al Mutson May>As much as I can give an example of what we work about, which is like, the first thing is freedom of individuality. And uh, when I talk about that, I'm talking about disconnecting from old templates. And it's deeper than just ancestors. It's even in your name. What are the imprints that have been passed over many generations as we pass on over the name that you are carrying? Um, quite interesting, because as I'm speaking about this, I'm just being led to the solar plexus, like the power center, and a lot of things going on. So. And that's exactly that. You know, every conversation has its own energy. So, freedom of individuality. We disconnect from the ancestral lineages, parents, and also clear your name so that it can have a frequency that is in alignment with what you desire. And with the freedom of individuality is also, um, disconnecting from imprints that you have inherited from the mother or the father. Yeah. So mother wound, father wound, ancestral. Like, that's the freedom of individuality. And then you get to connect with your unique signature blueprint. And then from there we carry on with your own creations and your experiences. Because that is, there is a lot in there as well.

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> Al Mutson May>As you go through life, what you believe and what you also create, that also gives an illusion of who you are, which I would say it tames the queen or the king that is in you. So we're going to be working on that to fully embodied the magnetic confidence.

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> Al Mutson May>Also integrating the inner child is one of the things that we do along the way. And another thing is, um, sexual sovereignty, which is, uh, disconnecting all the cause and imprints from the lovers that once has had over many m.

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> Al Mutson May>I would say many lifetimes, even though it's more like this lifetime. But some things goes beyond only this lifetime. So sexual energy is one of the things that when we connect with someone, it's not just about, oh, here we are having sex, and, oh, now we're not together. It's deeper than that. The merging goes deeper than that. And other codependency entrance. So we're working on that. And I also, one thing. This is also what makes my work special that I didn't mention. I talk about embodiment, that is bringing people into the body. Because you may have done a lot of work, but you have not fully embodied your sexual sovereignty. And, uh, you may have done the work while you are out of the body. Because people go through different experiences. And when something happens, there are aspects of yourself that kind of, like, they cannot deal with the pain in the body. Especially, even when you're talking about illness, when someone is having pains in the body and all that, they don't feel comfortable in the body because it's painful. And my work, when I say I get to scan and see what is happening in the body, I bring your spirit and all that. You are, uh, back in the body. And that's why I'm talking about embodied confidence and self love, embodied emotional intelligence. Because you become that.

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> Al Mutson May>It's not just an idea. You don't have to force yourself through using affirmations and all that. It just happens naturally because you are it. So those are the three programs that I have that are going on currently.

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> Al Mutson May>Yeah.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Throw out your contact information so listeners can keep up with everything that you're up to.

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> Al Mutson May>Yeah, um, I'm available in, uh. I'm available in all social media, and my website is also haumeteme.com.

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> Al Mutson May>so just search me up. And I'm also going to give you and your audience the amazing link.

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> Al Mutson May>If you want an introduction to my work, which is orgasmic clarity. It's bit lyrical. Forward slash orgasmic clarity.

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> Al Mutson May>This is a 45 minutes gift for you to get to know what is standing in the way of your success and freedom.

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> Al Mutson May>So I'm just going to share whatever that is coming through.

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> Al Mutson May>And, uh, what you do with it is up to you. If you want to dive deep and work with me, cool. I'll share opportunities, um, for you to work with me. If not, then again, I can only believe that you're going to succeed, but you will get the information that you need.

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> Al Mutson May>So I'll share that link with you.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Absolutely. Close us out with some final thoughts.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Maybe if that was something I forgot to touch on that you would like to talk about, or, uh, just any final thoughts you have for the listeners?

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> Al Mutson May>Yeah. You know, as I'm speaking about this work and just us going through life and, uh, even the personal development and all that, there is this, I would say, positive toxicity, which is more like chasing positivity. I want to be positive. I want to be positive.

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> Al Mutson May>And possibly being positive is a great thing, but don't do it at the expense of yourself.

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> Al Mutson May>Don't abandon yourself while chasing positivity. Allow yourself to be with you. Allow yourself to feel. Emotions are the evidence of life. When you disconnect from your emotions, you are connecting from life, because emotions informs us where we are not in alignment with life. And here is my belief, and this is like the quote, that I live with, the level that you are not fully free is the level that you are not fully joyful, and that is the level that you are not fully loving. So my question to you, just to sum it up, where are you not being free to be yourself? And mostly free with?

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> Al Mutson May>Because you know that whoever that you allow to see the person that, yeah, you can fully unleash all of you around that person. And what's possible if you can allow yourself to be all of you at all times, you know? So that's just, um, one thing that I want to say. So allow yourself to be fully free. Embrace the freedom and be joyful, and be fully loving.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>All right, ladies and gentlemen, there we have it. Queen how please be sure to check out our website. Check out the link. Please be sure to follow rate review share this episode to as many people as possible. If you have any guests or suggestion topics, see Jackson 10 two.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>Thank you so much for joining us.

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> Al Mutson May>Thanks for having me.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>For more information on, uh, the living the Dream podcast, visit www.djcurvefball.com.

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> Curtis Jackson (also known as DJ Curveball)>until next time, stay focused on living the dream. Dream.