Jan. 19, 2026

How to make – and keep – friends

How to make – and keep – friends
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How to make – and keep – friends

Friendship is vital for our health and happiness, but we don’t always prioritize it. Today, we revisit advice from The Optimist’s Maggie Penman on how to find connection.

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Friendship is vital for our health and happiness, but we don’t always prioritize it. The Optimist’s Maggie Penman goes on a journey to make new friends and learn why so many of us are craving connection.

Today’s show was produced by Maggie Penman, with help from Ted Muldoon, who also mixed the show. It was edited by Allison Klein.

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If you want to check out Billy Baker's book, it's called “We Need to Hang Out: A Memoir of Making Friends.”

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