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Callaroga Shark Media. I'm Garrett Fisher, And in early twenty
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twenty five, Sabrina Carpenter had a decision to make. She
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was twenty six years old and at the absolute peak
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of her career. Her sixth album, Short and Sweet, released
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in August twenty twenty four, had become a cultural phenomenon.
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Espresso was the song of Summer twenty twenty four, an
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inescapable earworm that peaked at number three on the Billboard
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Hot one hundred. Please Please Please hit number one. The
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album itself topped the Billboard two hundred. Then came February
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twenty twenty five, at the sixty seventh Grammy Awards, Carpenter
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won her first two Grammys, Best Pop Solo Performance for
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Espresso and Best Pop Vocal Album for Short and Sweet.
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After years of grinding she'd released her first album back
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in two thousand and fifteen, when she was just sixteen,
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Sabrina Carpenter was finally getting the recognition she'd earned. She
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was on a massive, sold out tour. Radio loved her.
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Streaming numbers were astronomical. She'd found a formula that worked.
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Clever innuendo leyden pop songs with sixties girl group influences
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and modern production courtesy of Jack Antonoff and others. Why
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mess with success? And yet, sitting somewhere with a random idea,
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Sabrina Carpenter decided to write a country song Let's Back Up.
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Because to understand Manchild, the lead single from her seventh album,
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Man's Best Friend, released June fifth, twenty twenty five, you
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need to understand who Sabrina Carpenter is and how she
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got here. Carpenter was born in nineteen ninety nine in Pennsylvania.
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She was a Disney kid starred in Girl Meets World
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from twenty fourteen to twenty seventeen. Like a lot of
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young actors who also sang, she got a record deal
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while still on the show. Her early albums were pleasant
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but unremarkable teen pop, the kind of music that gets
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released because you're on a Disney show, not because you're
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making artistic statements. But Carpenter kept working album after album,
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year after year. She wasn't an overnight success. She was
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grinding it out, writing, constantly developing her voice, both literally
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and artistically. By her fifth album, twenty twenty two's emails
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I Can't Send, she'd found something closer to her authentic,
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self confessional, witty, a little bit heartbroken, a little bit defiant.
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Then came Short and Sweet in twenty twenty four, and
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everything clicked. The Dolly parton influence, the cheeky wordplay, their
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fusal to take herself too seriously while still being emotionally honest,
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songs like Nonsense, where she'd improvise different outros at every
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tour stop. The album was only thirty six minutes long,
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hence the title, but it was perfectly instructed, no filler,
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just hits. By late twenty twenty four, Carpenter had opened
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for Taylor Swift on multiple legs of the aristour, experienced
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her first massive solo success, and proven she could carry
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an album on her own creative vision. She was working
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on new material for what would become Man's Best Friend,
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her seventh album, and on one random Tuesday, not too
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long after finishing Short and Sweet, Carpenter was in the
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studio with two of her key collaborators, Amy Allen and
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Jack Antonoff. Amy Allen had co written every single track
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on Short and Sweet. She understood Carpenter's voice, her humor,
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her way of looking at relationships. Jack Antonoff well. By
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twenty twenty five, Antonov had become pop music's most in
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demand producer. Taylor Swift, Lord, Lna del Rey, the nineteen
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seventy five and now Sabrina Carpenter. He'd worked on several
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short and sweet tracks, including Please Please Please and Slim Pickens.
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On this particular Tuesday, they started working on a song
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that would become Manchild. The premise was simple but universally relatable.
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Why are we attracted to incompetent men? The guys who
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are gorgeous but can't handle basic adult responsibilities, The ones
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whose brains seem only half functional, The ones who make
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you wonder how they've survived this long on earth. Carpenter
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didn't write it about anyone specific. She made that clear later.
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She was still dating actor Barry Keegan when she wrote Manchild,
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and they wouldn't break up until December twenty twenty five.
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This wasn't a disc track aimed at a particular X.
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It was something more interesting, a self aware examination of
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her own patterns. The song opens with Carpenter chuckling, then sighing,
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Oh boy, right away, you know the tone. This isn't
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going to be angry or bitter. This is going to
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be exasperated. Amused, knowing a loving eye roll, as Carpenter
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would later describe it. The verses lay out the situation
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with specific funny details. A guy whose phone was broken,
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he just forgot to charge it. His outfit is so ridiculous,
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you hope it's ironic, he says, he's finished, But you
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didn't even know you'd start it. It's all familiar, and
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that's the point. Carpenter is describing experiences that feel achingly
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specific but are actually incredibly common. Then comes the pre chorus,
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where she cycles through possible descriptions stupid or is it slow?
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Maybe it's useless. But there's a cuter word for it,
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I know, and that word, of course, is Manchild. Musically,
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the song does something clever. It starts with synthpop production,
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very much in the short and sweet Wheelhouse, but then
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as it moves into the pre chorus, a banjo appears,
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a sitar blends in. Suddenly you're in country pop territory.
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The production becomes fuller, more textured, more interesting. This was
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Jack Antonov's doing, and his approach to recording Manchild reveals
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a lot about why he's become so dominant in pop production.
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Antonov has said in interviews that he likes to treat
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machines like instruments. For Manchild, he ran old tape echo machines,
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not as a plugin or a digital effect, but actual
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physical tape machines. And he didn't just set them and
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let them run. He physically touched the tape, warped it
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by hand, created sounds that could never be exactly replicated.
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It's a weird approach for modern pop music. Most producers
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are working entirely digitally, stacking tracks in a computer, tweaking
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frequencies with plugins. Antonov intentionally uses analog equipment, and he
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uses it imperfectly, creating textures that have warmth and character.
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For Carpenter's vocals, Antonov made a crucial decision. Keep them
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raw and close. Don't stack them, don't double them, don't
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smooth them into polished perfection. Let Sabrina's actual voice be
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the thing you hear, intimate and present. This matters because
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Manchild works as well as it does, partly because it
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sounds so conversational. Carpenter's not trying to impress you with
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vocal runs or dramatic belting. She's just talking to you,
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laughing about the absurdity of her own romantic choices. The
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bridge is where the song's real inside appears. Carpenter sings
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about liking boys who play hard to get, liking men
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who are incompetent, and then the kicker and I swear
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they choose me. I'm not choosing them. It's a perfect
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moment of self delusion, the kind of thing people tell
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themselves to avoid responsibility for their own patterns, followed by amen,
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like she's blessing her own denial. The song debuted at
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number one on the Billboard Hot one hundred when it
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was released June fifth, twenty twenty five. It was Carpenter's
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first single to debut at the top spot, though Please
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Please Please had previously climbed to number one. It also
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hit number one in the UK and Ireland, becoming her
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fourth UK chart topper in a row. But the path
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to release was interesting, and it reveals Carpenter's confidence in
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her own artistic instincts. Remember, Short and Sweet was a
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pop album, a massively successful pop album. Espresso was synth
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pop perfection. Please Please Please was sixties girl group pop
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with modern production. That's what people expected from Sabrina Carpenter
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in twenty twenty five, and she decided to lead her
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new album with a country influence track. When she announced
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Manchild on Instagram, her caption was telling this one's about you. Immediately,
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fans started speculating was this about Barry Keeogan? Was this
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a diss track? The Internet loves drama, loves the idea
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of songs as secret messages about real people. Carpenter addressed
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this directly a few days later. She wrote that she'd
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written the song on a random Tuesday with Amy and Jack,
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not too long after finishing Short and Sweet, and it
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ended up being the best random Tuesday of my life.
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She continued, Not only was it so fun to write,
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but this song became to me something I can look
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back on that will score the mental montage to the
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very confusing and fun young adult years of life. It
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sounds like the song embodiment of a loving eye roll,
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and it feels like a never ending road trip in
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the summer. That phrase loving eye roll perfectly captures what
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Manchild is. It's not mean, it's not vindictive. It's affectionate exasperation.
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It's laughing at yourself for your own choices, while also
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acknowledging that, yeah, sometimes men are ridiculous, and it's okay.
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To point that out, she ended I writing thank you
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men for testing me with a pig emoji and a
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white heart. Even her caption had that playful tone. The
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music video, directed by Vanya Hayman and Galmougia, took that
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energy and ran with it. The concept Carpenter is hitchhiking
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across the American West, trying to get somewhere, but every
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guy who picks her up is useless. She rides on
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the back of a jet ski being driven on a highway.
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She's in a shopping cart attached to a motorcycle. She
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reclines in a motorized lazy boy chair. None of these
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men can actually help her reach her destination. It's a
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visual metaphor for the song's content, guys who promised much
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but deliver little. The video required thirty seven outfit changes
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thirty seven for a three minute song. Carpenter is in
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daisy dukes and dresses in various Western inspired looks. The
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directors wanted fast paced editing, something that felt like a
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movie trailer, keeping the energy high throughout. During the second
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day of the shoot, Carpenter fell backwards into a cactus.
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She's told this story in interviews with evident delight. They
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were filming in the desert, doing increasingly elaborate and dangerous
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looking stunts. Carpenter wielded a shotgun, she fell off a
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cliff with safety measures. Presumably she encountered an orca somehow,
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and at some point during all this chaos, she backed
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into a cactus. The entire second day of filming, she
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was pulling cactus spines out of her body. But she
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came back for a third day because, as she put it,
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the original cut wasn't crazy enough. Yet. That commitment to
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the bit is very Sabrina Carpenter. She's not precious about
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looking perfect or staying safe. She's willing to throw herself
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completely into a concept, even if it means literal pain.
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The video dropped June sixth, twenty twenty five, and immediately
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went viral. The absurdiest humor, the constant costume changes, the
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ridiculous modes of transportation, it all reinforced the song's playful tone.
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This wasn't a serious commentary on gender dynamics. This was
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a fun, slightly unhinged romp through relationship frustration. On October eighteenth,
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twenty twenty five, Carpenter performed Manchild, on Saturday Night Live,
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where she pulled double duty, serving as both host and
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musical guest. The staging was perfect, a bedroom set, with
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Carpenter dressed in a white T shirt and pink underwear
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emblazoned with the SNL logo retro playful, slightly subversive. It
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was her second time on SNL as musical guest and
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her first time hosting. The fact that she could do
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both comedy sketches and musical performances highlighted her range. She'd
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come from acting, after all, she knew how to work
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a camera, how to commit to a bit. Norman's got
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attention not just for the song, but for Carpenter's confidence.
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Here was an artist comfortable enough in her own skin
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to sing about incompetent men while wearing underwear with a
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logo on it. She wasn't trying to be sexy or provocative.
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She was just being herself. Funny, self aware, a little
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bit chaotic. Here's what makes Manchild work as more than
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just a novelty song. Underneath the humor, there's real insight
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about patterns in relationships and self awareness. The song doesn't
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blame men for being incompetent. It examines Carpenter's own attraction
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to incompetence. That's a much more interesting angle. Anyone can
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write a song complaining about exes, it takes real honesty
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to write a song examining your own role in choosing
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those exes. The line and I swear they choose me,
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I'm not choosing them, followed by amen is brilliant because
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it's both funny and true to how people actually think.
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We tell ourselves stories about our romantic choices. We pretend
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we're passive recipients of others attention rather than active participants
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making decisions. Carpenter is gently mocking that tendency while also
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admitting she does it too. The country influence in the
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production is strategic. Country music has a long tradition of
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songs about no good men, cheating hearts, and romantic disappointment.
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By incorporating banjo and sitar, by giving the song that
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country pop flavor, Carpenter is connecting to that lineage while
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updating it with modern synthpop production. And the choice to
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release this as her first single after Short and Sweet
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was genuinely bold. She even acknowledged this in her Instagram
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post about the release. It is deaf, a bold and
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scary move to release a f full ass country song
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after only releasing one song last year and it having
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such a success in the pop genre. She continued, like,
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I'm very scared as I type this, Lol, but I
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think that's the entire point of chapelone. Be bold and
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scary and have fun. Be pop star girl, then pop
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an edible plus watch YouTube vibes. The whole point of
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this is to be silly. That last line is key.
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The whole point of this is to be silly. Carpenter
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understands that pop music doesn't have to be serious to
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be meaningful. It can be playful, funny, even goofy, and
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still connect with people on a real emotional level. The
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commercial success of Manchild validated her instincts. Debuting at number
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one on the Billboard Hot one hundred meant she'd now
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had two number one debuts. Please Please Please climb to one,
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but Manchild started there. In the UK, it was her
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fourth consecutive chart topper, following Espresso, Oh Please Please Please,
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and Taste. The song also became a moment of cultural conversation.
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Articles were written analyzing whether it was actually about Barry
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Keyogan TikTok was full of people singing the chorus relating
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it to their own experiences. The phrase manchild became shorthand