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You have ever wondered what lessons many
people learn too late in life. Get

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ready, because in this episode I' m going to reveal those lessons to

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you from the perspective of stoicism,
offering you powerful tools to face challenges and

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grow as an individual. Now,
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can offer clarity and direction in modern chaos.

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Work hard quietly and let your success
make all the noise. You'

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re the only person who has to
be with you 100% of the time,

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so start liking yourself and who you
are. Never let a bad day

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make you feel like you have a
bad life. Every second you spend comparing

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your life to someone else' s
is a second you lose yours. If

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you don' t like something about
your life, you have to change it.

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He won' t change for you. When you write the story of

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your life. Don' t let
anyone else hold the pen. Every person

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in your life is a teacher.
Some bring lessons about love and support,

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others teach you what to avoid overthinking. It ruins you, ruins you,

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the situation distorts things. It makes
you worry about futile questions and makes everything

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much worse than it really is.
Don' t worry about what people say

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behind your back. They' re
people who always find faults in your life.

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Instead of fixing your faults, stop
looking for the good in people and

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start looking for good people. You
have to do what is right for you.

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No one else is walking in your
shoes. The more grateful you are,

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the more you will attract to be
thankful. You can lie down so

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people can pass over you and they' ll still complain that you' re

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on their way. When you think
about life, remember this. No amount

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of guilt can change the past and
no amount of anxiety can change the future.

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Prioritizing yourself is not selfish. You
see the true colors of a person

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when you are no longer beneficial or
for his life. Don' t get

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married because you think it' s
something you should do. You don'

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t have as much time as you
think. Tell people, who you love,

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that you love them and tell them
often if you' ve never questioned

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whether you made the right decision,
you haven' t taken enough significant risks.

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Not everyone is with you, as
they say they are never trust what

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someone says, watch what they do. You can' t love someone enough

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to love you back be careful with
your words. Once said they can only

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be forgiven, not forgotten. Don' t let someone who did you wrong

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make you think there' s something
wrong with you. Be smart enough to

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realize that life doesn' t wait
for you to be well, go where

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you are appreciated, not just tolerated. Fix your body first. Having a

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weak body is a reflection of your
broken mind, your lack of strength,

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discipline will, and your bad life
decisions. Some disconnections will bless your life.

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True success does not depend on seeking
the validation of others. It comes

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from taking advantage of opportunities, demonstrating
what you are capable of and achieving your

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goals, despite the challenges. When
you find someone smarter than you, work

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with them. Don' t be
intimidated by them, don' t belittle

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them because they didn' t value
you. Know your courage, even if

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they don' t. If you' re willing to sacrifice what you want

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the most for what you want now, your future will always be full of

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disappointments. Being single with peace of
mind is much better than being in a

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relationship with someone who makes your life
miserable. Sometimes you just have to say

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no and ignore the guilt, which
often follows the right and the most difficult

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are the same. What you do
today can improve your mornings. Sometimes in

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life your situation will be repeated until
you learn the lesson. It doesn'

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t matter if you' re right. Sometimes people around you will shape your

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life in more ways than you think. Sometimes there' s no right decision

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to make in those cases. First
he makes a decision and then he works

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to make it right. The biggest
and worst mistake you can make in life

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is to fear continually that you will
make. You learn to be happy and

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happy with yourself. If you need
company to be happy, then it will

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weaken you. You' re not
responsible for what other people expect of you.

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Not all thoughts need to be expressed. There are things in life that

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we don' t want to happen, but that we have to accept,

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things that we don' t want
to know, but that we have to

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learn, and people that we can' t live without, but that we

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have to let go. It doesn' t matter who tries to teach you

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life lessons. You won' t
understand them until you live them. You

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can start your life again yourself at
any time you want, you can start

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being the person you really want to
be. Right now, the people who

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ask you the most are the ones
who do the least for you never sacrifice

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these three things. Your family,
your heart or your dignity. Always look

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where you' re going, not
where you' ve been. Sometimes it

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is not people who change, but
the mask that falls. It shows respect

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even for those who do not deserve
it, not as a reflection of its

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character, but as a reflection of
yours. When you can' t find

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a solution to a problem, it' s probably not a problem to solve,

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but a truth to accept. Nothing
goes away until it teaches us what

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we need to know don' t
make permanent decisions based on temporal emotions.

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Sometimes it' s better to just
stay away from certain people. No matter

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how hard it is. Some people
are simply not worth the effort to understand

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to know someone' s character.
Not only observe your actions, but also

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your reactions. It' s harder
to fake a reaction. The way people

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treat you is a reflection of their
character, not yours. Mistakes are proof

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that you' re trying. You
don' t do your self- esteem

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in the opinions of others. Don' t do anything you' ll have

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to lie about later. Make others
look bad. It doesn' t make

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you look any better. Light travels
faster than sound. That' s why

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some people look brilliant until you hear
them talk. Sometimes you just need to

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relax and have faith that things will
work out. Let go a little and

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just let life happen. Life is
inherently risky. There' s only one

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big risk you must avoid at all
costs, and that' s the risk

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of doing nothing. Too much thought
ruins the situation It distorts things. It

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makes you worry about futile questions and
makes everything much worse than it really is.

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Don' t worry about what people
say behind your back. They'

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re people who always find faults in
your life. Instead of fixing his faults,

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you can fall in love more than
once. You don' t need

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to worry much when someone you love
leaves you most of the time it'

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s for the best. You'
ll have to make very practical decisions about

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what you want from life and what
you' re willing to do to get

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it. If you don' t
make those decisions, life will make them

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for you. Change happens when we
go against everything we' re used to

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doing. Failure shows us the way
by showing us what is not the way.

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It' s normal to feel bad
after making the right decision. No

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matter how kind and friendly you are. Some people will despise you. Don

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' t waste your time. In
them difficult times are actually a blessing,

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because they awaken you to the good
things, to which you never paid attention.

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Never try to win someone' s
sympathy. People who care about you

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will be there for you when you
need them. You can' t make

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someone love you by giving you what
they don' t appreciate anymore. Most

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of the time you have to swallow
the pain and learn to grow on your

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own. Money does not guarantee happiness, but poverty can bring significant challenges.

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Hiding from your problems won' t
make them disappear to face them is the

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only way to grow. Regrets can
persist your whole life if you don'

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t learn to forgive yourself and others. The time you spend comparing yourself with

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others is wasted time in useless thoughts. Often people will take advantage of your

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kindness if you leave them the problems
are rarely as bad as we think,

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or rather, they are just as
bad as we think. Sometimes painful things

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can teach us lessons we didn'
t think of. Need to know.

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Be happy on your own. Don' t look for someone else to validate

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your existence. Act like you'
ve been there before. You should welcome

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change as a rule, but not
as your ruler, just because things could

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have been different doesn' t mean
they would have been better. Life does

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not become easier or more forgiving.
We become stronger and more resilient. It

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is not mistakes that define one'
s character, but how one responds to

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those mistakes. People will disappoint you, so never trust anyone completely. Hard

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work does not always guarantee success,
but laziness almost certainly guarantees failure. You

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will never be really happy if you
constantly seek the validation of others. The

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search for perfection is useless. Aim
for progress instead. Your value is non

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- negotiable. Never settle for anything
or anyone who diminishes it be careful what

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you tolerate. You' re teaching
people how to treat you you' ll

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never be 100% sure of a
decision, but always make a decision,

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because it' s better to go
back and correct it than not to make

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any. It doesn' t matter
who tries to teach you life lessons.

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You won' t understand them until
you live them. You can start your

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life again any time you want.
You can start being the person you really

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want to be. Right now,
the people who ask you the most are

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the ones who do the least for
you never sacrifice these three things. Your

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family, your heart, or your
dignity learn to say no without feeling guilty,

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protect your time and priorities. Maybe
you' re not healing, because

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you' re trying to be who
you were before that person doesn' t

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exist anymore, because there' s
a new you trying to be born.

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There' ll always be someone who
can' t see your courage don'

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t let you be. You don' t learn anything from life. If

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you think you' re always right. Nobody owes you anything. You have

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to work for what you want.
In life there are things that we don

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' t want, that happen,
but that we have to accept, things

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that we don' t want to
know, but that we have to learn,

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and people that we can' t
live without, but that we have

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to let go. What you want
requires consistency and discipline. Your whole life

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can change in an instant. So, instead of taking for granted what you

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have, learn it and do all
the good you can. With it.

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The worst enemies are those who pretend
to be your friends. The actions of

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men are the best interpreters of their
thoughts, never decide what you can or

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cannot do based on your lowest points
in life. Just leave for tomorrow whatever

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you' re willing to die,
leaving without making it the harder your life

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gets faster, you' ll reach
your goals. The excuses won' t

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fix your problems. Take responsibility for
your actions, accept that you will make

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mistakes and learn from them rather than
regret them. Be, my friend,

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of those who expand your thought.
Not just your circle. A man who

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wants something will find the way.
A man who doesn' t want it

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will find an excuse. Now you' re halfway through the episode. I

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congratulate you for trying to become a
better version of yourself and I also humbly

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ask you to leave a comment as
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achieve a mentality. Stoica Some people
won' t like you no matter how

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hard you try to win their favor. Sometimes you have to take risks and

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even if it can be scary and
out of your comfort zone you will never

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know what it could have been unless
you try to give you advice based on

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your perspective. Avoid making decisions when
you' re angry and avoid making promises

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when you' re happy. You' ll never understand the harm you did

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to someone until they do the same
thing to you be careful who you allow

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in your life. People will come
and completely exhaust you. Then they'

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ll leave and blame you. Maturity
is when you have the power to destroy

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someone who did you wrong, but
you just breathe away and let life take

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care of them. You' re
the only person you can control. Be

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humble enough to know that you can
lose everything, but confident enough to know

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that you can get it all back. Remember that every time you try to

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make progress, you spend so much
time improving yourself that you don' t

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have time to criticize others. Smart
people stop thinking too much once they understand

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that the best decisions require more intuition
than pure intellect. It all starts and

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ends in your mind. What you
give him power. He has power over

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you He works to master your mind. Love is not enough to have a

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happy and lasting relationship. Being open
and not being afraid to communicate is vitally

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important, even if it is a
difficult conversation. Everything in life teaches you

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a lesson. You just have to
be willing to learn a man' s

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measure. It' s how he
endures misfortune. If you put them on

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a pedestal, they' ll have
no choice but to look down at you.

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Every pain makes you stronger, every
betrayal smarter, every disappointment more skillful

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and every experience wiser. When you
marry all the good and all the bad

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in your relationship, it intensifies.
You teach people how to treat you things

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rarely change for the better in your
life, unless you change them. Difficult

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conversations are often disguised blessings let go
and let life strengthen you no matter how

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much it hurts. Keep your head
up and move forward. Sometimes it'

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s a blessing not to get what
you want. The more you like yourself,

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the less you need others just because
you' re good. Keeping other

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people' s secrets doesn' t
mean they' ll do the same for

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you. It often takes a change
of self rather than a change of scenery.

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It is possible not to make mistakes
and still lose. That' s

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not weakness, that' s life. The inner peace begins the moment you

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choose not to allow another person or
event to control your emotions. Who pisses

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you off controls you. There can
be no progress or achievement without sacrifice,

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and a man' s worldly success
will be in proportion. To how much

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sacrifice we advance in life when we
let go of fear. The greatest danger

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for most of us is not to
set our targets too high and fall short,

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but to set them too low and
achieve them. Be a reflection of

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what you like to receive, which
gives if you always come back never speak

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from a place of hatred jealousy,
anger or insecurity, evaluate your words before

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letting it out of your lips.
You only have one body to look after

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it. If anyone emphasizes he'
s telling the truth, you can be

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sure he' s lying. The
excuses are always there and are easy to

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find a solution. That' s
what requires courage. Don' t let

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anyone treat you badly just because you
love them every time you lie you create

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problems you' ll have to face
in the future. Do the right thing

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now. Someone who believes in himself
doesn' t need to convince others.

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Learn to miss someone without wanting him
to come back. If life wasn'

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t hard. You' d never
grow up. Sometimes you just have to

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accept that some people can only be
in your heart, not in your life.

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Don' t let people know too
much about you. Most don'

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t worry and some secretly want you
to fail when you react you lose power.

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Tomorrow never comes, because it'
s always today. Perfectionism is procrastination,

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it is a disease, action is
cure. Never expect to receive what

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you give. Not everyone has a
heart like yours your state of mind determines

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your life experience. Prioritize your mental
health, as you would with your physical

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health, exercise your mind with new
challenges and positive self- talks. Life

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is difficult because we don' t
appreciate things that come easily Don' t

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let loneliness lead you to make temporary
decisions with long- term consequences. Once

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you' re on the right path
in life, you' ll stop offending

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and getting angry all the time,
because you' ll have much better things

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to do with your time. Your
growth depends on your willingness to continue learning,

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even when it is boring. Keep
your personal life private and don'

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t tell everyone everything, even when
you have a lot to say. It

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' s top- notch to take
care of yourself find a relationship where being

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naturally makes the other person happy.
The easiest way to destroy your self-

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confidence is to constantly break the promises
you make to yourself. Stop fooling your

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future with your past will grow as
much as the amount of truth you are

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willing to accept about yourself without running
away all failures are temporary. When you

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keep trying, when you blame someone
else for your problems, you give him

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power over you, allowing him to
define and dictate your well- being.

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Blind trust often leads to betrayal.
The only person who needs to understand is

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you. Your life gets better once
you stop assuming you' ll always have

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more time. Then be proactive.
Every day must be a step forward.

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The first to apologize is the bravest
the first to forgive is the strongest,

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The first to forget is the happiest. Nothing will solve all your problems,

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no goal, no achievement, no
relationship, No one will fix you,

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never show respect, even those who
do not deserve it, not as a

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reflection of his character, but as
a reflection of yours do what you do.

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Winning isn' t everything, but
you always win if you' re

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satisfied with having given your best effort. Usually, people just want to hear

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the good, not the bad,
so if you have problems, it will

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be hard to find people to trust
in your rocking pain for a while will

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make it worse when you finally feel
it. When a decisive moment comes.

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You can do one of two things. Define the moment or let the moment

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define you stay away from the narcissists. They don' t play with any

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rules and they' ll drain your
energy. Select your thoughts as you select

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your clothes every day. This is
a power you can cultivate if you want

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to control things in your life.
So desperately working in your mind is the

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only thing you should try to control. No matter how well you do for

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people. They' ll only remember
your mistakes in every situation. Life asks

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us a question and our actions are
the answer earth. Set your own standards.

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Find out why You, why it
is the basis of your goals and

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give meaning to your actions Taking responsibility
for all your problems relieves more suffering than

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you create. One of the most
dangerous things you can do is compare your

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life to someone else' s.
It' s not a competition, it

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' s your trip. Don'
t give up after the first failure.

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Failure is not the end. It' s just a detour on the road

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to success, just because you can' t see the point behind a challenging

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moment. Doesn' t mean there
isn' t one. When you create

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your mind, find a way to
do it. Reality embraces the long game.

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Patience is the ultimate competitive advantage in
the game of life. Your future

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needs you. Not your past being
true to yourself can lead to loneliness,

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but it' s worth it.
People will try to knock you down out

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of envy. Don' t be
surprised. It' s normal it'

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s scary when things change, but
it' s more scary when they don

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' t. The truth is,
everyone' s gonna hurt you. You

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just have to find those worth suffering
for On a day when you don'

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t find trouble, you can be
sure you' re traveling the wrong way.

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The magic you' re looking for
is at work you' re avoiding.

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You must discipline yourself carefully. You
must keep the promises you make to

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yourself and reward yourself so that you
can trust yourself and motivate yourself. Our

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lives are defined by opportunities, even
those we lose when you build in silence.

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Nothing knows where to attack. The
pain. He only leaves you when

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he' s taught you what you
need to know. Some lessons should be

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learned twice when you feel you are
hanging from a thread let go. You

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shouldn' t be holding onto something
that makes you feel that way. First

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of all, the truth is that
bad things do not affect us as deeply

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as we hope. That' s
also true for good things. We adapt

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very quickly to both. Never underestimate
contempt. When someone looks down on you

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and talks to you like you'
re below them, they' re likely

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to hurt you, whether it'
s related, socially or physically that person

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out of your life. You can' t expect everyone to be good to

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you and, at the same time, you can' t be good to

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everyone. It' s during the
worst moments of your life, when you

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' ll see the true colors of
people who say they care about you if

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you never heal from what hurt you, you' ll bleed about people who

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didn' t cut you. Never
wait and never trust anyone too much.

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Don' t stay with bad friends, just because you' ve known them

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for a long time. Our wounds
are often openings to the best and most

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beautiful parts of us. Our job
is simply to respond well to your desire

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to be perfect. Otherwise, you
won' t be able to improve the

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repentance of putting those who don'
t put you first makes your life painful.

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You have to determine where you'
re going in life, because you

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can' t get there unless you
move in that direction. Even a happy

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life cannot be without a measure of
darkness, and the happy word would lose

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its meaning if it were not balanced
by sadness. She can' t be

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happy with someone else if you'
re not happy. Don' t be

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afraid of life with yourself. He
believes life is worth living and your belief

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will help create the act of harboring
grudges It will never harm people you hate

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only yourself. There' s only
one thing that makes a dream impossible to

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