Stuck in Love (2012) Greg Kinnear, Jennifer Connelly

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Your sister is a great writer,
and it's because she's courageous in her life.

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They both want to go back to
your room home sex and never see

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each other again. She's promiscuous.
That's not the same thing things. And

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I'm not sure I made the right
decision. Think about us, our story

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and all of the things that went
wrong with us, and I could do

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it so much better at this time
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Even? Movie? Hosted by filmmaker Enrique

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Kuto and movie aficionado David de Noyer. Spoiler alert, Welcome back, my

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friends to do You Even? Movie? And do you smell that love is

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in the air? I am your
host, Enrique Kuto, here with my

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co host double D David total poser
Denoyer. Yeah, I'm really gonna get

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into this. Yes we are.
You're the one who wore a family video

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sweatshirt. Mister, I don't really
rent anything anymore. I just did rent

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from them. You have admitted to
me, Yes, you have admitted to

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me that most of the time what
you did was bought the used copies because

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it was the easiest. Dude,
I got a copy of Midsummer on Blu

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Ray for eight bucks. Okay,
first of all, that's too much,

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and that's too much, and second
of all, if you rented from them,

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maybe they could have survived a little. I was not the one factor

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that made Family Video. You know, you might dissemble, you miss disassemble

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Johnny five. I know, I'm
afraid on this one. We're gonna have

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to Enrique is right, it's so
handsome. I mean, we'll take it

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for now. I mean, I'm
just trying to help you, Okay,

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just please no, David, but
you killed Family Video because video zest for

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the idea of renting movies. You
were like, bro, I'm just gonna

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take advantage of the ones that don't
do well and buy them cheap off them.

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Bro Bro, bro Bro. They
had so many copies that they had

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to, you know, eventually sell
them. I I mean I did go

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after a lot of stuff that like, like I think I got my toxic

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Avenger Blue. You almost never rented
from there. You told me this about

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ten times, about ten times altogether. I was a prolific rent your Family

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Video because I care well, but
I would go with you to rent things.

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So there is that I didn't you
know necessarily do the rent. Are

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you gonna say that to I?
R s Well, my friend paid his

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taxes. I should be fine.
You want to get into the movie.

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I have no clue what you're talking
about now, so, uh, welcome

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back, everybody, happy to have
you here. It is now February.

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How do you say February February?
I just destroyed it. Now he doesn't

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know how because you have We talked
about how I can't say rural. Can't.

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You can't say a lot of words, but rural specifically is a word

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I cannot rural. I roll too
much. Rural, rural, rural,

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rural. Yeah, you're just now, you're just being a dick. That

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has been that's been my life.
I can't say that word. That has

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been my life, my struggle.
Uh rural, But uh no, you

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can't say tons of words. So
it's fine. I enjoyed explaining what the

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word decimated. It makes you feel
a better. People misused that word always,

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No, I mean, that's that's
why I mis used, because I've

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always heard misused. Apparently. I
mean, you make me sad. So

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and speaking of sad, sad perfect
transition for February. Obviously, we decided

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to choose a couple of love and
Valentine's themed films. Yes, we did,

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and this week's is the You're twenty
twelve twenty twelve heartbreak film Stuck in

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Love, a film that I discovered
in a very odd way. And we'll

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get to that in a second,
but do you want to give a quick

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rundown of Stuck in Love? And
we're finally in the two thousands. I

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was looking at the films we covered
and I was like, man, it's

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a lot of nineties with just a
smidge of eighties. Man, like,

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we gotta I mean, we have
Mercy Christmas and just another Christmas. Okay,

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we did have Mercy. No,
no, you're right, that's not

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that's fairy. But we haven't had
anything in the twenty tens. Real week,

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I mean kind of mercy Christmas.
But anyway, go on, dude,

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all right, so we're talking about
Stuck in Love from twenty twelve.

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This movie is one hour and thirty
seven minutes, rated R for language,

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teen drug and alcohol use, and
some sexual content. I hate when films

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have language in them, like don't
talk at all, everybody. Sorry.

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I always laugh when I see it
says like language, I'm like, well,

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that's vague. People are using speech
to communicate R. So. The

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director and writer of this movie is
Josh Boone. He directed Stuck in Love

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in twenty twelve. It was his
directorial debut. He then went on to

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do The Faultnar Stars in twenty fourteen. Yes, the New Mutants in twenty

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twenty. I didn't know. He
did the New Mutants Stand remake in twenty

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twenty. The mini series, Yeah, the one that Peacock or what was

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it CBS Plus At that point,
I forget what they were called in I

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can't remember. Yeah, but I
never watched it, did you? I

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haven't yet. I really really want
to, okay, because I really like

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Faultner Stars and I actually really like
the New Mutants as well. The Mutants

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is fun. He was also the
writer, of course, on Stuck in

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Love. He also did All the
We All We Had in twenty sixteen,

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The Pretenders in twenty eighteen. He
wrote New Mutants in twenty twenty, and

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wrote On the Stand in twenty twenty
as well. Well that makes sense.

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Yeah, And like I said,
he is the writer rector. The other

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writer is credited with creative development.
That is Rick Bitzelberger and the reason that

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I put him on here is because
this gentleman has a very interesting resume.

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So he is a writer on Embrace
of the Vampire in nineteen ninety five,

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goes on to do Erotic Confessions the
same year, Embrace the Darkness in nineteen

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ninety nine, Eddie's Million Dollar Cookoff
in two thousand and three, the Disney

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Channel original movie What Yeah. Then
goes on to do Crazy for Christmas for

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Lifetime in two thousand and five,
All She Wants for Christmas in two thousand

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and six, and then Stuck in
Love. He has created development on in

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twenty twelve. He was also an
actor in nineteen eighty nine's but Where Children

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At Play? Ah, the New
Jersey classic. Yes, I a buddy

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of mine was actually on set.
Ohh she wear Children at Play? He

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was filming like BTS Yeah, And
to this day he always says, man,

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it's so annoying. You know.
I called Troma and I told him

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I have all this BTS stuff and
I want to do something with it,

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and they don't even care. No, they don't. I bet they don't.

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So then to finish us off with
this gentleman. He was also the

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producer of Ultiple films in the nineties
that just so happened to have the Penthouse

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title with them as Penthouse Pet of
the Year Playoff in ninety one, Penthouse,

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Passport to Paradise in ninety one,
Penthouse sat and Lace in ninety two,

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Penthouse on Campus in ninety five,
And he also was the producer for

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Erotic Confessions in ninety five as well. Do you know who directed Erotic Confessions?

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That might have been a Jim Wnorski
joint look like a series? I

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don't know, I I but uh, I would love to know how he

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ended up being a part of Stuck
in Love. Yeah, Actually, that's

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really interesting in his creative development title
for it, especially because, like I

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said, with Boone is the is
the main writer and director on this.

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So what I mean, what does
creative development usually mean in that ass Usually

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you don't credit someone. Is that
That means he must have had some kind

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of writing credit, but they didn't
want to give him a real writing credit.

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Okay, Like he must have been
very vaguely involved. So Erotic Confessions

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was a TV series and it had
directors. It was directed by Peter Gaving's

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unch and Mary Ronan Hmm or Marcy
Ronan. Excuse me, he's always messing

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up names. I don't really see
anybody on here that I recognize. That's

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that's interesting, I mean, and
it was. It was distributed by Millennium

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Pictures, which is kind of a
stalwart in the studio for quite a while.

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I mean, they still are,
but they went through a really bad

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restructure. When we were watching our
disc right before, you know, we

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were getting ready for the movie and
all the trailers before, and it was

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like, oh my god, I
forgot Millennium was behind these movies like The

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Iceman. That was that was their
big era of theatricals. Yeah, and

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that's why they almost went bankrupt.
I think I would. I would say,

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that's very clear. I've I've done
work with people from Millennium. I've

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never done business with Millennium, but
literally with some of the people who work

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there. Uh, Millennium had they
had no association with Magnolia, right,

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No, I don't think so.
Yeah, no, Magnolia and Magnagnet Yeah,

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no, Magnolia. The most interesting
about Magnolia was that one of the

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main owners was Mark Cuban. Yeah. Yeah, So finishing us off with

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our crew is the cinematographer tim Or. This gentle has quite a resume.

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Enrique so starts with George Washington in
two thousand, does a film called Raising

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Victor Vargas, two thousand and two, Dandy Lyon and four, The Undertoe

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and four, and then he kind
of gets a career spike in two thousand

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and five with a little film called
The Baxter. Oh, he shot the

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Backs. He shot the back I
bet you. I bet you. He's

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worked with that group multiple times,
because that's why I recognize the name more

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so. Then he goes on to
do Little Manhattan in two thousand and five,

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You're the Dog in two thousand and
seven, Choke in two thousand and

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eight, then Pineapple Express, and
he shot Observant Reports. He did Thanks

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Driving nineport, one of my favorite
movies of all time, Observant Report,

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so that he goes from Observant Report
to Eastbound and Down. The same year

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does Bloodworth, Then he does Your
Highness in twenty eleven, The Sitter Seeking

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a Friend for the End of the
World, Get Stuck in Love Joe with

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Nicholas Cage Oh twenty thirteen, U
Search Party twenty fourteen, Our Brand Is

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Crisis twenty fifteen, Pee Wee's Big
Holiday twenty sixteen The Professor, which is

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a really really good Johnny Depp movie
where he finds out that he has cans

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and so he decides for his like
last semester that he's going to teach the

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class how he wants to do all
the things he wants to It's a really

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really cute movie. Palms in twenty
nineteen, and then most recently, Stray's

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twenty twenty three straight Fun, Fun, Well tim or Yeah, I knew.

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I knew that name, and now
I know exactly why, because if

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he worked on Observant Report and The
Baxter, those are two highly like deeply

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criminally underrated films solid that I that
I adore, and two films that I

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tend to bring to everybody's attention is
The Baxter. And I mean I literally

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was at my buddy Jeff's house a
couple of months back and he had a

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copy of The Baxter on his shelf, and I literally went, dide,

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you have a copy of The Baxter
and he went yeah, And I was

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like, did I give that to
you? And he was like, no,

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I bought it myself, and I
was like, weird. I would

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just assume I gifted it because there
was a year I bought everybody a copy

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of The Baxter for Christmas. Baxter, Eddie Presley's Diehard Dive I did.

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I went to my used store.
This was like twenty ten, twenty eleven

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era, maybe twenty twelve, thirteen. Yeah, I went to my used

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video store and just bought every DVD
copy of die Hard. Then one year

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I bought every copy they had of
Observant Report, and then one year I

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got every copy that was used on
Amazon of Eddie Presley. So well,

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because you know, you give a
gift, you know, someone to like

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a movie that I I mean,
I think that those are all great films.

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With Burr passing away, it's pretty
much I mean, they don't know

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where the film is, so I
I mean, I unfortunately don't think it's

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very likely, but I would love
to see it properly as well. Absolutely,

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But you know, you know,
now you made me sad. I

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was already sorry. But Eddie a
really good movie, by the way.

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Yeah, no, it'll end up
on the show. It'll be It's an

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Eddie Presley on the show is inevitable, so straight into darkness and probably Stepfather.

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Yeah, we should really just do
a burr month. I'd be down

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for that. Actually, well that's
a little late, good suggestion when we're

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already in that month. It was
the first thing that came to mind.

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You did a bad job. I
did a bad job. Did a bad

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Joe. Now I'm gonna. Now, I'm gonna. I'm gonna get myself

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back on track with a synopsis of
Stuck in Love and Acclaimed Writer And this

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is the IMDb synopsis and a claim
writer, his ex wife, and their

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teenage children come to terms with the
complexities of love and all its forms over

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the course of one tumultuous year.
That's how hete my synopsis. A writer

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dealing with writer's block after his ex
wife left him three years ago, must

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figure out how to navigate the ups
and downs of raising his children, who

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are dealing with complexities of love.
I like yours less, Thanks, Bud,

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I'm being honest. I've told you
when yours are better, I like

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yours less. That's fine. You
focus too much on the dad, the

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dad. I feel like the the
the dad plot is actually like the C

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story. I would agree, No, I totally agree. So having that

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open with him, it makes the
movie sound like it's All about Greg Kinnear,

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which which, by the way,
is the name of his debut album,

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All About Greg Kinnear. So do
you remember the first time you saw

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this? So I had a recommendation
from a good friend who said that I

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needed to watch Stuck in Love.
And that was you. Oh, it

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was it was me? It was
okay. Yeah. And also quick side

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note, readily available on many streaming
services. Don't don't hesitate to just look

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for it. You'll find it and
you'll be able to watch it. So

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it was me who made you watch
it. I didn't realize that, but

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in typical Dave fashion, you know, I probably waited a good couple of

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years before I took up that recommendation. Really, yeah, because it would

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have been twenty fourteen. Yeah,
and that's I think twenty sixteen is when

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I watched this because I recalled that
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that is unfortunately closed by this point. But I used DVD stories to good

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to all the time, and I
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shelf unfortunately sometimes, and this was
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you and I are similar in the
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just feeling down that we sometimes will
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yeah, uh maybe, And you
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one of those movies. So I
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blown away by the film. I
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it didn't make me feel any better. But at the same time, I

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really enjoyed the movie. I mean, and what really matters is that you

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didn't feel That's what helps me so
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a random Netflix find. I was
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midnight or eleven o'clock at night or
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fourteen. And the reason I know
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watched this movie, I was like, well, what else has this guy

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done? And and Fault Stars was
coming out, like coming out, it

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was coming out in like three weeks. I remember that. So I start

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watching it and I'm like, oh, this is cool, like this is

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cute. I like movies like this. And I watched it all the way

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through, stayed up till like three
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That was completely engrossed in Stuck in
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It does, And it's really a
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parts of being in love, but
very different directions. Yeah, no,

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absolutely, it covers so many with
the story of the family and how everybody

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is dealing with some something. It
opens up the story to go all sorts

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of places. I mean, from
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that is exactly, and from dating
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how they how they do it.

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So before we jump into this,
I have to ask Dave, what's your

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greatest heartbreak? Share it on the
show You Chose, You Chose Stuck in

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Love? Now you can't not talk
about heartbreak. I can absolutely not talk

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about heartbreak. Why so why wouldn't
you talk about it? Because I don't

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want to share that right now,
right now? How long ago was it

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college? Oh my god, that
was like twenty five years ago. Oh,

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come on, do you even?
Movie will be right back, Welcome

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back to do you even movie?
I was a shitty person to somebody and

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it's oh that's the worst one.
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terms with the fact that when you
when you chase after somebody after you've wronged

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them, and you try, you
know, and you and you technically get

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several chances from them and fuck everyone
up. Yeah, you kind of have

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to look in the mirror and be
like, Okay, maybe maybe I was

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the problem with that. I can
see why you were. You were resisting

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because nothing's worse than when you're the
asshole. See luckily I am perfect,

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so uh but no, I it
was it was a situation where I let

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myself get into a mindset that really
wasn't I don't know how to say this,

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and just I let somebody into my
life that I really enjoyed spending time

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with him being around, and the
pay that I gave them was of some

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really shitty moves on my part.
In our we weren't even really dating per

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se, but it was just we
we enjoyed each other's company, and things

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went really south when some issues arose
that I didn't handle properly. But I

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was also in my early twenties issues. Yeah, I mean, I'm trying

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not to legitimately like make you spill
all your but at the same time,

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you're really just making us want to
know more. Well, maybe maybe we'll

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get there at the end of the
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just asking, you know, So
this is you were with a person.

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Yeah, we'll assume a man and
no, no, but you were in

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a kind of situation ship I guess. Yeah. In college that there was.

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I went to an art school and
everybody was very promiscuous, myself included.

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too many jokes. I'm not going

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to go that's fine, but a
large portion of us scot around, best

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way I can say it. And
this person in particular, I really really

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had feelings for. I really enjoy
I really enjoyed their company, and you

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know, we we were thinking about
getting serious for a while. But then

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I had another prior relationship opened back
up in Troy while I was in Mason,

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and yeah he was. He went
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south of where he had grown up. So when that relationship opened back up,

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I kind of pursued the one in
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of the other person's feelings back when
I'm oh, man, that is crummy.

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It was very shitty. Ouch.
Yeah, so why were you such

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a cop? Yeah? No,
I was like there there there's no denying

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it. On that one like that, that is something like I still I

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don't hold tight to it because you
have to move past those things. You

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can't live in the past. But
like that is still one that'll kind of

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pop up every now and then.
I'm just like, man, if there

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is one relationship or you know,
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that really still stands out today.
That was just kind of like, damn,

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I really shouldn't have done that that. It's that one. I think

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you should suffer more. You should
hold that closer to you all the time.

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She's block be on LinkedIn. Please
no, David. Yeah, that's

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the saddest story I've ever heard.
I don't even have a sound effect.

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No you don't. That was that
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the coffin where it's like I'm never
going to talk to her or see her

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again. And that's when someone blocks
you on LinkedIn. It's over. I

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mean, there's no doubt about that. Holy mackerel, there you go.

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I well, first of all,
you should talk about your personal life more,

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because I might not have asked that
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That's numero uno ye fair I see. I mean, I have some big

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heartbreaks in my life. But my
first girlfriend was very similar to the girl

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in UH and Stuck in Love,
And that's one of the reasons that it

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clicked with me and hit me so
hard. I was with an absolute train

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wreck of a girl. She wasn't
a drug addict, but honestly being a

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drug addict, which will you know, we'll get to that in a minute,

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you know, let me get the
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girl who was addicted to drugs like
that, at least you can kind of

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excuse, like, oh, you
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person who gas lit me and threatened
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Yeah, it's a lot. So it's

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a lot to take on as your
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know, I think that it's given
me a I guess I would call it

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an interesting perspective on relationship because I
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I'm actually a pretty obnoxious romantic.
But thanks. But I'm not saying like

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you're you're the mister matchmaker, but
I mean you are. You are a

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romantic. I know I am a
romantic, not a romantic, because now

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there's all these new words we have
to learn freaking millennials. I'm an old

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one, you're a young one.
It's sad, but no, no,

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but that being said, it does
kind of like paint you in a different

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way. Yeah, it kind of
paints love in a different way. Absolutely,

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very complicated about emotions and feelings.

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that this young guy's first relationship, yeah,

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was so troubled because early on in
the movie, Greg Kinnear's character is

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literally like, you need to get
in trouble, go do some things because

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like he read some quote from some
author, which I thought was the dumbest

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fucking quote I've ever heard. Yeah, that said that like, by the

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time you're twenty, you should have
all the experience you need to write a

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lifetime's worth of books. Yeah,
And I was like, well, number

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one, Yeah, if you're like
fucking Hemingway and you just drink yourself to

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let them blow your brains up,
sure, yeah, but you know,

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no, if you actually want to
like make it to seventy also, that

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makes me mad because that makes me
think that people were smarter than me in

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their twenties, and I don't appreciate
that kind of insult. I will say

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I was seldom the asshole. I'm
being honest, but I could have picked

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them better. So that's my big
one is like, I definitely when I

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was young, I definitely fell for
that trap of like I can help you,

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I can I can fix you.
And and that's a trapping I think

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a lot of young men fall into, and a lot of older men fall

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into. I mean, it's just
it's just a man thing to want to

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help and uh yeah. So you
know, there's an old joke where it's

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like, whenever you meet a girl
who's like stunningly attractive, like traditionally a

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gorgeous and she's a single, it's
like, what's wrong with her? And

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they always say like, oh,
I'm really picky or whatever. And then

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you're like, ah, it's borderline
personality disorder again. I gotta sound for

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that. You ready to get into
the movie. What else? Yeah?

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Exactly? Okay, No, no, I love this film and I can't

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wait to talk about it. So
let's go into our cast real quick.

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Before we get to the story that
we have, Greg Kaniere, who plays

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Bill Borgan's He's the Father in the
film. Seventy eight credits on this Man's

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resume, starting with What Price Victory
in eighty eight. The first film I

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really remembered him for was Auto Focus. Yes, it was on cable pay

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cable all the time when I was
eighteen nineteen years old. I could definitely

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see that. Yeah. He also
did Murder Mississippi nineteen ninety, Dyllinger in

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ninety one. He appeared on La
Law in ninety one, Blank Man in

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ninety four. He was in Blank
Man. He's the TV station host.

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Oh Yeah, No, we totally
Yeah Yeah, Sabrina in ninety five,

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Beavis and Buthead to America ninety six, As Good as It Gets in ninety

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seven, Larry Sanders Show ninety eight, You've Got Mail, Mystery Men,

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What Planet are you from? Nurse
Betty, The Gift We Were Soldiers,

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Auto Focused in two thousand and two. He is in a lot more goofy

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movies than I realized. Oh Yeah, Stuck on You in two thousand and

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three, Godsend, Oh four,
The Mattador, Oh five, Bad News,

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Bare We make They cast a guy
from Stuck on You and Stuck in

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Love, Yes, well played,
well played, a Little Bit, Sunshine

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six, Invincible six, Baby Mama, Ghost Town, Green Zone, The

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Kennedy's Modern Family, Stuck in Love, Anchorman two, Drunk History, BoJack,

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Horseman, Brigsby Bear, House of
Cards, On, Brigawill Kemmy Schmidt,

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and even he appears in the Stand
in twenty twenty. Apparently, I

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mean that would make sense. Yeah, and he's also on the Netflix series

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You as of last year. Oh, okay, I have not seen you.

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I haven't either. I've heard it's
good. I've heard good things about

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it. Well, I don't want
to say i've heard good things about you.

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Yeah, that's fair. Apologize,
No, hold on, you're on

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the main camera. Apologize, apologize
for what you know? What? Oh

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my god? Moving on. Jennifer
Connley, who plays Erica Borgans. She

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was Entails, Unexpected in nineteen eighty
two, Once Upon a Time in America

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in eighty four, Phenomena in nineteen
eighty five, Up seven Minutes and Having

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eighty six, Lavenrith eighty six,
The Hotspot, nineteen ninety, Crew Opportunities

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ninety one, The Rocketeer in ninety
one, Higher Learning, mahalland Falls,

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Dark City, Requiem for a Dream, Paula A Beautiful Mind, Hulk,

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House of Sand and Fog, Darkwater, and O five Blood Diamond, O

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six Reservation Road, Hearth Stood Still. Blood Diamond has one of my favorite

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lines in all of cinema history.
That's only funny to history nerds. What

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is that? There's a part where
the uh where DiCaprio's character is taking a

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drink of beer and she says interesting
coming from the white South African and he

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looks at it goes, I'm from
Rhodesia, and she goes, we call

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that Zimbabwe now, and he looks
at right in the face and goes,

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do we I remember that? If
you are a history nerd, It's like

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the best moment ever. Do we? She also was in Noah in twenty

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fourteen, Spider Man Homecoming twenty seventeen, Only The Brave twenty seventeen, to

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lead a Bad Angel, the Snow
Pierce series on Netflix, I Believe,

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and also recently appeared in Top Gun
Maverick in twenty twenty two. Oh yeah,

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she's amazing in Top Gun Maverick.
And I want to mention first time

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I remember her was the Rocketeer.
Oh yeah, I watched the rocket Teer.

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Literally, I just taught the Rocketeer
on Voodoo because I haven't seen it

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in a while. I haven't seen
it in forever. We could watch that

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after this. Uh I actually I
have to watch my error that night.

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I'm actually like getting ready to block
you on link man. Shut the hell

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up. I'm sorry, but you
can't. You told me that because you

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knew it was fun. Because that's
the bluntness that I can deliver. The

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like, because it's like, on
one hand, it's like, oh my

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god, LinkedIn doesn't even matter,
but when you're blocked in something that doesn't

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even matter, it matters so much. Yeah, no, no, I

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really I really like Whoa man?
Whoa? Anyway, But Jennifer Connelly wonderful

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actress, amazing since she was a
kid. Yeah so yeah, anyway,

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Advantaging goes off as Lily Collins.
She plays Samantha Borgain's the daughter in this

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film. She voiced did a voice
in Tarzan and the Disney Tarzan in ninety

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nine. She was on nine O
two one oh in two thousand and nine,

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The blind Side, and nine Priest
twenty eleven, Taylor Lautner's Abduction in

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twenty eleven, Remember that movie.
I don't That was when they tried to

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make him an action star and it
failed miserably. I do remember that because

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they basically like recut the trailer to
looked like Taken because the trailer did so

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poorly well, which is funny because
the first Taken trailer, it's like the

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00:27:03.279 --> 00:27:07.960
worst trailer I've ever seen in the
history of cinema. And that's saying because

405
00:27:07.960 --> 00:27:11.359
the movie's so good. Yeah,
that's why I can say that, so

406
00:27:11.359 --> 00:27:14.039
so bluntly. So she does Stuck
in Love in twenty twelve, goes on

407
00:27:14.079 --> 00:27:17.079
to do The English Teacher in twenty
thirteen, Mortal Instrument, City of Bones

408
00:27:17.079 --> 00:27:19.720
in twenty thirteen, Love Rosie in
twenty fourteen. Rules Don't Apply, Oak

409
00:27:19.799 --> 00:27:23.680
Jube the Last Tycoon, a Wizard's
Tale, Le mis Rob extremely wicked and

410
00:27:23.720 --> 00:27:26.799
shockingly evil and vile, which I
forgot she was in. Hey, she's

411
00:27:26.799 --> 00:27:32.000
one of the victims. Huh uh. But then's also Picture Oh God.

412
00:27:32.480 --> 00:27:36.200
Then there was mank Curve of Your
Enthusiasm in Honey twenty one, Windfall in

413
00:27:36.240 --> 00:27:38.160
twenty twenty two, and she's also
on Emily in Paris, which has been

414
00:27:38.240 --> 00:27:41.000
on Netflix, I want to say, for like three years, now I

415
00:27:41.000 --> 00:27:44.519
think that was third season and she's
the star. Okay, yeah, I've

416
00:27:44.519 --> 00:27:47.000
not seen a lot of those.
Ye if you have, I have yet.

417
00:27:47.079 --> 00:27:48.400
Oh good stuff. All right,
you ready to get into the movie.

418
00:27:48.920 --> 00:27:53.279
Sure? All right, So Stuck
in Love we open with a voiceover

419
00:27:53.400 --> 00:27:57.160
as we see Rusty who is the
Sun, and he's looking at Kate in

420
00:27:57.200 --> 00:28:00.920
the classroom, and you hear him
say, I remember the hurt, looking

421
00:28:00.960 --> 00:28:03.240
at her hurt, and that becomes
kind of a theme for the film.

422
00:28:03.720 --> 00:28:07.000
Yeah, yeah, it definitely sets
the tone. Yeah, and he's looking

423
00:28:07.039 --> 00:28:11.240
at this cute young girl who is
asleep at her desk yep, as her

424
00:28:11.279 --> 00:28:17.119
nose starts to lead just a little
bit. Yeah, and when she wakes

425
00:28:17.200 --> 00:28:19.160
up, her response is just like, oh yeah, it does that sometimes.

426
00:28:19.519 --> 00:28:25.680
Yeah, foreshadowing. I mean,
all I'm saying is, you know,

427
00:28:26.640 --> 00:28:30.559
looks like you got a troubled young
lady. Better throw your better get

428
00:28:30.599 --> 00:28:33.400
her pregnant, now save yourself the
trouble. So I do want to point

429
00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:37.240
out that Rusty is played by nat
Wolf, who many will know from his

430
00:28:37.400 --> 00:28:41.519
role as the brother in Hereditary.
Yeah. This is I think like four

431
00:28:41.599 --> 00:28:44.880
years before Hereditary, and he looks
the exact same. Yeah, he definitely

432
00:28:44.960 --> 00:28:47.319
could play. He played a high
schooler for like a good eight years.

433
00:28:47.359 --> 00:28:49.440
Yeah he did. No, he
definitely did. So he is looking at

434
00:28:49.519 --> 00:28:52.759
Kate her nose against the bleed,
so he points it out to her and

435
00:28:52.839 --> 00:28:53.839
she says, yeah, it does
that sometimes, and he just kind of

436
00:28:53.839 --> 00:28:57.240
watches her as she leaves the classroom
and goes to her boyfriend after class,

437
00:28:57.279 --> 00:29:00.279
and you kind of see that he
is just kind of crushing on her.

438
00:29:00.839 --> 00:29:03.599
You think, yeah, just a
bit. I like that her boyfriend is

439
00:29:03.640 --> 00:29:07.160
like such a chad. Oh yeah, Like like they're not even trying to

440
00:29:07.160 --> 00:29:11.279
be subtle. They're just like,
here's this fucking macho chad and you're like,

441
00:29:11.400 --> 00:29:15.119
okay, cool. So then we
meet Samantha who's talking about her life,

442
00:29:15.160 --> 00:29:18.000
and then she's talking to a guy
at a party and just has all

443
00:29:18.039 --> 00:29:22.640
these life I guess theories that she's
going about, and then she basically ends

444
00:29:22.680 --> 00:29:23.200
it by saying, you know,
do you want us to go back to

445
00:29:23.240 --> 00:29:27.160
your place? And fuck, I
mean she says it pretty much exactly like

446
00:29:27.240 --> 00:29:30.559
yeah, yeah, yeah, just
bluntly, and he like chokes on his

447
00:29:30.640 --> 00:29:33.480
drain. It's a very nice silly
intro to the movie. YEA, to

448
00:29:33.559 --> 00:29:41.079
make sure you understand this is a
very talented Chlamydia Riddle writer. She explains

449
00:29:41.079 --> 00:29:42.480
that that's what they both want on
one night's stan. He agrees. They

450
00:29:42.519 --> 00:29:45.119
go back to his dorm and she
notices that he has a copy of Stephen

451
00:29:45.160 --> 00:29:48.960
King's It on his nightstand. She
asked him if he's a King fan,

452
00:29:48.000 --> 00:29:51.000
and he's like, no, that's
my roommates. He's like, do you

453
00:29:51.079 --> 00:29:52.160
like it? And she's like,
no, my brother loves Steve. Well,

454
00:29:52.440 --> 00:29:56.599
you got the order of Reverse?
Oh did I? She asks you

455
00:29:56.720 --> 00:30:00.480
like that? Or he asks her, do you like Steve? It makes

456
00:30:00.480 --> 00:30:07.319
me think of my brother. He's
lying. So they begin to strip and

457
00:30:07.359 --> 00:30:11.559
they get to it, and then
we meet Bill who is smoking a cigarette

458
00:30:11.599 --> 00:30:14.359
in his car and he gets out
and he sneaks around the house and we

459
00:30:14.400 --> 00:30:15.920
see that he is looking on on
his ex wife, who has played by

460
00:30:17.000 --> 00:30:21.599
Jennifer Connley who's Erica, and he
is watching her and her new boyfriend is

461
00:30:21.599 --> 00:30:26.079
a husband boyfriend. I don't know
if they're married, address they're married fight

462
00:30:26.400 --> 00:30:29.279
and he's just kind of looking and
watching him, and then they start to

463
00:30:30.119 --> 00:30:33.519
they start to make out. They
make up, make out yeah, and

464
00:30:33.559 --> 00:30:36.319
then that's when a dog comes to
the window starts barking at him, gets

465
00:30:36.319 --> 00:30:37.960
his attention, and he runs off
and runs away from the window, and

466
00:30:38.039 --> 00:30:41.640
the dog chases him all the way
to his car. It is very funny

467
00:30:41.680 --> 00:30:47.400
in that like impossibly sad kind of
one that absolutely is enduring him watching it.

468
00:30:47.440 --> 00:30:49.480
He he basically states that when he
watches her, he feels like he's

469
00:30:49.519 --> 00:30:52.880
watching some odds sitcom where the main
character in his place, one of the

470
00:30:52.960 --> 00:30:57.000
main characters have been replaced. Yeah, which is a very powerful way to

471
00:30:57.000 --> 00:31:11.240
put it. I think Do You
Even movie will be right back, welcome

472
00:31:11.319 --> 00:31:18.319
back to Do You Even? Movie. So then we see Bill's house on

473
00:31:18.359 --> 00:31:21.319
the beach. Him and his son
are preparing Thanksgiving dinner. It's a really

474
00:31:21.319 --> 00:31:23.240
cute moment between them. You know, he's opening the wine, they're putting

475
00:31:23.279 --> 00:31:26.720
the turkey together, they're doing all
the side dishes. Well, I mean

476
00:31:26.759 --> 00:31:30.680
that's the whole opening credits. Yeah, is just they're they're making Thanksgiving dinner

477
00:31:30.720 --> 00:31:33.920
and it's insanely wholesome. I really
enjoyed it. So his daughter comes over,

478
00:31:33.960 --> 00:31:36.720
and it's funny because when she comes
to the door, at first,

479
00:31:36.720 --> 00:31:40.359
he jokingly shuts in her face and
then opens it back like angrily yeah,

480
00:31:40.359 --> 00:31:42.480
And they all sit down to dinner
and Samantha announces that her book is getting

481
00:31:42.480 --> 00:31:47.160
published through King's Publisher, which is, oh god, I can't write the

482
00:31:47.160 --> 00:31:51.240
scribner scribner yeah, Which that's when
Rusty is like, oh, you're using

483
00:31:51.319 --> 00:31:53.160
King's Publisher. And that's when Samantha
declares that there's a lot of publishers that

484
00:31:53.240 --> 00:31:56.640
use it. She didn't know it
was a competition. Yeah. Yeah.

485
00:31:56.720 --> 00:32:00.039
She actually gets like awfully defensive.
Yeah. And they debate who had DIBs

486
00:32:00.039 --> 00:32:04.200
on scripner, but Bill is quickly
to embrace them with the toast and celebrate

487
00:32:04.240 --> 00:32:06.759
this, and that's when she tells
him that she submitted the book under a

488
00:32:06.759 --> 00:32:08.400
fake name so that they wouldn't know
that she was the daughter of him,

489
00:32:08.440 --> 00:32:12.839
because he is a he's a published
writer, he's got two books out,

490
00:32:13.240 --> 00:32:15.720
and he's a miles celebrity. He's
well known. Yeah no, no,

491
00:32:15.799 --> 00:32:20.519
he's got he's been a very successful
writer. Yeah. So she submitted under

492
00:32:20.559 --> 00:32:23.599
a fake name. And she also
unveils that she didn't publish they're not publishing

493
00:32:23.720 --> 00:32:27.839
her book, just saying hi,
which offends Bill because he was the one

494
00:32:27.839 --> 00:32:30.160
that edited the book, read over
that book and helps her with it.

495
00:32:30.240 --> 00:32:32.920
And she is completely going with something
different. Yeah. She reveals that over

496
00:32:32.960 --> 00:32:37.160
the summer she wrote a totally different
book and that's the book that they took.

497
00:32:37.440 --> 00:32:38.720
Yeah, so they kind of get
into a little bit of a fight

498
00:32:38.839 --> 00:32:42.960
and Rusty states that he's going to
go over to Erica's house, and he

499
00:32:43.000 --> 00:32:45.400
asked if Samantha wants to go,
and she says no, but tell mom

500
00:32:45.440 --> 00:32:49.400
to drop dead, which is nice
since the holidays. Yeah, so we

501
00:32:49.440 --> 00:32:52.519
see him outside of Erica's house and
he's smoking a bull, and then we

502
00:32:52.599 --> 00:32:55.000
see them sitting down at dinner with
her. People might not understand what that

503
00:32:55.039 --> 00:33:00.599
means, smoking a bull as weed
children he's smoking Marijuan Maara Jawa. I'm

504
00:33:00.680 --> 00:33:02.720
just I'm sorry, Dave. You're
like what everybody knows that, bro,

505
00:33:02.880 --> 00:33:06.240
Like that's what you do in college. Bro, You just like smoke a

506
00:33:06.279 --> 00:33:08.720
bull and then you like fuck it. You like beat down on the nerds,

507
00:33:08.720 --> 00:33:12.680
bro, and then get brought to
LinkedIn. Bro. I didn't even

508
00:33:12.839 --> 00:33:19.359
say it. I was being nice, but yes, that's exactly accurate.

509
00:33:19.880 --> 00:33:24.240
You deserve all the bad things.
So her boyfriend Martin or Erica's husband is

510
00:33:24.279 --> 00:33:29.599
They're all sitting downe at dinner and
uh, that's when he makes a comment

511
00:33:29.640 --> 00:33:34.440
basically because Rusty tells the family that
Erica or that Samantha's getting her book published,

512
00:33:34.640 --> 00:33:37.599
and Martin has a comment that basically
Bill makes it so that all his

513
00:33:37.680 --> 00:33:39.839
kids have to be writers, and
that pisses off Rusty. Yeah, yeah,

514
00:33:39.839 --> 00:33:44.839
he ba because apparently their dad would
make them write journals. Yeah,

515
00:33:45.000 --> 00:33:47.160
but by make, I mean encourage
heavily. Yeah, encourage it so he

516
00:33:47.200 --> 00:33:52.240
would he would pay them to write
journal entries instead of having jobs, so

517
00:33:52.279 --> 00:33:54.079
he could focus on their writing.
So Rusty kind of loses a little bit

518
00:33:54.119 --> 00:33:57.920
and Martin looks at him ask him
if he's high, and that's when Erica

519
00:33:57.960 --> 00:34:00.200
excuses them most of the kitchen,
and she asked about the legitimacy of Sam's

520
00:34:00.200 --> 00:34:04.079
book being published, and you know, what's going on with Rusty, And

521
00:34:04.319 --> 00:34:07.680
she asked what if Sam said anything? And Rusty lies that she said Hi.

522
00:34:07.920 --> 00:34:10.280
Buddy also says that he's just going
to stick to weed nothing else.

523
00:34:10.760 --> 00:34:14.400
Well, she demands that she's like
stick to weed and nothing anything else.

524
00:34:14.800 --> 00:34:16.320
So Sam joins Bill on the beach
as he's smoking, and they bicker more

525
00:34:16.360 --> 00:34:20.360
about the book, and his offense
is basically that, you know, she

526
00:34:20.400 --> 00:34:22.960
didn't use anything that he helped her
with, and that's when she states that

527
00:34:22.039 --> 00:34:24.440
she didn't want to do it with
his help. She wanted to prove that

528
00:34:24.440 --> 00:34:30.159
she could do it on her own, which is such a like fortunate white

529
00:34:30.199 --> 00:34:32.840
people thing to do. It's like, I didn't want to have the advantage

530
00:34:32.840 --> 00:34:36.480
of having a famous dad who was
the writer. I wanted to do something

531
00:34:36.519 --> 00:34:38.760
really hard by myself. It's like, dude, if you knew what a

532
00:34:38.840 --> 00:34:42.360
life was like where you couldn't get
any of that stuff done, you'd take

533
00:34:42.400 --> 00:34:45.599
every opportunity you got. Well,
but it's a cute content and it's a

534
00:34:45.599 --> 00:34:49.440
cute moment too, because you know
he's he's kind of just pouting on the

535
00:34:49.440 --> 00:34:51.239
beach and she's like, like,
you don't do you even want to read

536
00:34:51.280 --> 00:34:52.960
the new one? And he's like
nope, no fucking way. Yeah,

537
00:34:53.000 --> 00:34:54.920
and that's when she's like, well, I brought you a copy. I

538
00:34:54.920 --> 00:34:57.760
can leave it on your desk and
I can even sign it for you.

539
00:34:57.800 --> 00:34:59.639
He's like yeah, He's just like, you know, leave it and I'll

540
00:34:59.679 --> 00:35:02.679
read it. So that's when they
we see that he goes back into the

541
00:35:02.679 --> 00:35:06.599
house and sees that Rusty is writing
a poem for English class, and Sam

542
00:35:06.639 --> 00:35:09.000
tells him that he will have a
book one day, and that's when Rusty

543
00:35:09.039 --> 00:35:10.800
tells her that he's got a little
bit of weeds. So we see them

544
00:35:10.800 --> 00:35:15.440
go out to the roof and spoke
together. Yeah, and that's when he

545
00:35:15.480 --> 00:35:17.360
tells her about Kate in his English
class, and she gives him the advice

546
00:35:17.360 --> 00:35:22.079
that there are hopeless romantics and they're
a realist and the hopeless romantics are the

547
00:35:22.119 --> 00:35:24.800
ones that chase after girls, and
the realists are the ones that get laid

548
00:35:25.239 --> 00:35:29.559
Yeah, that's basically the point of
it. She says, there is no

549
00:35:29.639 --> 00:35:32.480
god in life is meaningful guys who
get laid more on a realist meaningless sorry,

550
00:35:32.880 --> 00:35:37.559
and avoid love at all costs.
And she is says love is setting

551
00:35:37.559 --> 00:35:39.119
a place at a table for someone
who's never coming to dinner. Because that's

552
00:35:39.159 --> 00:35:43.599
one thing we did gloss over is
that for the Thanksgiving Bill did set a

553
00:35:43.639 --> 00:35:45.480
place for Erica. Yeah, there's
an empty spot at the table. That

554
00:35:45.519 --> 00:35:50.920
becomes a theme again. YEAHLM.
So Rusty reads his poem next in English

555
00:35:50.960 --> 00:35:53.280
class and the words are catching Kate's
attention. Kate grabs him after class,

556
00:35:53.480 --> 00:35:57.719
telling him that she liked the poem
and they talk about their Thanksgiving before a

557
00:35:57.760 --> 00:36:00.079
boyfriend calls her over. We see
Bill and reading on the beach when Tricia,

558
00:36:00.159 --> 00:36:04.000
his neighbor played by Kristen Bell,
comes running up. Ah. Yes,

559
00:36:04.079 --> 00:36:07.760
she comes, jogging up in her
sports braad tights. Yes and uh,

560
00:36:07.800 --> 00:36:09.960
and says she has twenty minutes and
they gotta make it quick. Yeah,

561
00:36:10.000 --> 00:36:13.519
and then she starts running toward the
house. Yeah. And we reveal

562
00:36:13.599 --> 00:36:15.840
that they are having a kind of
well, uh, he's not having,

563
00:36:15.880 --> 00:36:23.719
he's having and uh, they're having
what I would call deeply transactional setting.

564
00:36:24.039 --> 00:36:29.440
So that's pretty accurate. Yeah.
Yeah, Like there is clearly nothing about

565
00:36:29.440 --> 00:36:31.519
this sex that is romantic. No. And I mean, and Bill doesn't

566
00:36:31.519 --> 00:36:34.880
even look like he's enjoying it,
to be hod, He's just doing it

567
00:36:34.920 --> 00:36:37.039
because it's something you do. Yeah, it's just something you just sleep with

568
00:36:37.039 --> 00:36:38.960
the hot blonde neighbor. So afterwards, she's chugging a glass of water in

569
00:36:38.960 --> 00:36:42.679
the kitchen before she tells him she's
got to run and Thursday to be ready,

570
00:36:42.719 --> 00:36:44.880
she'll be back. Yeah, Thursday, I'll be here, be ready,

571
00:36:44.880 --> 00:36:46.119
And he's like, uh, yes, ma'am. So later that day,

572
00:36:46.199 --> 00:36:50.480
Rusty returns home and he catches Bill
sitting at his desk reading his journal,

573
00:36:50.559 --> 00:36:52.159
and he apologizes, stating that he
was just checking the dates to make

574
00:36:52.159 --> 00:36:54.360
sure he was writing, and you
know, Russy's pissed him, but he

575
00:36:54.360 --> 00:36:57.360
says, you know, I was
checking the dates, but something did pop

576
00:36:57.360 --> 00:37:00.559
out at him and he comments on, I remember that it hurt looking at

577
00:37:00.599 --> 00:37:04.039
her hurt. And he says that's
the kind of thing that would grab people

578
00:37:04.079 --> 00:37:07.280
to read a book. It made
me have to read more. Yeah,

579
00:37:07.320 --> 00:37:09.079
and that's his excuse for reading further. And that's when Bill states that,

580
00:37:09.159 --> 00:37:12.880
you know, Samantha's a good writer, and he can be a good writer

581
00:37:12.920 --> 00:37:15.519
too, but the reason Samantha is
a good writer is because she's courageous.

582
00:37:15.559 --> 00:37:19.199
And that's when Rusty comments that she's
promiscuous. There's a difference. But Bill

583
00:37:19.280 --> 00:37:21.440
goes on to say that you know, she is out there living life.

584
00:37:21.559 --> 00:37:22.480
You need to go live your life. Yeah, He's like, go out

585
00:37:22.519 --> 00:37:25.880
there, get addicted to heroin Kate's
you know, just like, come on,

586
00:37:27.239 --> 00:37:30.039
kid. So we then see Russy
and his friend Jason go to a

587
00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:32.039
party and they are denied at first, but then he's like, well,

588
00:37:32.039 --> 00:37:34.880
what are you What were we gonna
do with all this weed? We brought

589
00:37:34.960 --> 00:37:38.639
yea gargantuan bag of weed. Gets
the man and they're welcomed, and Rodney,

590
00:37:38.679 --> 00:37:40.960
the guy that blocked him at first, tells Russy that Kate is upstairs

591
00:37:42.000 --> 00:37:45.760
because he's looking for Kate. We
then see sam is at a bar watching

592
00:37:45.800 --> 00:37:47.559
a concert, and I'm the lead
singer, and behind her one of the

593
00:37:47.599 --> 00:37:52.840
bandmates, Lewis, who is played
by what is his name? Well,

594
00:37:52.880 --> 00:37:54.360
while you're figuring out, I just
want to point out that, like,

595
00:37:54.440 --> 00:38:00.000
my goodness, why is Kate the
troubled girl name? Yeah? In life?

596
00:38:00.400 --> 00:38:02.039
Yeah, I just want to know
that. I mean, that's a

597
00:38:02.039 --> 00:38:06.679
fair question. I just it was
worth mentioning because that was the first thought

598
00:38:06.719 --> 00:38:07.719
I had when I watched them the
first time. I was like, man,

599
00:38:07.760 --> 00:38:12.880
I don't know if I've ever known
a well well doing Kate, at

600
00:38:12.960 --> 00:38:15.519
least not as a teenager. So
Lewis is eyeing Samantha, She's eye the

601
00:38:15.559 --> 00:38:17.920
lead singer, and the eyed singers. The lead singer is eyeing her.

602
00:38:17.960 --> 00:38:22.199
Back back at the party, though, Rusty finds Kate upstairs in a bathroom

603
00:38:22.320 --> 00:38:24.760
doing cocaine. Yeah, they're they're
just hog in the bathroom so they can

604
00:38:24.800 --> 00:38:29.440
do their toot. So she slams
the door and Rusty goes back downstairs,

605
00:38:29.440 --> 00:38:31.280
telling Jason he wants to leave.
He then catches sight of Kate and her

606
00:38:31.280 --> 00:38:35.199
boyfriend fighting at the top of the
stairs. They come down the steps and

607
00:38:35.199 --> 00:38:37.639
that's when he shoves it to the
ground, and Rusty's not having this,

608
00:38:37.679 --> 00:38:39.320
so he throws a punch and knocks
him to the ground. He just not

609
00:38:39.480 --> 00:38:43.000
I mean, he just freaking shines
his shoes. Yeah, no, he

610
00:38:43.039 --> 00:38:50.239
absolutely, That is not a saying. But oh quick, aside about the

611
00:38:50.239 --> 00:38:53.519
English language, Yeah, if I
may that I struggle with it, that

612
00:38:53.719 --> 00:38:58.519
is fair too. Yeah. One
of the reasons English can be so hard

613
00:38:58.559 --> 00:39:04.840
to learn is because we speak extremely
poetically. But a lot of people don't

614
00:39:04.880 --> 00:39:12.280
realize that. Like if you learn
to speak Spanish and you translated exactly literally,

615
00:39:12.280 --> 00:39:14.559
it's things like, hey, could
you give me give me food?

616
00:39:14.840 --> 00:39:19.000
I like food with food, thank
you. Like it's not poetic for the

617
00:39:19.000 --> 00:39:21.199
most part. There are words that
are poetic, like, you know,

618
00:39:21.280 --> 00:39:24.000
if somebody wants to say the word
dick, they'll say southa, which means

619
00:39:24.440 --> 00:39:28.760
sausage. You know, there are
little things like that. Wavos means eggs,

620
00:39:28.760 --> 00:39:32.320
but it also means testicles. But
in American English. I actually helped

621
00:39:32.360 --> 00:39:36.559
a friend of mine who was learning
English as a third language. She spoke

622
00:39:36.639 --> 00:39:39.400
Russian and German and I and I
told her. She was like, I

623
00:39:39.440 --> 00:39:44.519
just don't understand how you guys talk. And I told her dead serious,

624
00:39:44.599 --> 00:39:51.199
I was like, you need to
understand that all plural nouns mean breasts.

625
00:39:52.239 --> 00:39:54.559
Look at the laptops on that girl. Look at the set of laptops on

626
00:39:54.599 --> 00:39:57.400
her. You know what I'm saying. If I say that, ye,

627
00:39:57.599 --> 00:40:01.639
man, look at those external hard
drives on her. All singular nouns are

628
00:40:01.719 --> 00:40:06.320
penises. Think about it, though, it's like it's like, uh,

629
00:40:06.679 --> 00:40:08.119
oh, man, I dropped a
you know, uh man, uh,

630
00:40:08.480 --> 00:40:15.159
don't you be talking about my envelope? Jesus Christ? And all verbs are

631
00:40:15.599 --> 00:40:22.239
farting, shitting or fucking. Yeah, that's accurate. Yeah. So but

632
00:40:22.360 --> 00:40:28.320
that being said, all verbs can
just become whatever you want, like if

633
00:40:28.320 --> 00:40:30.000
you if you just put the emphasis
right, Like when I literally said that,

634
00:40:30.119 --> 00:40:34.000
yeah, he shined his shoes.
You knew exactly what I meant,

635
00:40:34.440 --> 00:40:37.480
but it didn't make any sense.
And I never heard you would say that

636
00:40:37.519 --> 00:40:39.599
about that. So that's the other
part. That's just cause he shined his

637
00:40:39.639 --> 00:40:43.639
shoes. He cleaned his clock.
He I cleaned his clock at least as

638
00:40:43.679 --> 00:40:47.039
a known saying. But but yeah, so that's my guide how to speak

639
00:40:47.119 --> 00:40:52.400
English as a second language and speak
it well. And I am the show's

640
00:40:52.440 --> 00:40:58.039
lifestyle coach here for you. So
he punches them to the ground and they

641
00:40:58.079 --> 00:41:00.119
take off, the three of them
running off. Rusty drops Jason off at

642
00:41:00.119 --> 00:41:02.920
his house and Kate tells him that
she can't go home like this, noting

643
00:41:02.920 --> 00:41:06.880
that her knees are banged up and
she'll and she's high, so she asks

644
00:41:06.880 --> 00:41:10.400
if she can go to his house
instead. Woooo, well, where's the

645
00:41:10.679 --> 00:41:15.719
I know I got a drop for
this. There we go. So we

646
00:41:15.760 --> 00:41:20.320
see Bill asleep on the deck and
his phone rings with Eric calling him telling

647
00:41:20.400 --> 00:41:22.360
him that she's here, and he's
like, well, I've been asleep out

648
00:41:22.400 --> 00:41:23.440
back. She's like, I'm out
the door. So she comes around back

649
00:41:23.800 --> 00:41:27.519
and she tells him that they need
to put their heads together and figure this

650
00:41:27.559 --> 00:41:30.480
out, and Bill at first thinks
that they're talking about them too, but

651
00:41:30.639 --> 00:41:34.239
she reveals that she's actually talking about
her relationship with Samantha, which makes sense,

652
00:41:34.280 --> 00:41:36.840
you know, because she's very focused
on their kids. Ye, he's

653
00:41:36.960 --> 00:41:39.480
very focused on her so he defends
her with being busy with the book and

654
00:41:39.480 --> 00:41:43.559
living life, and Erica tells him
to stop defending her, and Erica tells

655
00:41:43.599 --> 00:41:45.199
him also that he has to move
on with his life and be happy.

656
00:41:45.519 --> 00:41:49.079
Bill states he is happy, he
was happy with her, but she wasn't

657
00:41:49.079 --> 00:41:52.079
happy with him, adding that she
doesn't look happy now either, and she

658
00:41:52.199 --> 00:41:55.920
comments on him sneaking around the house
and tells him that they are as he

659
00:41:55.920 --> 00:41:59.800
tells her that he's seen them fighting. She walks away, telling him,

660
00:42:00.079 --> 00:42:04.639
you shut up. Yeah, I
mean it's there. That wouldn't call them

661
00:42:04.679 --> 00:42:07.360
having a lot of her having a
lot of warm no for him person.

662
00:42:08.360 --> 00:42:12.480
So back at the concert, Sam
is warned by Lewis, another member of

663
00:42:12.519 --> 00:42:15.599
the band, telling her not to
sleep with the lead singer because he has

664
00:42:15.679 --> 00:42:19.719
chlamydia and he gets around a lot
too, and that's when she tells him

665
00:42:19.719 --> 00:42:22.039
that he's cute, but he's also
hopeless, romantic and not her type.

666
00:42:22.199 --> 00:42:24.920
Lewis tells her he'll see her in
class, stating that they have advanced fiction

667
00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:29.360
together, and he remembers her and
she walks off. Rusty then takes Kate

668
00:42:29.360 --> 00:42:30.679
to his house. He's putting ice
on her knees, as Bill comes in

669
00:42:30.760 --> 00:42:34.880
asking who she is. Rusty introduces
her, and Bill tells her that he's

670
00:42:34.920 --> 00:42:37.159
heard a lot about her and tells
her that they have something better for her

671
00:42:37.239 --> 00:42:39.960
knees. So then he tells them
also that they're to sleep in separate rooms.

672
00:42:40.039 --> 00:42:43.559
Yeah, they're not gonna seeg you
can sleep on the couch and she

673
00:42:43.559 --> 00:42:46.960
gets sleep in your bed or get
you're not sleeping together. Yeah. So

674
00:42:47.079 --> 00:42:50.880
upstairs, Rusty helps Kate get ready
for bed, turning away when she starts

675
00:42:50.880 --> 00:42:53.280
to undress, and they talk about
his father's writing career and also that his

676
00:42:53.320 --> 00:42:57.320
sister is getting the book published.
Rusty goes to excuse himself of the night,

677
00:42:57.360 --> 00:42:59.840
but Kate asks if he can just
sit with her for a little bit.

678
00:43:00.320 --> 00:43:02.480
And it's important to keep in mind
they're sixteen. Yeah, so I

679
00:43:02.519 --> 00:43:07.199
just want to point that out because
it's not it's not like straight up said

680
00:43:07.320 --> 00:43:09.199
until a little later in the movie. So he sits on the bed with

681
00:43:09.239 --> 00:43:13.559
her and she asked if she was
the angel in his poem that he shared

682
00:43:13.599 --> 00:43:15.480
in class. Rusty confirms this and
they share a kiss as she tells him

683
00:43:15.480 --> 00:43:22.960
that she thinks he's gonna be good
for her. I that line, Yeah,

684
00:43:23.119 --> 00:43:25.000
you're gonna be good. I think
you're gonna be good for me.

685
00:43:25.079 --> 00:43:30.480
It's like, the problem with that
is not that she's so self centered she

686
00:43:30.480 --> 00:43:34.039
only cares about how hell have an
effect on her, although there's a little

687
00:43:34.039 --> 00:43:37.679
bit of that. Yeah, the
problem is that just feeds into that stupid

688
00:43:37.800 --> 00:43:42.119
I'm gonna save you mentality so much
like you're gonna be good for me because

689
00:43:42.119 --> 00:43:45.039
you'll actually treat me well and like
me and stuff. But let's we'll find

690
00:43:45.039 --> 00:43:47.159
out a little bit what happens when
you gets a couple of Champagnes in her.

691
00:43:47.159 --> 00:43:51.000
This is true. So we see
Sam next going to her advanced fiction

692
00:43:51.039 --> 00:43:52.360
class and she turns around to see
Lewis, who waves at her and she

693
00:43:52.400 --> 00:43:55.679
turns around quickly away from him.
We see Rusty and Kate then walking the

694
00:43:55.719 --> 00:43:59.599
halls of the high school together.
They're all smiles, and we see Tricia

695
00:43:59.639 --> 00:44:04.079
and Bill post sex and Tricia tells
him how much she loves Christmas. Bill

696
00:44:04.079 --> 00:44:06.559
states he gets a bit depressed her
in the holidays, and Christia reminds him

697
00:44:06.559 --> 00:44:08.400
he's divorced. He gets depressed about
a lot of things, and that yeah,

698
00:44:08.400 --> 00:44:12.360
because she mentions, like, ah, the lights and the music and

699
00:44:12.400 --> 00:44:14.800
coming home and my husband has the
one ever set up, and you're just

700
00:44:14.840 --> 00:44:19.920
like, that's when you actually realize
she's married. Yeah, And then and

701
00:44:20.000 --> 00:44:22.639
her attitude is like, you need
to be married, yeah, like you're

702
00:44:22.800 --> 00:44:25.960
that's why you're so sad because you're
alone. You need to remarry remarried sites

703
00:44:27.119 --> 00:44:31.559
yeah. And it's just like it
is hilarious because she's literally cheating on her

704
00:44:31.639 --> 00:44:35.800
husband right now. She is,
and she's like, no, marriage is

705
00:44:35.800 --> 00:44:38.199
like the perfect thing, Like that's
why I'm not sad. It's like you're

706
00:44:38.239 --> 00:44:45.920
having an affair, all right,
what do you even? Movie? Will

707
00:44:45.960 --> 00:45:00.920
be right back, welcome back to
do you even? Movie? So she

708
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.400
tells him that, you know,
he is handsome, he's successful plus a

709
00:45:04.440 --> 00:45:07.199
mild celebrity, and she tells him
to think about it. We next see

710
00:45:07.239 --> 00:45:09.320
Sam at a barr talking to a
different guy discussing evolution, but he says

711
00:45:09.360 --> 00:45:13.599
he doesn't believe in evolution and excuses
himself. That's when Lewis comes over.

712
00:45:13.639 --> 00:45:16.840
Well, she insults a core being
and says and mentions that like, uh,

713
00:45:17.199 --> 00:45:22.199
people who believe in evolution never get
laid yeah, which is just funny.

714
00:45:22.599 --> 00:45:24.239
Lewis comes in behind her, asking
if she was hitting on him,

715
00:45:24.320 --> 00:45:28.000
joking that he thinks he's a Mormon, before asking if they want to get

716
00:45:28.000 --> 00:45:30.480
out of here. She reminds him
that she's not interested in him, but

717
00:45:30.559 --> 00:45:32.199
he steals her jacket, telling her
that she can follow him if she wants

718
00:45:32.239 --> 00:45:35.639
to get it back. We next
see him at a restaurant and he asked

719
00:45:35.679 --> 00:45:37.639
her about her favorite books. Sam
calls him out, though, warning him

720
00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:42.039
that that's basically wanting to get to
know personal information so they can act like

721
00:45:42.079 --> 00:45:44.519
they have a connection together. Yeah, and and well, and she's afraid

722
00:45:44.519 --> 00:45:46.760
that if she tells him her books, yeah, then he'll just go like,

723
00:45:46.800 --> 00:45:51.480
that's my my favorite book, which
is which is extra funny that for

724
00:45:51.519 --> 00:45:55.559
a person who who wants completely no
strings attached sex with no emotion or whatever,

725
00:45:55.599 --> 00:45:58.679
She's like, I don't want you
lying to make me like you.

726
00:45:58.760 --> 00:46:01.960
It's yeah, okay. So that's
when Lewis tells her some of his favorite

727
00:46:02.000 --> 00:46:06.199
novels, one of which being is
Dear Mister Henshaw by Beverly Cleary, and

728
00:46:06.480 --> 00:46:10.440
Sam immediately gets a little unsettled hearing
that because he's her favorite one of her

729
00:46:10.440 --> 00:46:14.480
favorite books. Yeah, So she
runs off and he's asking her what's wrong

730
00:46:14.599 --> 00:46:15.840
She states that she doesn't want to
do this, and he scolds her on

731
00:46:15.920 --> 00:46:20.280
giving herself to assholes with lower IQ's, and that's when they both split and

732
00:46:20.320 --> 00:46:22.880
walk away. We next see Kate
knock on Rusty's door as he answers asking

733
00:46:22.880 --> 00:46:25.559
if his dad is home, and
Rusty states he's not. Kate says that

734
00:46:25.599 --> 00:46:29.840
she wants to give him his Christmas
present and leads him upstairs as they go

735
00:46:29.920 --> 00:46:32.599
into a closet to have sex,
because that's how they'll be able to remember

736
00:46:32.639 --> 00:46:37.039
this moment, because it's his first
time and it's her first time in a

737
00:46:37.079 --> 00:46:43.800
closet yep, which I got cute
concept. Yeah, and she's she's wearing

738
00:46:44.239 --> 00:46:46.840
they reveal she's like not wearing any
she's wearing only her underwear under her winter

739
00:46:46.960 --> 00:46:51.599
jacket. Yeah. So although it's
California, or is it California, don't

740
00:46:51.599 --> 00:46:53.519
even so, it's upstate New York. He it was filmed in North Carolina,

741
00:46:53.679 --> 00:46:58.440
So I don't know what they're if
they're faking another place instead of North

742
00:46:58.480 --> 00:47:00.199
Carolina. But that's therst film.
Well, it looks like North Carolina because

743
00:47:00.199 --> 00:47:02.000
actually, as though about it,
because the big thing is that we may

744
00:47:02.079 --> 00:47:06.440
not have mentioned Cane and them live
on a beach beach house. Yeah,

745
00:47:06.440 --> 00:47:08.599
so right on the beach, so
there's constantly the beach right there. So

746
00:47:08.639 --> 00:47:13.480
it made me think California. But
uh, that makes sense to be Carolinia.

747
00:47:13.519 --> 00:47:16.760
I mean I assumed it took place
in either like a beach town in

748
00:47:16.800 --> 00:47:21.159
California or a beach town in New
York. Yeah, or Connecticut or something.

749
00:47:21.199 --> 00:47:22.679
But he don't think. Yeah,
I don't think we ever get a

750
00:47:22.719 --> 00:47:24.199
location, and we don't need one, No, we don't. So back

751
00:47:24.199 --> 00:47:27.480
in her class, Sam turns around
to see that Lewis is not at his

752
00:47:27.559 --> 00:47:30.559
seat, so we see her driving
looking at an address, and we see

753
00:47:30.559 --> 00:47:32.760
that Louis is unloading groceries from a
car. He goes inside and a caregiver

754
00:47:32.920 --> 00:47:36.800
asks or a caregiver takes the groceries, and he asks how she's doing.

755
00:47:37.039 --> 00:47:39.199
That's when we see that his mother
is on bed rest with ivs all around

756
00:47:39.199 --> 00:47:43.840
her. Yes, she's clearly extremely
ill. Yeah, so he begins to

757
00:47:43.840 --> 00:47:45.320
sit down and read to her.
As Sam enters the house, and the

758
00:47:45.320 --> 00:47:49.199
mother looks over and she asks,
am I seeing things? Or is that

759
00:47:49.239 --> 00:47:52.400
an angel at the door. Lewis
jokes that that's definitely not an angel,

760
00:47:52.440 --> 00:47:55.079
and we next see that Bill is
out Christmas shopping as he runs into Erica

761
00:47:55.119 --> 00:47:58.840
and he asked if she'd like to
join, and she's at first hesitats and

762
00:47:58.880 --> 00:48:00.360
he's like, oh, it'll just
take about to minutes, and that's when

763
00:48:00.400 --> 00:48:05.760
we see them sitting next at a
a bookstore together as Bill tells her that

764
00:48:05.800 --> 00:48:08.119
he's going to move on with his
life and he tells her that Tricia was

765
00:48:08.119 --> 00:48:12.400
the one who said that, as
he confesses that they have had time together,

766
00:48:12.559 --> 00:48:15.920
or they've had time together and they've
been having an affair, or she's

767
00:48:15.960 --> 00:48:19.159
having an affair. Yeah yeah,
She's like, oh yeah, I always

768
00:48:19.159 --> 00:48:22.920
remembered you having a question her and
her having a husband. So Bill tells

769
00:48:22.960 --> 00:48:25.760
her that he's not a great writer, he's a great rewriter, and he

770
00:48:25.800 --> 00:48:30.199
sees that a future with her could
be different. It's talking about Erica his

771
00:48:30.239 --> 00:48:32.480
wife, his ex wife, and
he also tells her that he has not

772
00:48:32.480 --> 00:48:36.440
written anything since she left, and
Erica tells me he's a great writer and

773
00:48:36.480 --> 00:48:38.519
not to waste all his imagination on
her. We see them getting ready to

774
00:48:38.559 --> 00:48:42.760
leave as Erica confesses to him that
she has bad days too, not sure

775
00:48:42.800 --> 00:48:45.880
that she made the right decision,
basically telling him that she still thinks about

776
00:48:45.880 --> 00:48:47.880
them as well. Yeah, it's
a little awkward because I kind of feel

777
00:48:47.880 --> 00:48:51.679
bad for Kanear. Yeah, whenever
he talks to her, she like kind

778
00:48:51.719 --> 00:48:52.800
of gives him a lot of hope. Yeah, and I feel kind of

779
00:48:52.800 --> 00:48:55.440
awful for him, though, I
really do. I feel bad for him,

780
00:48:55.480 --> 00:48:58.639
And I mean, I think that's
one thing that we haven't said yet

781
00:48:58.760 --> 00:49:01.639
is Knear in this film is some
of his best acting of all time.

782
00:49:01.679 --> 00:49:06.679
He's very subtle, very believable.
Yes, in every way. So we

783
00:49:06.719 --> 00:49:08.519
see Samantha with Lewis's mom, stating
that it was nice to meet her.

784
00:49:08.599 --> 00:49:12.000
She goes to lead, but the
caregiver states that there's hot chocolate in the

785
00:49:12.079 --> 00:49:15.519
kitchen. As we see sam sitting
with her Lewis in the kitchen, and

786
00:49:15.559 --> 00:49:17.480
that's when he tells her that his
mother has a brain tumor. And he

787
00:49:17.519 --> 00:49:21.239
tells her that he doesn't want her
to feel sorry for him because he's enjoyed

788
00:49:21.239 --> 00:49:23.119
the back and forth that they fight
between them, but she does, so

789
00:49:23.119 --> 00:49:27.320
she dates him. Yes, literally, that's basically what happens is he finds

790
00:49:27.320 --> 00:49:30.480
out he has a dying mom and
then well, he says he says he'll

791
00:49:30.519 --> 00:49:34.559
forgive her stalking if he'll allow her
to allow him to take her on a

792
00:49:34.639 --> 00:49:37.760
date. Basically basically, so Lewis
tells her that he'll read her book on

793
00:49:37.800 --> 00:49:42.360
break because Sam gives him a copy
of the book and he says he'll read

794
00:49:42.360 --> 00:49:45.079
it over break. We see Sam
and Bill falling and are failing at making

795
00:49:45.159 --> 00:49:49.079
Christmas cookies as Rusty comes in dressed
nice, stating that he's going to go

796
00:49:49.119 --> 00:49:52.320
over to Kat's and give her her
gift. Now. Sam asked about how

797
00:49:52.360 --> 00:49:54.280
serious they are, and Bill admits
that he knows that they're having sex,

798
00:49:54.280 --> 00:50:00.800
which is a really cute moment because
this is just like really ah. So

799
00:50:00.880 --> 00:50:04.960
Sam comments on the chipperness that Bill
is expressing and he tells her that he's

800
00:50:05.000 --> 00:50:07.800
going to move on, New Year, new start. At Kate's, we

801
00:50:07.840 --> 00:50:10.719
see Rusty is given a bright eyed
CD by Kate, telling her telling him

802
00:50:10.760 --> 00:50:14.119
that it's a roadmap to her soul, and that's when he gives her a

803
00:50:14.159 --> 00:50:15.320
copy of it, but not just
any copy. As I said, what

804
00:50:15.400 --> 00:50:19.559
we were watching, boy, here
we go, Dave go on, talk

805
00:50:19.599 --> 00:50:23.480
all about your favorite book with a
eleven year old gang bang in Yes.

806
00:50:24.199 --> 00:50:30.280
In twenty fourteen. Cemetery Dance did
a re release of it that was completely

807
00:50:30.400 --> 00:50:32.719
ill had a bunch of illustrations through
it, the completely redne cover. It

808
00:50:32.760 --> 00:50:37.119
had a sleeve and everything with it. It was priced it like I think

809
00:50:37.159 --> 00:50:39.000
two fifty for the cheapest. So
the fact that that's what I was giving,

810
00:50:39.119 --> 00:50:42.719
Yeah, the fact that he's giving
her this book, I'm jealous.

811
00:50:43.360 --> 00:50:45.480
Well, you should have put on
a little rouge, maybe put a little

812
00:50:45.480 --> 00:50:50.119
effort, maybe wear sun dress every
now and then maybe you'd get maybe some

813
00:50:50.199 --> 00:50:52.519
guy take care of you. Regardless, I really really wanted that edition and

814
00:50:52.559 --> 00:50:55.360
I found it one time at a
half priced books that they were asking double

815
00:50:55.719 --> 00:50:59.000
for it, which was probably what
it was worth that well, but if

816
00:50:59.000 --> 00:51:00.199
it was half priced, posed the
books and they were asking double, and

817
00:51:00.199 --> 00:51:04.760
that's pretty good deal. It's a
pretty good deal, right. So he

818
00:51:04.800 --> 00:51:07.559
gives her a copy of Stephen Gingzette, telling her that it's a book to

819
00:51:07.639 --> 00:51:09.239
him like Moby Dick, and she
will cry at the end, and that's

820
00:51:09.239 --> 00:51:13.159
when they begin to make out,
and it's a really sweet scene. It

821
00:51:13.239 --> 00:51:15.960
is. It's a very cute scene, yeah, because he basically explains to

822
00:51:15.000 --> 00:51:17.159
her, like you don't understand.
It's like Moby Dick. It's it's not

823
00:51:17.199 --> 00:51:21.519
about a killer climent, it's about
every thing. And by the end you

824
00:51:21.559 --> 00:51:23.920
will cry. And she's like,
you cried, and he's like, yeah,

825
00:51:23.960 --> 00:51:27.639
you will too. So we next
see Lewis and Sam at the restaurant

826
00:51:27.679 --> 00:51:30.199
on their date and she questions about
reading her book, and that's when he

827
00:51:30.360 --> 00:51:32.519
questions if she really feels a cynical
about love and marriage as she states in

828
00:51:32.519 --> 00:51:36.840
the book. She confesses that she
did make up most of what happened in

829
00:51:36.840 --> 00:51:38.880
it, but one thing that she
didn't lie about was catching her mother having

830
00:51:38.920 --> 00:51:42.639
sex with Martin on the beach when
her and her father were still again.

831
00:51:42.880 --> 00:51:45.840
Yeah, she just changed it to
being a little girl when in reality she

832
00:51:45.920 --> 00:51:49.559
was in high school. And that's
a pretty heartbreaking thing because basically, she

833
00:51:49.719 --> 00:51:52.800
reveals that what she remembers so clearly
is her mom being drunk and having her

834
00:51:52.840 --> 00:51:57.079
hands all over him yah, and
him saying what about your husband? And

835
00:51:57.280 --> 00:52:00.760
what about the husband of the husbands? What about your hus been her just

836
00:52:00.800 --> 00:52:02.760
saying I I don't care. Yeah, I don't know. It's pretty brutal.

837
00:52:02.800 --> 00:52:06.719
That's a pretty brutal memory, yeah, to have. So she comments

838
00:52:06.719 --> 00:52:08.199
that he makes her feel less cynical, and we see them sitting in a

839
00:52:08.239 --> 00:52:12.960
car discussing their favorite songs TV shows
and he tells her his favorite song is

840
00:52:12.960 --> 00:52:15.000
a track by Elliott Smith and she
asked him to play it, and we

841
00:52:15.039 --> 00:52:23.199
see the song I cannot approve of
of Elliott Smith. I mean he had

842
00:52:23.239 --> 00:52:30.400
some good songs, yeah, but
that was necessary. So we see him

843
00:52:30.400 --> 00:52:34.760
put the track on and we just
see that Sam just starts getting moved by

844
00:52:34.800 --> 00:52:37.239
it, and she just starts crying. In states that she's really scared right

845
00:52:37.280 --> 00:52:38.480
now. She doesn't want to get
hurt, and Lewis tells her that he

846
00:52:38.519 --> 00:52:40.800
won't hurt her, and they share
a kiss, and we next see them

847
00:52:40.800 --> 00:52:45.119
skating together at an ice rink and
it's really cute. It is very cute.

848
00:52:45.199 --> 00:52:51.719
I wonder if she's been checked.
So what we next see? That's

849
00:52:51.719 --> 00:52:54.920
a fair question. In school.
We next see Tricia helping Bill with his

850
00:52:55.000 --> 00:53:00.800
dating profile because his fricking profile picture
reminds her of a serial killer. He

851
00:53:00.880 --> 00:53:04.079
looks like his caption would be I
just want to take your picture. It's

852
00:53:04.079 --> 00:53:06.960
like, do you remember love Hard? When they were going through his dating

853
00:53:06.960 --> 00:53:10.599
profile and there's that one picture where
he has like rope I wanted to look

854
00:53:10.639 --> 00:53:14.719
like a handyman. Yeah, I
want to. I wanted to show those

855
00:53:14.760 --> 00:53:20.039
rusticks I could do stuff with my
hands. I need to revisit Love Heart,

856
00:53:20.159 --> 00:53:22.559
Love Heart on Netflix. Oh my
god, fantastic movie. Great Christmas

857
00:53:22.559 --> 00:53:24.760
movie, but a great love story. Yeah, love Heart. It's a

858
00:53:24.800 --> 00:53:30.440
combination of love actually and die hard
titles because one has one is their favorite

859
00:53:30.480 --> 00:53:32.239
Christmasy and the other has the other. Yep, uh yeah, I really

860
00:53:32.239 --> 00:53:36.039
liked that. I really did.
So. She helpling in with his dating

861
00:53:36.039 --> 00:53:37.920
profile and his attire. One of
my favorite lines that she has is he

862
00:53:37.960 --> 00:53:39.800
walks out and she goes, I
just I have to ask one question,

863
00:53:39.840 --> 00:53:45.280
are you colorblind? Because no outfit
is every outfit is just is just heinous

864
00:53:45.360 --> 00:53:47.920
to the point where she goes into
his closet and is literally just throwing things

865
00:53:47.960 --> 00:53:51.440
out like nope, nope, nope. And she finally picks up an outfit

866
00:53:51.480 --> 00:53:53.039
for him, and we see Bill
going to a restaurant for a date.

867
00:53:53.280 --> 00:53:57.679
The date goes pretty well that we
don't get any dialogue really that we see

868
00:53:57.679 --> 00:54:00.239
them talk, yeah, and we
see them talking having dinner and then they

869
00:54:00.400 --> 00:54:04.159
hug and that's when he drives home. But on the way home, he

870
00:54:04.239 --> 00:54:07.519
just makes a stop. That's the
saddest part, Dave. Yeah, he's

871
00:54:07.599 --> 00:54:10.639
driving home and he seems happy.
Yeah, he seems like he's juiced up

872
00:54:10.679 --> 00:54:15.760
the way I think anybody would be
after a good first date. But then

873
00:54:15.800 --> 00:54:19.400
he drives to his ex wife's house
again, Yes he does, and he

874
00:54:19.480 --> 00:54:22.960
goes up to her window and he
leaves his putting his wedding ring on the

875
00:54:23.000 --> 00:54:29.320
windowsill. But then he realizes she's
reading his book, one of his books,

876
00:54:29.320 --> 00:54:30.760
and she's alone. She's just said
she's all by herself, just reading

877
00:54:30.760 --> 00:54:35.760
one of his books, and the
fire can't go out, Nope, And

878
00:54:35.880 --> 00:54:38.079
he snatches the ring back and he
takes off. It's one of my favorite

879
00:54:38.079 --> 00:54:42.559
scenes in the whole film. It's
so good. So we then see Rusty

880
00:54:42.599 --> 00:54:45.199
and Kate pulling up to Erica's house. As she meets Kate, we see

881
00:54:45.320 --> 00:54:47.400
Erica, Martin, Kate, and
Rusty all enjoying an evening. They're having

882
00:54:47.400 --> 00:54:51.559
dinner, playing just dance, and
then Kate is later in the bathroom going

883
00:54:51.599 --> 00:54:54.280
through prescription medication and gets caught by
Erica and she says, oh, I'm

884
00:54:54.280 --> 00:54:57.159
just looking for some aspert and she's
like, okay, it's right there,

885
00:54:57.199 --> 00:55:00.480
but we can already see that Eric
is a bit suspicious of that. That's

886
00:55:00.920 --> 00:55:04.320
a weird moment. Yeah yeah.
So we next see Bill with Kate and

887
00:55:04.400 --> 00:55:07.239
Rusty and they are attending an event
that's for Samantha's book promotion and Leslie the

888
00:55:07.239 --> 00:55:12.039
promoter. It takes Bill to meet
other publishers. Rusty and Kate go up

889
00:55:12.039 --> 00:55:15.119
to Sam and Lewis and Stephen King. Discussion starts between the two of them.

890
00:55:15.239 --> 00:55:17.559
So then Kate, Kate, and
Sam excuse themselves and go to the

891
00:55:17.599 --> 00:55:22.719
bar, and that's when we see
that Samantha gets a champagne for Kate,

892
00:55:22.760 --> 00:55:24.800
who once again is sixteen years old. But at first the bartenders like,

893
00:55:24.800 --> 00:55:27.800
you know, well how old does
she let me see your ID? And

894
00:55:27.840 --> 00:55:30.199
He's like, all right, you
know, I'll do this, but I'm

895
00:55:30.760 --> 00:55:34.480
these are your drinks. I'm giving
these to you because you're taking these not

896
00:55:34.679 --> 00:55:39.480
Yeah. He basically does like a
cute little like eh whatever. So Bill

897
00:55:39.559 --> 00:55:44.360
goes up to Leslie goes up to
Bill and invites him to come speak to

898
00:55:44.440 --> 00:55:46.679
the attendees, which are his students
because he's a college professor. Bill goes

899
00:55:46.719 --> 00:55:50.519
up and tells them about a Raymond
Carver line that he liked, which was

900
00:55:50.559 --> 00:55:52.440
listening for a beating heart. When
you hear it, it's the best to

901
00:55:52.480 --> 00:55:57.960
decipher all your abilities, basically stating
that every writer is looking for that heartbeat

902
00:55:58.000 --> 00:56:00.519
to be able to decipher what they
want to write and what they want to

903
00:56:00.639 --> 00:56:04.079
give to the people. It's a
good moment where he actually sounds confident.

904
00:56:04.280 --> 00:56:08.360
Yeah, and yeah, it's a
really beautiful moment. It's short and sweet,

905
00:56:08.440 --> 00:56:10.519
like he doesn't take a lot of
time to talk, like because he

906
00:56:10.800 --> 00:56:14.119
even says, you know, this
is my daughter's event, and you know,

907
00:56:14.199 --> 00:56:16.599
that's when he congratulates Sam again and
they share a hug. Later that

908
00:56:16.679 --> 00:56:21.519
evening, he's sitting on the side
and Erica joins Bill, sitting with a

909
00:56:21.519 --> 00:56:24.760
beer in a smoke and she watches
Sam stating that she's done her with she's

910
00:56:24.880 --> 00:56:28.159
all, she's done with her life, and she doesn't want her to,

911
00:56:28.280 --> 00:56:30.599
like, you know, not be
a part of this because she's just really

912
00:56:30.639 --> 00:56:34.360
troubled by the fact of this relationship
they have now. And then we get

913
00:56:34.360 --> 00:56:37.760
probably one of the most heartbreaking scenes. I mean, you mean in this

914
00:56:38.400 --> 00:56:42.480
until three minutes later, I mean, there's that too. So Bill tells

915
00:56:42.519 --> 00:56:45.960
her that he believes Sam swiped would
he believed to be one of her favorite

916
00:56:45.960 --> 00:56:47.920
books from the library, hoping to
find a piece of her in it before

917
00:56:47.960 --> 00:56:52.280
telling her to go talk to her
daughter. So he sends Erica to go

918
00:56:52.320 --> 00:56:53.960
talk to him. Erica kisses him
on the cheek and goes over to Sam,

919
00:56:54.039 --> 00:56:57.880
and Sam is speechless as her mom
walks up with the book and she's

920
00:56:57.920 --> 00:57:00.760
like, you know, I'd love
for you to sign this, and Sam,

921
00:57:00.000 --> 00:57:02.280
being how she is, says,
oh, okay, and what's your

922
00:57:02.360 --> 00:57:06.920
name? Yeah? What's your name? Yeah? And then and she's like

923
00:57:07.000 --> 00:57:08.960
I don't want this to be a
scene or she's like, okay, no

924
00:57:09.039 --> 00:57:15.320
name, sign it without the prescription
and personalization. So of course this just

925
00:57:15.400 --> 00:57:19.840
breaks are down and she goes running, and that's when Rusty finds her out

926
00:57:19.840 --> 00:57:22.920
back and he confesses that he's lost. He's lost track of Kate. He

927
00:57:22.920 --> 00:57:24.440
doesn't know where Kate is. He's
looking for her. So he goes up

928
00:57:24.440 --> 00:57:27.199
to Sam. He asked her if
she's seen her, and she's like,

929
00:57:27.239 --> 00:57:29.480
no, like we got some champagne. He's like, you gave her champagne?

930
00:57:29.599 --> 00:57:30.880
Yeah, and then he basically like
she's a drug addict. Yeah,

931
00:57:30.920 --> 00:57:35.239
And then they're like what he's like, was a drug add a drug addict,

932
00:57:36.400 --> 00:57:40.320
which also we didn't really realize he
fully accepted that. Yeah, yeah,

933
00:57:40.320 --> 00:57:44.119
well I think he always knew,
but yeah, he didn't quite accept

934
00:57:44.119 --> 00:57:49.199
that. But so they find out
that she went back to then got more

935
00:57:49.280 --> 00:57:52.079
Champagne said it was for the guest
of honor, and then left with some

936
00:57:52.199 --> 00:57:57.079
god named Gus named Gus. Yes, it's always a guy named Gus.

937
00:57:57.199 --> 00:57:59.960
So the whole family leaves and goes
to find Kate and they arrive at us

938
00:58:00.199 --> 00:58:01.880
apartment, which I would love to
know how they got the address. Oh,

939
00:58:02.000 --> 00:58:05.400
well, it's he was a student. Oh that's right. Yeah,

940
00:58:05.400 --> 00:58:07.280
And because remember, somebody goes,
oh, she left with Gus. Yeah,

941
00:58:07.320 --> 00:58:10.360
so I'm guessing that that was a
friend because he was in student housing.

942
00:58:10.480 --> 00:58:15.360
Yeah. Yeah. So they they
find Kate unconscious in the bedroom because

943
00:58:15.400 --> 00:58:19.480
they go into the apartment and freaking
Greg grabs Gus by the nose, slams

944
00:58:19.519 --> 00:58:22.000
him against the wall and throws him
to the ground when he opens the door.

945
00:58:22.079 --> 00:58:23.280
Can hear just grabs him by the
nose really hardly. He is like

946
00:58:23.320 --> 00:58:27.679
ah, and then he throws him
down and his nose is all bleeding,

947
00:58:28.000 --> 00:58:30.719
and he just starts kicking him and
kicking him, not like he's not like

948
00:58:30.840 --> 00:58:32.719
killing him, No, he just
like when he realizes what's going on,

949
00:58:32.840 --> 00:58:36.519
so he gives him a couple of
kicks. He tells him that she's in

950
00:58:36.519 --> 00:58:37.960
the bedroom. They did some coke, but everything's fine. But that's when

951
00:58:38.039 --> 00:58:42.440
Erica comes out carrying an unconscious Kate. So they go back to the blanket.

952
00:58:42.519 --> 00:58:44.719
Yeah, they go to the car
and they rush Kate to the er.

953
00:58:44.880 --> 00:58:47.960
And this is heartbreaking because Rusty's crying. And then when Rusty is upset

954
00:58:49.000 --> 00:58:52.760
and Samanth the season, she starts
crying as well, Well, did you

955
00:58:52.760 --> 00:58:55.079
miss why he cried? Well,
he cries because she's she's unconscious. No,

956
00:58:55.320 --> 00:58:59.320
he cries because he looks under the
blanket and sees she's naked. Oh

957
00:58:59.599 --> 00:59:01.559
she's left with the guy. Yeah, yeah, though, that's why,

958
00:59:01.639 --> 00:59:05.400
I mean, that's why he cries. He pulls the blanket aside just a

959
00:59:05.440 --> 00:59:07.079
little bit, and when he realizes
she's naked, that's when he starts crying

960
00:59:07.079 --> 00:59:10.159
his eyes out because that's when he
realizes, like, oh my god,

961
00:59:10.480 --> 00:59:15.320
this girl I'm in love with had
like a couple drinks and immediately started sleeping

962
00:59:15.400 --> 00:59:21.280
with somebody else and it's really tragically
super heartbreaking. So sometime passes and we

963
00:59:21.280 --> 00:59:23.039
find Bill at his home, hard
at work writing at his desk. Him

964
00:59:23.079 --> 00:59:27.719
and Sam later sit on the beach
as she talks about Lewis and Will.

965
00:59:27.719 --> 00:59:30.760
He asks her who's Lewis. She
sees Tricia or he sees Tricia running up

966
00:59:30.760 --> 00:59:32.000
on the beach, and he tells
Sam to go wake Rusty, and Sam

967
00:59:32.000 --> 00:59:36.920
admits to knowing about them sleeping together
before she goes upstairs to find Rusty asleep

968
00:59:36.920 --> 00:59:38.639
in the closet listening to the Bright
Eyes album the Cake gave him. Now,

969
00:59:39.079 --> 00:59:45.559
this is where the movie really hooked
me forever. She goes into the

970
00:59:45.599 --> 00:59:50.679
bedroom. Her brother's not in bed. Yeah, she goes and opens the

971
00:59:50.719 --> 00:59:54.599
closet door, and he is asleep
in the closet. Yea with the iPod,

972
00:59:55.519 --> 01:00:00.480
I know, right dating it,
but with the volume so loud you're

973
01:00:00.519 --> 01:00:05.000
like hearing you're coming out of the
earbuds, because like that's the only way

974
01:00:05.039 --> 01:00:07.760
he could fall asleep, because he's
so unbelievably heartbroken. He's listening to the

975
01:00:07.800 --> 01:00:15.559
album she gave him on full volume
while he's asleep. That I really believe

976
01:00:15.719 --> 01:00:19.440
you could only come up with from
real heartbreak. Absolutely. I believe that

977
01:00:19.519 --> 01:00:24.760
the writer director did that or at
least felt like doing that, and that

978
01:00:24.880 --> 01:00:29.639
was one of the things that really
made it made the material connect with me.

979
01:00:30.000 --> 01:00:32.760
That's what I love about this movie
is, you know, it is

980
01:00:32.840 --> 01:00:37.400
not your it's not a rom com, it's a drama dy but everything is

981
01:00:37.440 --> 01:00:42.960
realistic in it. Every every problem
that's faced is something that most encounter.

982
01:00:43.079 --> 01:00:45.639
Would you call it a drama?
I feel like there aren't any big laughs.

983
01:00:45.679 --> 01:00:47.440
I would say it's drama. I
would just call it a drama.

984
01:00:47.599 --> 01:00:52.800
It's got a couple laughs, but
there's no big It's not like crazy stupid

985
01:00:52.800 --> 01:00:54.320
love or something. It's not like
John Hughes. Yeah, yeah, no,

986
01:00:54.320 --> 01:00:57.960
No, there's no like huge laughs. There's just a couple of chuckles.

987
01:00:58.000 --> 01:01:00.880
Although you know, John Knty probably
could have been proved this movie.

988
01:01:00.360 --> 01:01:05.280
I agree. He could have been
the neighbor here that Keane was sleeping with.

989
01:01:05.519 --> 01:01:12.039
Yes, yeah, I love Christmas, the light, the music,

990
01:01:12.719 --> 01:01:19.280
my husband decorating the tree. Do
You Even? Movie will be right back,

991
01:01:25.760 --> 01:01:34.920
Welcome back to Do You Even?
Movie? So we see Rusty and

992
01:01:35.000 --> 01:01:37.639
Jason getting high in a car and
they go into a convenience store to buy

993
01:01:37.639 --> 01:01:40.280
snacks as kate X walks in and
starts chasing them throughout the store yep and

994
01:01:40.360 --> 01:01:44.280
catches them in the parking lot and
eats the ship the ever loving hell out

995
01:01:44.280 --> 01:01:47.199
of them. Great great visual storytelling
us his friend is driving him to the

996
01:01:47.199 --> 01:01:52.239
hospital in his face all mashed in, and then we see we see Keaneer's

997
01:01:52.320 --> 01:01:53.519
character and the sister taking care of
him, and that when we get a

998
01:01:53.599 --> 01:01:57.840
voice over from Kate of a letter
that she wrote Rusty basically explaining that you

999
01:01:57.880 --> 01:02:00.039
know, she's grateful to him.
She understands like he wanted to help her,

1000
01:02:00.079 --> 01:02:02.880
but she can only help herself any
hope, and she hopes that he'll

1001
01:02:02.880 --> 01:02:07.000
still be around when she figures that
out. She doesn't really say I hope

1002
01:02:07.000 --> 01:02:10.039
you'll be around so much. I
mean she says, you know, she

1003
01:02:10.079 --> 01:02:14.480
says, I hope I can deserve
someone like you, someone who says good

1004
01:02:14.519 --> 01:02:17.599
to me as you are. No, it came off as like a f

1005
01:02:17.719 --> 01:02:27.199
off as well. Yeah, And
honestly I always felt like that scene was

1006
01:02:27.280 --> 01:02:30.960
kind of was sweet, but it
was almost naive, like as a writer

1007
01:02:31.559 --> 01:02:37.159
like to still angelicies, I'm gonna
say that like it's a word it might

1008
01:02:37.199 --> 01:02:43.079
be or angel eyes or what every
angel eyes, But make her still this

1009
01:02:43.239 --> 01:02:46.079
like wonderful person who just needs to
work on herself. And I'm not saying

1010
01:02:46.079 --> 01:02:50.320
she's all bad. Yeah, I
mean, drug addicts have a massive struggle.

1011
01:02:50.960 --> 01:02:57.320
But she hurt him effortlessly. I
mean for real, like you're not

1012
01:02:59.280 --> 01:03:01.960
she did just get drunk and cheat
on him. Yeah, she got drunk

1013
01:03:02.320 --> 01:03:07.000
at an event she was there with
him for his sister, with his whole

1014
01:03:07.000 --> 01:03:09.920
family there, Yeah, and then
left with the stranger yeah, to go

1015
01:03:10.119 --> 01:03:15.639
drink and do drugs and then completely
you know, gets gets fucked up well

1016
01:03:15.679 --> 01:03:22.320
and have sex with him. Yeah, Like that's not something that like she

1017
01:03:22.679 --> 01:03:28.960
has something in her that hates him. Yeah, detests that he cares about

1018
01:03:28.960 --> 01:03:32.039
her. Yeah, she needs massive
help. It's not just about the drugs

1019
01:03:32.039 --> 01:03:37.599
and stuff like that, because she
could have you know, done this to

1020
01:03:37.679 --> 01:03:42.119
him when she was out by herself
or with friends, not literally at an

1021
01:03:42.159 --> 01:03:45.000
event that important. I mean,
maybe you know, maybe I'm out of

1022
01:03:45.039 --> 01:03:47.599
line. Keep in mind too,
that she does in the letter by saying,

1023
01:03:47.599 --> 01:03:50.360
you know, I finished the book
and you're write I did cry.

1024
01:03:50.480 --> 01:03:53.880
Yeah, she does give him the
closure of that sense that you know,

1025
01:03:53.960 --> 01:03:57.320
she did take his gift to heart
and that she did, you know,

1026
01:03:57.400 --> 01:04:00.760
read it and does think about him
in make sense? I saying, maybe

1027
01:04:00.840 --> 01:04:03.639
I'm too stupid because I've never been
drunk and I've never been high, But

1028
01:04:05.440 --> 01:04:08.599
I wouldn't call that stupid. But
I mean, I get what you're saying,

1029
01:04:09.039 --> 01:04:13.559
but I'm just saying, like,
I feel like no amount of champagne

1030
01:04:14.239 --> 01:04:17.960
would make you just completely forget that
you exist in the world. I mean,

1031
01:04:18.360 --> 01:04:20.920
we don't get much of her past. We just know that she has

1032
01:04:20.960 --> 01:04:25.400
one well, and apparently her parents
are not that absent, no, because

1033
01:04:25.440 --> 01:04:27.400
at the one point when they go
in there for Christmas, he's like,

1034
01:04:27.400 --> 01:04:28.800
you know, what about your parents, and she's like, oh, they

1035
01:04:28.840 --> 01:04:30.000
never come up here anyway. Yeah, But then she mentions that, like

1036
01:04:30.039 --> 01:04:32.639
her parents took her to rehab and
are taken care of her. Yeah,

1037
01:04:32.679 --> 01:04:35.440
So it seems like she just had
an aversion to her parents. I will

1038
01:04:35.480 --> 01:04:39.400
say, I mean, maybe I'm
overthinking this, but I will say that,

1039
01:04:39.480 --> 01:04:42.400
like, I do think it's odd
that we don't get a scene of

1040
01:04:42.440 --> 01:04:45.199
them either going to the hospital or
the parents coming, like even if it

1041
01:04:45.239 --> 01:04:46.519
was just a montage. Oh no, no, no, no, because

1042
01:04:46.559 --> 01:04:51.440
she's gone, Yeah she's not She's
completely gone. Yeah. Uh, that's

1043
01:04:51.480 --> 01:04:58.000
it. Her character is gone because
in the world of our our you know,

1044
01:04:58.079 --> 01:05:02.119
young man character, she's never going
to return. Yeah. That was

1045
01:05:02.280 --> 01:05:08.920
the experience that is going to mar
his life. Yeah, and we all

1046
01:05:08.960 --> 01:05:13.239
have those absolutely. So I thought
it made great sense that she was gone.

1047
01:05:13.280 --> 01:05:15.719
I just pardon me. Thought the
letter was almost too nice. Was

1048
01:05:15.760 --> 01:05:18.320
My only problem was I was like, I mean, like, I wouldn't

1049
01:05:19.360 --> 01:05:23.679
again. Maybe I'm just too cynical. I imagine if if that had happened,

1050
01:05:23.679 --> 01:05:26.000
she would have never spoke to him
again. And I mean there there

1051
01:05:26.039 --> 01:05:31.440
is absolutely that too. Walked on
LinkedIn. Bill confronts Rusty about him coming

1052
01:05:31.519 --> 01:05:34.760
home drunken Stone and it tells him
to get it together, and Rusty makes

1053
01:05:34.800 --> 01:05:38.320
the comment basically stating, you know, is that what you did when you

1054
01:05:38.440 --> 01:05:42.440
when you divorced mom? And that
pisses Kenear's character off. Bill off and

1055
01:05:42.480 --> 01:05:45.679
he's like, Okay, you're grounded. Yeah, And of course Rusty's like,

1056
01:05:45.719 --> 01:05:46.679
you can't ground me, and he's
like, what am I gonna do?

1057
01:05:46.760 --> 01:05:50.440
So then later on the beach,
Bill confront Sam about her treatment of

1058
01:05:51.079 --> 01:05:55.920
Erica, confessing an affair that he
had that she had six months and how

1059
01:05:56.400 --> 01:06:00.840
she had Oh yeah, yeah,
he had an affair when she was six

1060
01:06:00.880 --> 01:06:04.840
months old. Yeah, that's right, and six months he waited and she

1061
01:06:05.079 --> 01:06:09.519
took him back, and that's when
she They basically made a pack that like,

1062
01:06:09.559 --> 01:06:12.079
if that happened again, that they
would wait, but if she ever

1063
01:06:12.119 --> 01:06:14.639
did something as stupid as what he
did to wait for he would wait for

1064
01:06:14.719 --> 01:06:16.760
him the way she waited for her. Yeah. So, Sam, hearing

1065
01:06:16.800 --> 01:06:18.960
this, gets angry that he kept
it from her, and that's when Bill

1066
01:06:19.000 --> 01:06:24.599
finds Rusty hardaway typing. Sam gets
woken up crying by Lewis, who tells

1067
01:06:24.679 --> 01:06:27.440
him, or tells her, that
his mom has passed and he doesn't know

1068
01:06:27.440 --> 01:06:30.480
what to do. Yeah, so, which is one of my favorite parts.

1069
01:06:30.719 --> 01:06:31.559
You know, it's painful, but
it's one of my favorite parts.

1070
01:06:31.840 --> 01:06:35.440
Because she has not spoken to her
boyfriend in what we assume is at least

1071
01:06:35.440 --> 01:06:39.719
a few weeks. Yeah, and
now you know, the phone rings and

1072
01:06:39.760 --> 01:06:42.440
it's because his mother. And we
also got to mention that the reason that

1073
01:06:42.559 --> 01:06:45.159
Erica was at Samantha's event is because
he invited her. Yeah yeah, yeah,

1074
01:06:45.239 --> 01:06:47.800
yeah, he invited the mother,
which makes sense because he has more

1075
01:06:48.079 --> 01:06:53.599
of an understanding of the finality of
you know, having a mother around and

1076
01:06:53.920 --> 01:06:56.679
stuff like that. So Sam in
tears, you know, hears this,

1077
01:06:56.719 --> 01:06:59.280
and she tells him she's coming over, and she runs over see them sitting

1078
01:06:59.320 --> 01:07:01.000
together on the couch crying together.
We go through the funeral, we go

1079
01:07:01.079 --> 01:07:03.840
through the wake as they're looking at
a photo album and we see some really

1080
01:07:03.840 --> 01:07:09.199
cute pictures. We then see Sam
walking up to Erica's door and her mother

1081
01:07:09.239 --> 01:07:12.119
opens the door and they just embrace
each other and start crying. Yeah,

1082
01:07:12.119 --> 01:07:15.480
it's a beautiful moment. I really
loved it. So Rusty is typing away

1083
01:07:15.480 --> 01:07:17.239
at his computer when his phone rings
and a voice ask is Rusty and he

1084
01:07:17.239 --> 01:07:19.159
says, this is Rusty. He
goes, oh, hey, this is

1085
01:07:19.159 --> 01:07:26.039
Stephen King and it actually yeah.
So he tells him that Sam sent him

1086
01:07:26.039 --> 01:07:29.480
his story and he thinks it's damn
good and he sent it to the science

1087
01:07:29.480 --> 01:07:31.519
fiction magazine that he thinks will like
it that used to publish one of his

1088
01:07:31.559 --> 01:07:35.400
stories early on. He also tells
him to tell his dad High and he

1089
01:07:35.440 --> 01:07:39.440
thinks that Suit Monkeys is an absolute
classic, which is one of Kinnear's books.

1090
01:07:40.360 --> 01:07:43.239
Overcome, Rusty tries to express his
love the King, but he says,

1091
01:07:43.239 --> 01:07:44.800
you know, I can't put it
put into words, and he's like,

1092
01:07:44.840 --> 01:07:45.559
you know, I just thank you
for stating that you like my story,

1093
01:07:45.559 --> 01:07:47.800
and King corrects him, he said, I didn't say I liked it.

1094
01:07:47.920 --> 01:07:51.599
I loved it. That's a really
good moment. It is. And

1095
01:07:51.639 --> 01:07:55.239
the fact that his sister sent it
to him that which makes sense there was

1096
01:07:55.280 --> 01:07:58.719
the same publisher. Yeah. So
we next see Rusty and Bill making Thanksgiving

1097
01:07:58.760 --> 01:08:00.239
dinner again. He sets a place
for Erica, but then he takes it

1098
01:08:00.280 --> 01:08:03.159
away. Lewis and Sam come to
the door as the four sit down,

1099
01:08:03.239 --> 01:08:06.079
they're enjoying their dinner. As the
bell rings, Rusty goes to the door

1100
01:08:06.119 --> 01:08:10.199
and opens it. But why does
he go to the door because he thinks

1101
01:08:10.239 --> 01:08:14.239
it's Oh Kate Kate. Ye.
He says that he did invite Kate,

1102
01:08:14.840 --> 01:08:19.159
which I think is is a sad
revealed too, which is that he invited

1103
01:08:19.239 --> 01:08:24.760
Kate to Thanksgiving because now she's probably
out of rehab. Yeah, she's never

1104
01:08:24.800 --> 01:08:27.680
coming, She's never coming, She's
never coming. No. No, So

1105
01:08:27.720 --> 01:08:30.560
he opens the door and instead finds
his mom at the door and she makes

1106
01:08:30.560 --> 01:08:32.600
a joking comment of I pictured your
dad opening the door. Can you close

1107
01:08:32.640 --> 01:08:35.279
it and go get him? Yeah? Which I love that. That's such

1108
01:08:35.279 --> 01:08:38.560
a great and I love it too, because he shuts the door, and

1109
01:08:38.560 --> 01:08:40.880
we're just on Erica's side of the
door the entire time, we don't see

1110
01:08:40.880 --> 01:08:45.600
anything that happens inside. So when
Bill opens the door, he's surprised as

1111
01:08:45.640 --> 01:08:48.359
they exchange highs and Erica tells him
that she got lost and asking if there's

1112
01:08:48.359 --> 01:08:51.279
still a place for her at the
table. Yeah, and she understands if

1113
01:08:51.279 --> 01:08:54.640
there isn't, He says, you
know, we have food, we have

1114
01:08:54.640 --> 01:08:57.239
the company. We'd love to have
you. So he invites Erica in,

1115
01:08:57.319 --> 01:09:00.800
embraces her and apologizes, and Sam
sees her mom says hi. As they

1116
01:09:00.840 --> 01:09:03.680
make a place for her at the
table. Rusty announceds he sold his first

1117
01:09:03.680 --> 01:09:06.159
story, thanking Sam, but she
reminds him that he wrote it. She

1118
01:09:06.239 --> 01:09:10.199
just sent it off to one of
his favorite heroes. No, she says,

1119
01:09:10.239 --> 01:09:13.399
I send it off to the one
person who would actually like Yeah,

1120
01:09:13.840 --> 01:09:19.039
which is which is such a great
line because that sounds insulting, except it's

1121
01:09:19.039 --> 01:09:21.279
like I said it to the one
person to actually like it, your favorite

1122
01:09:21.279 --> 01:09:25.399
author, favorite world. It's like
it's like such a great way to put

1123
01:09:25.439 --> 01:09:29.640
like such a big favorite. So
Erica makes a toast Rusty wishing everyone a

1124
01:09:29.680 --> 01:09:32.359
happy Thanksgiving, and we just close
out with the film of Stuck in Love

1125
01:09:32.439 --> 01:09:35.439
with a nice ending just like that. Yeah, and I love that it

1126
01:09:35.479 --> 01:09:39.880
came full circle. We see them
making Thanksgiving dinner again, just like at

1127
01:09:39.920 --> 01:09:44.800
the beginning of the film, and
I've yeah, I've always loved this movie.

1128
01:09:44.960 --> 01:09:47.279
I like even even though I can
get a little cynical about the young

1129
01:09:47.359 --> 01:09:55.600
love element. And also I do
I go back and forth about Conley coming

1130
01:09:55.680 --> 01:09:58.960
back. I get that because she
was gone three years. Yeah, she

1131
01:09:59.119 --> 01:10:01.840
was. It's a long time actually, probably more around four to be honest,

1132
01:10:01.840 --> 01:10:04.800
because we're starting the year and it's
already in three years maybe, so

1133
01:10:04.840 --> 01:10:11.359
it's probably about but that's a long
time. And the idea that like if

1134
01:10:11.399 --> 01:10:13.800
you just kind of well, but
he doesn't just kind of wait around.

1135
01:10:13.880 --> 01:10:16.319
He does kind of date. Yeah, but at the end of the day

1136
01:10:16.359 --> 01:10:19.319
he just carries the torch. I
don't know. It's like part of me

1137
01:10:19.399 --> 01:10:23.840
doesn't like the message that sends.
I get that, but at the same

1138
01:10:23.880 --> 01:10:27.439
time, I also love though the
idea that like that that a kind of

1139
01:10:27.560 --> 01:10:31.479
true foundational love could work out.
So I get mixed about it, but

1140
01:10:31.520 --> 01:10:35.800
overall, it makes me happy.
The only two parts I cry. I

1141
01:10:35.800 --> 01:10:40.359
cry when the mother dies and I
cry when their mom shows up. So

1142
01:10:40.760 --> 01:10:43.680
I feel that though it's it's a
really really good movie, it just has

1143
01:10:43.720 --> 01:10:45.399
a lot of, like I said, just realistic takes on love that I

1144
01:10:45.399 --> 01:10:48.920
think many can relate to. And
it does things with the stories that you

1145
01:10:48.960 --> 01:10:53.560
don't expect that make it even more
interesting in that fact, because I mean

1146
01:10:53.600 --> 01:10:57.239
the whole thing going down at the
at the promotion for the book event,

1147
01:10:57.319 --> 01:11:00.000
I mean that is such a big
scene that you really just don't expect.

1148
01:11:00.199 --> 01:11:01.880
Yeah, for sure, No,
absolutely, it really, And I love

1149
01:11:01.920 --> 01:11:05.199
the way it just puts the family
into action and you know they've they've been

1150
01:11:05.199 --> 01:11:08.279
at each other all throughout the movie, and that at this one point they

1151
01:11:08.319 --> 01:11:11.800
all come together. I mean,
Keneer goes in and grabs that guy,

1152
01:11:12.039 --> 01:11:15.560
grab it by the nose. This
has gotta happen, the way it's well,

1153
01:11:15.600 --> 01:11:17.039
And then when he's walking out,
he tells him you're expect expect,

1154
01:11:17.079 --> 01:11:20.000
You're lucky. That's all. Yeah, that's all. Yeah, No,

1155
01:11:20.119 --> 01:11:24.600
I mean, I just I love
the way that the family just assembles at

1156
01:11:24.600 --> 01:11:26.840
that point, and then the way
that they all come back at the end.

1157
01:11:27.039 --> 01:11:29.560
You know, it may be kind
of cheesy in that sense, I

1158
01:11:29.600 --> 01:11:31.199
will say, but it just something. It's cheesy at all. The family

1159
01:11:31.239 --> 01:11:34.479
came together the way families do.
They come together when there's an emergency,

1160
01:11:34.479 --> 01:11:38.439
they come together when there's something serious
going on. So the fact that they

1161
01:11:38.479 --> 01:11:42.720
all loaded into the suv and when
Keneer and uh Conley go up to the

1162
01:11:42.760 --> 01:11:46.039
apartment, they make the daughter hold
the sun back, Yeah, because they're

1163
01:11:46.039 --> 01:11:48.680
afraid that, you know, they
don't want him to be a part of

1164
01:11:48.680 --> 01:11:53.680
this because he might lose his cool
or whatever. It's very I love it.

1165
01:11:53.720 --> 01:11:56.479
I love the way it's handled very
much. So what rating are you

1166
01:11:56.520 --> 01:12:00.560
gonna give it? Oh? Well, that's tricky. Do we may be

1167
01:12:00.600 --> 01:12:02.840
on the same page on this.
No we're not. No, No,

1168
01:12:02.920 --> 01:12:09.039
because you're stupid, Okay, go
on, go on. I can't lie.

1169
01:12:09.199 --> 01:12:15.479
I think this movie is a true
classic. I think that it's I

1170
01:12:15.520 --> 01:12:20.079
think that it's themes about love and
loss. Everything it does is so strong.

1171
01:12:20.239 --> 01:12:24.840
Yeah that I would say you have
to own it. You think it's

1172
01:12:24.840 --> 01:12:26.840
a by it. I think it's
a by it. I I think that

1173
01:12:27.920 --> 01:12:30.039
if you don't, if you're not
moved by that film, like I don't

1174
01:12:30.079 --> 01:12:33.000
know what's wrong with you? Yeah, I put it as a rented with

1175
01:12:33.079 --> 01:12:36.800
a Bayot caveat on it because I
think it's a very good movie. It's

1176
01:12:36.840 --> 01:12:41.439
not exactly a fun watch, but
it's a movie that it's kind of a

1177
01:12:41.439 --> 01:12:45.680
fun watch. It's got some it's
got some heavy moments that that I mean

1178
01:12:45.760 --> 01:12:48.279
are are not fun. Oh no, without a doubt. But I mean,

1179
01:12:48.319 --> 01:12:54.359
but like the cast is attractive and
captivating. Performances are amazing. Yeah,

1180
01:12:54.399 --> 01:12:57.119
the performances are solid as hell.
It's a movie. I think everybody

1181
01:12:57.119 --> 01:12:59.159
should watch it. I mean,
if it if it is one that really

1182
01:12:59.159 --> 01:13:00.279
does movie, which I hope it
does, it's an absolute by it.

1183
01:13:00.359 --> 01:13:02.399
But yeah, I mean, if
it's just a rennet for one of those,

1184
01:13:02.399 --> 01:13:05.439
it's just that that's understandable too.
But I think it's one that you

1185
01:13:05.439 --> 01:13:11.399
should absolutely seek out because this movie
is very underrated, I think. I

1186
01:13:11.479 --> 01:13:14.399
mean, I don't hear a lot
of people talk about it, so I

1187
01:13:14.760 --> 01:13:17.920
really don't know how known y Stuck
in Love is, but I adore it.

1188
01:13:18.000 --> 01:13:20.600
Yeah, I mean I usually introduce
people to the movie. They but

1189
01:13:20.880 --> 01:13:24.720
not of people don't know about it. So that's that's where I rate that

1190
01:13:24.800 --> 01:13:29.680
from do you recommend it on LinkedIn. Shut up, you made the jokes

1191
01:13:29.680 --> 01:13:31.960
and now it's forever. It's forever. That'll be the next T shirt before

1192
01:13:32.000 --> 01:13:34.880
we get out of here. I
don't have much trivia for this. I

1193
01:13:34.920 --> 01:13:39.319
do have one that I thought was
interesting where the original title was writers.

1194
01:13:40.600 --> 01:13:43.159
I mean, they're all writers.
They're all writers, so that's not a

1195
01:13:43.239 --> 01:13:45.680
terrible title. But I like stuck
in the Stuck in Love is way better.

1196
01:13:45.840 --> 01:13:48.760
Shot in Wilmington, North Carolina,
primarily Writesville Beach area. There is

1197
01:13:48.800 --> 01:13:51.640
no box office for this because while
it was released theater, it was very

1198
01:13:51.720 --> 01:13:55.239
limited release. And also I can't
find the budget on it. Yeah,

1199
01:13:55.279 --> 01:13:58.640
but it did gross the thirty two
thousand when it did get It's a limited

1200
01:13:58.840 --> 01:14:00.720
so you did find box offic you
just did not budget. Yeah, budget,

1201
01:14:00.680 --> 01:14:02.720
sorry, okay, yeah, just
mix it up. No, I

1202
01:14:02.760 --> 01:14:05.920
had a very limited theatrical run.
Yeah, I caught it on Netflix.

1203
01:14:05.960 --> 01:14:09.840
I think a lot of people caught
it on Netflix. Yeah, And we

1204
01:14:09.880 --> 01:14:12.640
always like to end the show with
the recommendation. I am going to give

1205
01:14:12.680 --> 01:14:16.880
one from twenty fourteen to night Stand. I Love two nights. Two Nights

1206
01:14:16.880 --> 01:14:20.119
Stand is the story of a snowstorm
that forces two people who made an online

1207
01:14:20.119 --> 01:14:24.960
connection to unwillingly extend their one night
stand as the blizzard goes through the night.

1208
01:14:25.000 --> 01:14:28.159
It's a super cute little love story. I adore Two Nights Stand.

1209
01:14:28.239 --> 01:14:30.640
No, that's a really good and
it's a fun rom com too. It's

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01:14:30.640 --> 01:14:32.920
not as heavy as Stuck in Love. Yeah, yeah, that's fair.

1211
01:14:33.000 --> 01:14:36.239
So Two nights Stan you can find
available as you can Stuck in Love.

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01:14:36.279 --> 01:14:40.920
It's readily streaming many places right now. So if you are looking for something

1213
01:14:40.960 --> 01:14:43.960
a little different for your Valentine's Day
or February fair, then make sure you

1214
01:14:44.039 --> 01:14:46.279
check out Stuck in Love to go
twenty twelve. All right, if I

1215
01:14:47.359 --> 01:14:54.159
my recommendation, you know what I'm
not going for? Like a lovey movie.

1216
01:14:54.239 --> 01:15:00.800
Okay, I'm going even harder funny
games. No U, I'm going

1217
01:15:00.880 --> 01:15:05.199
with the Beaver. I can see
that. A movie about love and family

1218
01:15:05.359 --> 01:15:10.319
and learning to accept your place and
your family, and learning to accept where

1219
01:15:10.319 --> 01:15:15.359
you are in life and learning how
to work with through problems. Hello,

1220
01:15:15.439 --> 01:15:18.359
my name is Doris. Is a
good one too. Well. If I

1221
01:15:18.359 --> 01:15:20.760
had to pick a rom it would
be The Baxter. It'd be The Baxter.

1222
01:15:20.840 --> 01:15:24.760
I always look in the Baxter to
everybody. The Baxter is a great

1223
01:15:24.800 --> 01:15:30.560
film about being the guy that gets
dumped in the rom com. That's what

1224
01:15:30.680 --> 01:15:34.199
a Baxter is. It's a guy
who the girl is with, but the

1225
01:15:34.239 --> 01:15:38.279
audience is waiting for her to choose
the right guy, the guy that she

1226
01:15:38.319 --> 01:15:41.560
should always have been with. And
it's it's literally what it's about. And

1227
01:15:41.760 --> 01:15:44.760
one of my favorite things is that, like in high school, his girlfriend

1228
01:15:44.840 --> 01:15:46.720
ended up going to the dance with
the other guy. In college, his

1229
01:15:46.760 --> 01:15:50.159
girlfriend ended up going back to the
other guy. So now he's an adult,

1230
01:15:50.479 --> 01:15:54.359
he meets this girl and then her
old high school sweetheart shows up from

1231
01:15:54.399 --> 01:15:58.479
town and he's like, because he
knows that he's that's the best phrase.

1232
01:15:58.560 --> 01:16:00.920
He knows he's the Baxter. So
anyway, that would be my other season.

1233
01:16:00.960 --> 01:16:03.520
But I think the Beaver is a
great beaver. You say in the

1234
01:16:03.560 --> 01:16:06.399
Bax You're also made me think of
The Big Sick. That's also really good.

1235
01:16:06.640 --> 01:16:11.920
Yeah, yeah, yeah, based
on true story too, sure.

1236
01:16:12.039 --> 01:16:15.840
Yeah, but that is Stuck in
Love. Yeah, and and a film

1237
01:16:15.840 --> 01:16:19.159
that I cannot recommend highly enough.
Yes, totally worth your time, especially

1238
01:16:19.359 --> 01:16:24.840
around Valentine's Day if you want to
feel as awful as David does for telling

1239
01:16:25.079 --> 01:16:28.000
all the personal information he's given away
today. It's gonna be a T shirt.

1240
01:16:28.000 --> 01:16:30.760
Blocked on LinkedIn. Yep, so
before we get out of here,

1241
01:16:31.760 --> 01:16:36.199
sorry, Dave, that's on.
That one's on you. Uh wow,

1242
01:16:38.720 --> 01:16:41.920
blocked on LinkedIn. Can we close
the show? No? I need a

1243
01:16:42.000 --> 01:16:45.039
drink? Oh gosh, well,
good luck. You probably brought booze you.

1244
01:16:45.720 --> 01:16:49.560
But I'm happy about this Chinese we
may or may not be getting well.

1245
01:16:49.560 --> 01:16:54.920
First of all, you can't buy
people, so I don't know what

1246
01:16:54.960 --> 01:16:57.960
that means. Let's keep going.
Uh but no, I just want to

1247
01:16:58.000 --> 01:17:00.119
say real quick thank you to everybody
for listening, and remember, if you

1248
01:17:00.199 --> 01:17:03.680
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1249
01:17:04.279 --> 01:17:08.680
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1250
01:17:08.720 --> 01:17:12.239
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01:17:12.359 --> 01:17:15.359
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01:17:15.720 --> 01:17:19.279
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1253
01:17:19.279 --> 01:17:24.039
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1254
01:17:24.119 --> 01:17:28.359
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1255
01:17:28.359 --> 01:17:31.119
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1256
01:17:31.800 --> 01:17:36.359
So also, like us, if
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1257
01:17:36.399 --> 01:17:39.920
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1258
01:17:39.920 --> 01:17:43.840
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1259
01:17:43.880 --> 01:17:48.439
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1260
01:17:48.479 --> 01:17:54.000
I cannot tell you how much that, truly, truly, truly helps.

1261
01:17:54.119 --> 01:17:56.199
Yes, it does, and don't
forget. You can also follow us

1262
01:17:56.239 --> 01:18:00.079
on do you even Movie pod?
On Instagram and TikTok. You can so

1263
01:18:00.119 --> 01:18:01.960
fin us on X as well,
and we are having a lot of fun

1264
01:18:02.000 --> 01:18:04.199
over at those places. We'd love
to get some more followers. Are we

1265
01:18:04.279 --> 01:18:06.880
having a lot of fun over in
those places? I think so. I

1266
01:18:08.000 --> 01:18:11.720
seem to have caught somebody not updating
X. Not a big X fan,

1267
01:18:11.760 --> 01:18:14.039
but I'm working on it. I
did a post while I was here,

1268
01:18:14.079 --> 01:18:15.119
by the way, so we do
have a new post on X and you

1269
01:18:15.159 --> 01:18:19.960
can check me good this fucking guy. But you know, as we get

1270
01:18:19.960 --> 01:18:21.640
out of here, I will say, you know, this show, you

1271
01:18:21.640 --> 01:18:26.000
know, we tore ourselves up internally. Next week we're actually gonna have people

1272
01:18:26.039 --> 01:18:29.399
get torn up. Yeah, this
time it'll be the people in the film

1273
01:18:29.439 --> 01:18:34.039
getting torn up internally, as we'll
be talking about my bloody Valentine from nineteen

1274
01:18:34.079 --> 01:18:38.439
eighty one. Yeah, we just
we're gonna talk about the composite cut.

1275
01:18:38.680 --> 01:18:40.840
Yeah, we'll talk. We're gonna
talk, so we have it. We're

1276
01:18:40.840 --> 01:18:43.319
gonna have a really big treat with
that episode because not only will we talking

1277
01:18:43.319 --> 01:18:46.279
about the unrated cuts with the extra
footage they found about ten years now.

1278
01:18:46.479 --> 01:18:53.039
Yeah, but also I just recently
finished the novelization, which was a treat

1279
01:18:53.119 --> 01:18:56.239
because there's a lot of stuff left
in that book that they didn't get the

1280
01:18:56.239 --> 01:19:00.119
film, because the forwards written by
the director and they even state the like,

1281
01:19:00.199 --> 01:19:01.680
this book is the closest that we
could come to the complete my blieve

1282
01:19:01.720 --> 01:19:05.199
outside wow. So I'm going to
be sharing some of those fun facts too.

1283
01:19:05.319 --> 01:19:11.119
So we'll be heading to Canada next
week for Valentine's Day. We will

1284
01:19:11.279 --> 01:19:15.000
so, and I assume you'll be
bringing me chocolates. I might be a

1285
01:19:15.079 --> 01:19:18.600
heart, but we'll see. Yeah. So, thank you guys so much

1286
01:19:18.600 --> 01:19:23.039
for tuning into Do You Even?
Movie. We'll be back next Tuesday with

1287
01:19:23.119 --> 01:19:27.560
another movie to talk about. So
until then, thank you guys so much,

1288
01:19:27.680 --> 01:19:31.159
and we'll be back real soon.
We'll see you yeah sure, And Dave