“White People Sh*t” We Like

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Jay dot Il, a production of My Heart Radio Piece of Love. Y'all, Jill Scott presents Jay dot Ill with my sister Plans a job and and I'm Jill Scott. What's up everybody? I hope you are doing well. We are here chip check. You know how we do. We are going to talk about some white people ship that we never thought in a million years that we would be interested and more than that that we would love it. Okay, okay, Well, I am immediately of the thinking that none of this is actually white people ship at all. That I would I venture to say out of the box that of the stuff we're gonna talk about today, maybe even ninety originated with the blacks to begin with, because it all started with us, because it all the black can we can we add as we do this list? Can we analyze? And really decided to start with the blacks? I like that. I like it to Let's go forth. Who want to go first? Oh? Okay, I'm gonna keep it simple. I got a couple of these things. Okay, okay, So the first one is JACUZI outside in the winter. I don't know if that's black people ship. You know, let's let's discuss that's that's that's that's definitely not that's not black. Hai hai. However, however, what I will say is that black people don't fun with the cold. So we're gonna figure out a way to bring the summer situation into the winter situation at some point. Let me say this, going skiing, let's start off with the Poconotes. That's that's, that's level C. Let's just go through the level C entry level skiing, snowmobiling on that. I saw every now and then some some white folks outside in the baby and suits. I said, these people are nuts. They are out of their entire minds for being outside. First of all, in the cold. It's freezing cold, it's snow on the ground. Stupid. That was my opinion. Have you done that thing that rich white people do? Have you gone to? Where is that in Ireland or Scotland where it's like snow and then people jump into the warm springs. This is like a thing where there's like stars in the sky that you've never seen before. What is this place called? So, Willie, this is a rich people ship. We're talking about black people, but that's rich white. That's a rich white remix. This is where I am with it. Okay, that's where I am with it, all right. So level a Aspen, going to Aspen and seeing all of these white folks in this jacuzy outside, it's it's for reason we walked by them. We got on coats and hats and scars with gloves and long times and and all of it, just trying to stay warm, handwarmers, warmers in our shoes because we were black and it we used to being warm, or want to be so we don't know much about this. I talked more ship than a little bit about these crazy fools. And then our friends that were with us had on their baby suit and they went to the JACUZI I stood by the window and I talked about them too. I said, trying to be here, trying trying to be something. I don't even know what they're trying to. My girlfriend calls him to brunch of blacks. I talked about that. I talked about that the first trip, second trip would go back to Aspen again, and I find it. I love this place because it's so low key and and everybody is chilling. You know, they think I'm the nanny or something, you know, which family. Are you with? I was like, with family, are you with? I was like, okay. Anyway, So at the time, I was married to l Boogie Lizell what's up Lie? And yeah, So we were like, all right, come on, let's do this. Let's just do it like we're here, Let's do it. Man. When I tell you the walk to it, I cursed at myself. I called my whoof fir and fur? I called myself all kinds of dumb, dumb idiots, dumb bitches. I did, I did, And I got in that water and it enveloped my body and it was cold outside, but that fresh crisp air on the step of my head and my whole body submerged in this hot ass boiling water. When I tell you Heaven, Heaven, I was like, I've been missing this. This the relaxation, the whole juxtapose of that super super hot and that super super cold. What it did to my body. I got out the water. I'm kid back to the room with my baby suit on. What was on your feet? I had the boots that I put on, some boots. Pure white people fun weekend. You was skin and in the jacuzy in the wintertime. Oh no, it's skin and Aspen. Yeah that's level three. Yeah, level three, level three, level three, it was level one. You got we're talking Switzerland. Na nag at the A game, Oh, I said. When I say level one, I gots, I'm thinking the opposite, like A one. But y'all going, okay, one to Aspen and then after that would be Switzerland, which every man, I'm gonna skip that though. I'm I'm I'm particularly black in my blackness, and now that I'm over forty, it's a couple of things that over forty black people ain't trying to do, is is be cold and fall So I feel as if that time has passed for me. That's safety. It's not forty were worried about falling and breaking bones? Oh my god. Well, lets and I have to say that I can't. I can't ski. I've I've hired several world class ski instructors, and I cannot ski. I can go, I can get down the slope. I can. My problem is that I cannot stop. I can't stop into Okay, but your feet won't let you be my feet do it. But I still go. I can turn to the side like you're supposed to like that should. I can turn to the side, but I still go. I don't know why I can't stop. I have fallen into ditches, I have crashed into small buildings. I have crashed into a tree. I'm I could. I fell off a lift as it was coming down. I just got off too fast and busted my lip. But I tried. And that's what it's about Black people trying these fun things that white people have a tendency to do more than us. See, here's the deal, is that they get an opportunity, or have had an opportunity to frolic, to play, to enjoy. And this is this is kind of new to a lot of it's to the you know, the idea of just enjoying life, the simplicities of life. Going skiing in the winter. Some of us have had that opportunity, but a lot of us from the hood don't know what you're talking about, going outside and getting snowsall. And so I just want to say, if you do things since you was little, by the time you get in your twenties and thirties, it's like, okay, you you got the vibe, right. We we out here to start things. When we finally got enough money to go somewhere in some disposable income. And we all here and these months, been doing this mess generations, and I'm gonna say this. I'm gonna say this right here for me as well. Some of the particular white ship that I won't do is when I have to invest too much money in equipment just to show up and suck at it. That is fair. That's how I feel with skin camping camping. But somebody and bodies you want to glamping trip, you ago, I am going glamping. In fact, I am planning. In fact, I am planning something called gam uh. I mean no, is it gamp No? What is it called glambe? Must be still somewhere it's gam No. I'm still in the printing planning projects. It's all grown as woman camp Okay, I'm killing all that, ain't m because I can't spell whatever? Grown as women? Okay, Okay, So we got the jacuzy, the Jacuzy in the winter thing. I'm here to tell you that that is a yes for me, yes at any time, because that is some of the best rest I've ever gotten. And that little juxtaposition between hot and cold, it is fantastic feeling and invigorating. So there's my I want to try it. You should? You know what I could try? That? I could that I could try you should. There's no falling involved, and I think I could do it. And I'll have to put my head under the water because I wrote that down on my list. That's fun things white people do. Swim at a moment's notice. Swim at a moment's notice. Yes, what is that to like? Like, let's go swimming. Wait a minute, did you look at my hair? I didn't get it braided? Hold on, I have to go underneath the wait, so hold on, let me just think because I think about what I'm gonna do. Actively goes swim all were going out because hold on, let me hold up. I don't know. I've given up that ghost because I'm natural and I've been for a long time and I know that there's gayles to wear and hats of all kinds. So I'm not tripping. I love to go swimming. That that just makes me happy. Yeah, I've been natural for a lot of years too. I mean I did go through a period of time where I had a sow in um and that was a nightmare for I can't imagine you was da taking care of it. I don't see. This is to see. This is what I don't like. See I try something and then you want to put me out there like I don't know what I'm doing. Like, listen, I've done all the things. I didn't had wigs, so in the natural, I've done all that. Remember that I had it for a second. I did. I thought that was cute. I was like, I had that. Ship is maintenance. I'm cool. Yeah, I can't take maintenance, the itching portion of the show. I can't take that portion. Yeah, that's why I stopped doing it. Can black girls use the clamps like the white girls? Do you know how that dude used to definitely use those? Now? Okay, alright, I don't know girls were clamps. We clamped like hair clamps. You know how they just clamped their hair on top of their hair and they make a weed like they it's their hair right here and then underneath their like just clamp some pieces. It's real fast. You ain't gotta just corn roll your hair no more. See ship white people do. But now we do it, and and that's that's great for us. I will say that the wigs, the we've the soul ends the clips and clamps. I promise you that that was some white people should that black women took and now we have run with it like we all of that that did not originate with us, and we have become the masters of such. So that I'm at that weaves now it's like you're looking at the white girl like, oh, girls, it's just fortunate that we don't have a bigger steak or the steak in the hair business. That's that's the unfortunate portion of the show. Well, the millennials are starting to change that a bit. Yeah, I won't says yeah, I won't say that that. You know, there was a time where very easy to find a black woman who will sell you some hair. And now what she man you factoring the hair. Now now we have yeah, now we have black Malaysia to hope the whole thing. But now we have black owned hair supplies, black on hair suppliers, all that good stuff. It's the black people. The blacks are getting all into. Yeah, I found a black beauty supplot place in California. Shouts to beauty bees. I'm just saying shout out, yes, um, can I do another white, fun white thing that maybe it's not as expensive, but I'm glad that black people are now on it. No go ahead, no, no, no, my ma, my mama. Man, girl, you don't need permission from nobody in here, get it. I'm happy that black people are hiking now, and I think that's something I just think that's something that can be done on all coasts, you know. And I'm just excited to see more black people as I hike on mountains and we nod to each other. It's just nice. I'm just saying that that was originally a white person's thing, but we're hiking now, you know what we I'm gonna I'm gonna take that. I'm gonna say that that's a black thing because you like from from original so Philadelphia barefoot, Okay, that's not girl. I didn't come back to it so fast. I didn't think about that, ma'am. Through the through the mountains, through the mud, through the through the Guck Pass, and the wolves. I guess the ancestors would being like, wait, y'all walking just to be walking for for fun and fitness. I guess that. Okay, I got it. I got it, Okay that we like it for freedom. I'm gonna claim ma'am, ma'am, they just did a re enactment of a slave revolt down in Louisiana, twenty six miles to re enact a slave revolt, which they walked twenty six miles. Do you hearing me from one plantations, from plantations to the next to try to set it all? Does that take cays? I don't even know. You know, ma'am, I don't know, and I don't want to know. That is a gigantic shout out of praise, respect, and adoration, because even if I had the newest Nikes and sunscreen bug spray, uh Nikes, that is not something that I don't want it down miles with a machete in a muslin in a muslin dress. Add add I don't even know what that is, but that sounds hot. Just add barefoot, just add that just God, No, I think Harry, I haven't seen the movie yet, but I think she had some shoes. Well that was the second trip. The second trip she got shoes. Oh ship, I just made that up, but I believe I believe she was like, I'm gonna go back. See. That's how a black history means getting made right here. That's how black history meme is getting made. Somebody went to the computer just now was about to make a meme. Yeah, but he second time. Second time, Harry didn't have no shoes to the second trip. Shut up, I enjoy life. She she figured that out? Was like, wait a minute. That first time was I mean, everybody, um, you know the first time we do something that's hard? Is I mean the second time she did it? The thirtieth times she did it was hard. So please don't get me wrong. Okay, all respect due to that woman, that fierce warrior. Okay, what I'm saying is that she figured I'm sure she had to figure that out. That that you know that I can't make this trip. I don't want to make this trip barefoot again. Not again. Yeah, I saw Glory it was you know that ship was suck up. You've seen Denzel's feet. Yeah that was a movie, though, wasn't it? Face got something real? This is where this is where others where this is? All right? And a man leave you right, I haven't litten Come on, okay, okay, I'm I'm gonna move. What was next? Freaking safari? I want to do that. I want to well is it wait? Is it a culturally appropriate. Listen, I'm here to tell you I got the hook up. I can't even the latest detective So I know, you know, people, that's right when I got When I got to Botswana, they were like, we want you to be the travel spokesperson for Botswana, so we're gonna give you, um the golden ticket. I went to five different safaris. You know what, just the first time you're saying that you like the President of Bostwana, I ain't. Man. I would have been gone, oh god, oh my god. Okay. The first yes, please, The first time I went um, we were in Habard only, which is a big city in Botuana. We flew from Habard on it to my wound, that's another city. And then we went from my wound by helicopter to the Kalajado desert. Most people say the Kalahari, but it's you know, just so you know what, I say it again, Yes, yes, First of all, that place is silent, scary silent. If there's no buildings, there's no electricity to make that hum, there's no cars. It is a gigantic desert. Never been to that before, so of course, putting my foot down on the ground and realizing my foot on the ground made no sound. Well, it was like being on the moon. Blew mama, Blew mama. Yeah. I had a similar experience outside of Vegas, which is clearly not just saying, let somebody get Asia's where's she going? Trying to see y'all, y'all gonna have to look, y'all gonna give America is not like apparison to the continent Cold go ahead of Let's say it wasn't a kind of hotti. But I had a similar experience, is what I'm trying to say. What I'm saying is we drove out of Vegas because I'm really not a big fan. Peace and love to whoever is from Vegas. They probably are not talked living on the strip anywhere. But I'm not really a big fan of Vegas. I'm an asthmatic. I can't do the smoke whatever. So Fatina I drove out of the city and just said, you know, we're just gonna drive out and drive towards the Hoover. And then we went to this other National park. And it's the same thing. When you go out into the National Park, which is out in the desert, it's the same thing silence you under saying like it's deafening. You go out there and it's like there's nobody here, no wine. It's amazing, and it's easy to not run into other hikers, like it's very easy. Okay, I need you to add I needed to add animals. I need to add wild animals that are minds. Okay, Snakes and birds for sure. There were not a lot of uh, there were not a lot of of animals in the desert. There was some zebra occasionally zebra. Okay, there's a difference between zebras and zebras. What what what is that? The president? I'm sorry off ye zebras are black with white stripes and zebras are white with black stripes. Oh my god. Okay, y'all believe that's ship. Don't you do your jail Scott boys and act like we're gonna believe it. That's a bullshit. No zebras is zebras the same thing, just memes. Gonna tell somebody something. After we get off the phone, I was literally writing it down like I'm about to sell the kid to the kids. Okay, okay, okay. So in the on the safari, they take you out, it's it's fantastic. My toilet was mahogany. Okay. My I had an outdoor shower and an indoor shower and the tub was made of brass. And listen, this is if you're gonna do it, dog going it, save your money, spend your time and do it. It's fantastic. They serve breakfast every day, and and lunch and and and amazing meals. It's like blended Andrew Barrymore movie when they went to South Africa to the safari. That must be what it's like, because I don't know what I think, but I know what this fantastic experience. And then you go to the Okavanga Delta and that's a whole other safari that's in the jungle, and you're minding your business, doing what you do, and a lion roars and the whole shuts the funk up, everybody, insects, everybody black, grab it. I wanna go. It's amazing. You feel the lions war all around you, everywhere, under your feet, behind you, in front of you. You hear it everywhere, and everything stops. It is like it's a testament to the glory of God and the power of of of his creation with the green is so green, and the animals they are funny. They are funny, they laugh at each other. They sing at night, everything sings at night. It's incredible. I would I don't know whether to believe her as you believe you have to have you have to. It's literally I'm just saying, I'm just not gonna repeat none of this. I'm here, I don't have time to lie. I don't just gonna tell nobody, not until I go. When I go, I'm like, okay, that's been authenticated. But no, I will say this. I maintain just ea I was. I was in make you like be lying something from the Lady detective girl bybe Okay. I'm just going with safari as some white people ship that we definitely need to take over, like we definitely need to enjoy that. I have to say this several of the things that we talked about so far. Again, I just feel like luxury items too though, like yeah, that's okay, but I got I'm no, I got something. I mean, hiking wasn't luxury. Hiking is not luxury. Well no, because you can listen, let me tell you something. You can hike in Philly and most people don't even take advantage of hiking and Philly and the what's the hickens and seeing all the beautiful hidden statue and stuff in the poor So I hid in your local area. I ain't calling a board alright, Alright, that I went to with the hicking trail for the first time this year, I'm gonna just go ahead and put it out there. That's my first time, and I was really really impressed. That was in the middle of They have the ladder falls. Yeah, they have wonderfalls. They also have something called the Devil's Pool and people just be jumping off, like swinging on that rope, which brings me to other things that white people do that I did try when I was in Costa Rica. You jumped off a rope? Is swinging on that rope when you swing on the rope and then jump in the water. Did you do it in time? Did you? I did it in time because I watched ridiculous. That's like you know in time. However, I did have to hold my nose because I got scared. So it was it went from being free like the white people to being like the I had to. I had to. They just jumped in any direction you had to say that, and my left titty came out because I had one of um on like a band do bikini. Why did you have a band do bukini on g cup? First of all, because they needed this big brown love out there, girl, I had to be out. And if I was gonna be out in the forest and the waterfall, girl, they was gonna get all this brown around here? Can I say that in this conversation. Another thing that came up between the two what you guys just said that I noticed that fun things that white people do the black people might not do. White people explore their cities that they live at, and a white people knew about the the Hicking Trail. No shade to you, to you Asia, because the white no, don't know You're right Hick Trail. So I'm like, but people seem to really know the intricacies of their towns, like the fun things. I don't know. It's weird. Well, no, I mean you're right. I accept that. I know that I do get into a comfort zone with my space and with you know, where I where I live. I like my little coffee shop, I like my little this and my little dad, and I'm really comfortable in my in my neighborhood, and forget that the city is as big as it is, and you know, you venture other places and you're like, oh wow, this is really nice or this restaurant or this little shopping district or this kind of thing. You're absolutely right. But I will say this much. One thing that helped me to see the city more was supporting black businesses because there's no black business district and if you go out of your way to support black businesses, you end up going all over the city. Here. Here, that's a good way to see the city. That's actually, that's nice. We've just been able. There's there's more um, you know, luxury finance than we've ever had, and there's more desire to get off the black than there ever was. You know, even if you go back to the block just to go outside of it and expand you know, is now a real desire. And I think that's who's up. I think y'all think that social media and people being able to like see others travel and do their things as your fire folks to kind of you know, spread their way. Yeah, I mean, we didn't have a travel noir. You know what I'm saying now, we have a website where we can just find out about all aspects of black travel around the world. Like that's amazing, and you can actually see black people at a Safari travel group. There are black travel groups now, like they all over Facebook like and that that would just be my dream, like just to get black people to lead a country, you know, and and black kids to be able to lead a country. So because once you leave the country and you see other things, you want to go somewhere else next with my next place, Well, how am I gonna do it? I gotta work a little harder. I gotta pay attention to school. I mean that's that's that is true. And once you get outside of your block, you know what I mean that, So once you get out of the side of your block, the more you see, the more you want to do. The more you do, the more you want to That's just the way it works. And all tho you have a thing, there's a thing where black folks just what's available to us. Sometimes we just don't feel comfortable in places. And that's just that white gaye thing where we're feel uncomfortable going to places we think we don't belong there. Um, I've experienced that with my family times when we've taken the kids on certain trips or to do something on activity and we're the only black family there, and oftentimes we might spend ten fifteen minutes talking about it. Finally I put my foot down. I was like, I don't want to hear nothing else about us seeing the only black people here. I don't want to talk about it. I don't even want to address it because I'm like, we're so worried about how these white folks are seeing us. We're not even having fun. We're not even having fun, Like, forget all of that. Stop being worried about where you belong and where you don't belong. And this is that another we're joking around, But why about what white people do? But at the end of the day, it's that thing in the back of our minds that say things are not for us, when it's all when the world is for us, it's all for us, And that that was a whole black his episode. No, that's that's relative. When I moved my grandma to Mount Laurel, New Jersey from Lord Philly, she she got out the car was a total surprise that she was moving. I just told him to pack. I mean, they didn't know where they were going, but they you know, I told him to pack, so they did. And when she saw her house and the flowers and everything, and she said, are they gonna let us stay here? You know that's that's She's born in nineteen seventeen, you know, so she had seen it's all. She was there for the thirties and the forties and the fifties and the sixties, you know, the whole gam it. She saw it all. So you know, there's still I think a certain amount of fear, like you said, Agia, that you're gonna get somewhere and you're not gonna fit in, or you're they're gonna you know, you're gonna feel uncomfortable. Like after a while, it started to tickle me that every time I went to ask when they thought I was a nanny, and whose family are you with? I'm with King Joffrey Joffer's family. Fuck you, That's what I'm with, Like we have to ask. Well, I was just I was just reminder all black fools that are considering going into these spaces to know that everywhere we go, we have labor. And even when they're trying to act like you don't they feel it, So enjoy the feeling. You know what I'm saying, I don't mind. Well, I don't do this, but I have a girlfriend who just ventured into it, and she has um actually meshed together this idea of like wellness spaces like yoga into like an active resistance. So it's like specifically about creating yoga specific but all wellness spaces that are geared towards black people. And I also follow this page on Instagram called the NAP Ministry that now this sounds interesting. The NAP Ministry US and she talks about how she has created this space to fight capitalism, to fight white supremacy, but mostly she's speaking from a womanist perspective. So even though she's never been specific that this wellness space is geared towards black people, she's never said, oh, this is only for black people. She has centered the black woman and her needs as the inspiration for and the voice for the space. So I kind of liked the idea of you know, and things about wellness resting. Oh my god. Her mission we examine the liberating power of naps. We believe rest is a form of resistance and reparations we installed NAP Experiences. What follow nap? I'm following girl, and it's my face even placed love being you know what, it's such an interesting place to be because it's not is it? That's the question I'm gonna ask you, ladies. Um uh is it that we are trying to um distance ourselves from everybody else? Or are we trying to celebrate and uplift ourselves. It's the middle of all kinds of middles in there, right Talk to me like we didn't always like it started with what we were talking about earlier, about having the access to some of these things that now we're enjoying, right, like not even haven't thinking we have the time because of our daily activities. And then wait, what was the second option you said, Jill? You said the last one you said? Is it distanting ourselves or is it uplifting ourselves? Well, I don't know, because see, for me, I think a certain amount of distance is needed in order to heal once self. So if we're going through something as an individual, you might decide to sequester yourself just a little bit. Oh, I need my space, you know, um, in order to heal, So I need to kind of create a healing space for myself first and then invite others into it. So I think, yeah, there is a bit of distance that's there that I mean, and I think it's really necessary. But then also the part about uplifting ourselves, uplifting yourself also too, and and we just talked about it, talked about it in terms of that ministry is the centering of oneself. A lot of times, it's not that we don't want to share spaces. It's just that we don't want to go into a space that um either hasn't considered us or it doesn't look at us as normative. So we're always in addition, where the little where the sprinkles on top, we would like to be the actual ice cream. We would like to normalize us being at the center. Yeah, but I'm just saying I really appreciate these thoughts, you know, because is that it's something that we should consider if we are just distancing ourselves. Because I know this, I know, I know that if the aliens came tomorrow, I don't care who it is that's gonna help me, And I don't think anybody would care if I were to help them. I think they'd be so happy. You know to get some help. Make sure you know you're just in the right hands when it's time the revolution come to when the aliens come, When the aliens come, When the aliens come, they'd be doing told they're being told the eliens. All the black people live down now on a knife from Baltimore, go get them. Y'all ain't remember Cosmic Slot when they did the episode where all the people that were darker than the brown paper bag gotta go looking for Cosmic Slot. I've been looking for what can't I find it? They don't want you to. I can't find it, and I've been looking. Why can't I find it? Do you remember that episode? Do you remember that? I don't remember anything. I need to see that. Why is it hiding from me? I'm gonna find it for you, because, yeah, it feels you hook me up. Do we have one last white people ship that we would like to highlight on today's show. I'm gonna just go ahead and say freedom man, Well then yes, yes, mother Joe, I'm gonna go ahead and say freedom, teach mother Free? How do you say? How you say free? But what's your sad? How do you do that? Fred? Fred? Fred? Free? Don't free don't. Oh, yes, freedom, amen, I'm here for it, wild and lipt, fancy free with yes, free of fear, honey. Isn't that what Nina Simone said? Yes, amen, amen to not. I mean, I'm certain that everybody praised, you know, or or or something like it on their way or the children's way, you know, out into this world. Because the world is a lotted it can be crazy. I'm certain of these things. But that's a different kind of prayer, y'all. It's a different kind of prayer when it's a black woman and her children or a black father and his children. It's a different kind of prayer because we don't know where, you know, we don't know how, and right outside, typically right outside the door, is a whole world waiting to devour our children. Yes, yea, yeah, I'm all away into that. I'll take some of that. I'll take all you can get. How do you eat an elephant? One? By? It time? How everyone eats? The producer here? If you don't know, now you know that it's resource time, the part of the show where we walk the walk and give you something you can take with you to learn something new or do something meaningful. Since we're talking about things white people like. Today, we're going to recommend some ways for you to find the good White fund in your area, Like you suggest checking out NPR or your local city paper, you know the one that's always sitting in front of your favorite local coffee shop. 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