March 14, 2026

800 pages of texts reveal volatile relationship at center of Høiby trial

800 pages of texts reveal volatile relationship at center of Høiby trial
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As the trial of Marius Borg Høiby enters its final phase, one of the most revealing pieces of evidence has been the massive archive of private messages exchanged between Høiby and influencer Nora Haukland.

The conversations — spanning more than 800 pages — have been read aloud in court over several days and paint a complex portrait of a relationship that moved repeatedly between affection, jealousy and confrontation. Early exchanges show warmth and encouragement, but later messages reveal arguments about Haukland’s television career, social media and their future together.

Prosecutors argue the messages illustrate emotional pressure and conflict inside the relationship, while the defense says they demonstrate a turbulent but mutual dynamic rather than evidence of criminal behavior.

With the trial nearing its conclusion, the judges must now decide how much weight those deeply personal conversations should carry in evaluating the charges against Høiby.

Portions of this program were assembled with the assistance of AI, including help with translation, summarisation, and news gathering from publicly available sources. While we have taken care to reflect the reporting accurately, translations and interpretations may contain errors. Listeners should treat this as an informational overview, not a verbatim court record. Nothing in this program should be considered a factual finding or legal determination.

Portions of this program were assembled with the assistance of AI, including help with translation, summarisation, and news gathering from publicly available sources. While we have taken care to reflect the reporting accurately, translations and interpretations may contain errors. Listeners should treat this as an informational overview, not a verbatim court record.

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Callaroga Shark Media, Hello and welcome to Crown and Controversy Norway.

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I am your Palace Intrigue host Mark Francis. As the

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trial of Murriusborg Hoiby moves into its final stage, one

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of the largest pieces of evidence presented in court has

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been a massive archive of private messages exchanged between Hoibi

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and influencer Norah Hauckland. According to prosecutors, the conversation span

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more than eight hundred pages. Over the past several days,

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the court officials have read large portions of those exchanges

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allowed in Oslo District Court. The messages offer a detailed

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look inside the relationship between the two, revealing a pattern

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that shifts constantly between affection, jealousy, and confrontation. The relationship

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between Hoibi and Howcome began in twenty twenty two. At

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the time, Halkland was already a public figure in Norway

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through social media and reality television. Weiby, meanwhile, had grown

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up in the orbit of Norway's royal family as the

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son of Crown Princess Meta Marite. During the early part

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of their relationship, many of the messages presented in court

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were affectionate. In one exchange, read in court this week,

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Weaby wrote, I don't want to completely let go. Halcolm replied,

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we don't have to. Other messages from that period showed

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the couple encouraging each other and discussing their lives and careers,

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but as the relationship continued, the tone of the messages

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began to change. Much of the conflicts centered around Halclm's

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growing public profile and her participation in reality television. One

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of the programs discussed repeatedly in court was the military

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style reality series Company lur Ritson. Weiby appeared worrying that

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the show would strain their relationship. In one message read

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aloud in court, he wrote, I know Company is something

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you've wanted and something that is probably good for your career,

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but we both know it's going to crush our relationship.

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Everything will go to hell. Halcolm responded by saying she

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felt she had already changed aspects of her life for

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the sake of the relationship. I have changed myself for you,

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she wrote, I behaved differently on social media and I

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addressed differently. She continued by describing opportunities she said she

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had already declined. I said no to Farman even though

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I really wanted it, but here I have to draw

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a line. You have to choose whether you want to

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be with me or not. These messages read in court

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show the relationship moving through cycles of reconciliation and conflict.

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In some exchanges, the couple spoke warmly to one another.

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In others, the term became sharply hostile. At one point,

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during an argument later in the relationship, halclann wrote, f

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hew Marius few hoyby reply well few too. Other messages

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included accusations about loyalty and questions about who each of

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them was singing after the relationship ended. The exchanges also

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revealed that the couple continued communicating even after their breakup

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became public. In July of twenty twenty three, halcln confirmed

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publicly on Instagram that the relationship had ended. She wrote

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at the time that the relationship included both love and

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strong emotions. It has been a lot of love and

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a lot of feelings, she wrote, I look back on

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them memories with a smile and a heavy heart. But

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the messages presented in court show that the communication between

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the two continued after that point. In several exchanges readled

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out in court this week, the two discussed a meeting

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again and staying in contact despite the breakup. At times,

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the tone suggested lingering affection. In one message, Hebey wrote simply,

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I don't want to completely let go. Hawclun replied, we

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don't have to. Those kinds of exchanges and what the

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prosecutors say illustrate the emotional volatility of the relationship, But

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the same conversations are being used by the defense to

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argue something different, that the relationship was complicated, that both

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parties continued to seek contact, and that the conflicts described

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in court were not one sided. The message also shows

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that the relationship unfolded under intense public attention. Because of

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Hoibi's connection to Norway's royal family and Halcuin's role was

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a reality television personality and influencer, Their private disputes often

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played out against a backdrop of media coverage and online speculation.

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That dynamic appears repeatedly in the conversations presented in court.

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In one exchange, the two discussed how the television series

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Girls of Oslo might portray their relationship, where he wrote

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that the experience had been emotionally difficult for him. I

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cried the whole time. In a Beezer because of you,

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he wrote in one message, referring to filming for the show.

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Other messages touched on more personal concerns money in Hoeby's

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struggles with substance abuse were mentioned in several of the

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exchanges presented during the hearings. In one message readle out

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in court, Halklund told him she hoped he would seek help.

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I hope you get help, she wrote. Those details have

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taken on added significance in the court room because the

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prosecution is argued that drugs and alcohol played a role

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in several of the incidents described in the indictment. The defense, meanwhile,

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has emphasized that substance use does not explain the events

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described by prosecutors, and that many of the conflicts described

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in the messages were mutual arguments rather than evidence of

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criminal behavior. More ground controversy in justin moment for observers

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in the court room, The reading of the messages has

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also underscored how deeply personal the evidence in the case

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has become. Over several days, judges and lawyers have listened

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as intimate conversations between the former couple were read aloud,

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line by line. At times, the exchanges have been affectionate.

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At other times they have been openly hostile. Taken together,

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the messages reveal a relationship that swung repeatedly between closeness

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and confrontation. As the trial approaches its final phase, the

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judges will ultimately have to decide what those conversations mean

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and how much weight they carry in understanding the events

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that led to the charges against Marius borg Waby. According

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to the current court schedule, the trial is expected to

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move into its final phase next week. Prosecutors will begin

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their closing arguments on Monday, March fifteenth, and are scheduled

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to continue on Tuesday. Lawyers representing the alleged victims will

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then present their arguments later on March sixteenth and seventeenth.

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The defense team is scheduled to deliver its closing arguments

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beginning on the seventeenth and continuing the following day, when

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the trial is expected to conclude. After those final arguments,

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the judges will withdraw to deliberate before eventually issuing a verdict.

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Portions of this program were assembled with the assistance of AI,

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including help with translations, summarizations, and news gathering from publicly

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available sources. While we've taken care to reflect the reporting accurately.

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Translations and interpretations may contain errors. Listeners should treat this

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as an informational overview, not a verbat in court record.

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Nothing in this program should be considered a factual finding

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