Because: The "We Belong" Retreat: Renewing Spirits and Fostering Faith Leader Support
In this thought-provoking episode of "To Be and Do," host Philip Amerson reflects on the critical vocation of faith leaders, peeling back the layers of what it means to serve as a pastor today. The discussion centers around the need for genuine encouragement and support among clergy, especially in a landscape that often prioritizes performance, competition, and constant improvement over authentic connection.
Philip Amerson opens with heartfelt acknowledgment of pastors—those performing "heavy lifting work" that often goes unseen and underappreciated. He describes clergy as "first responders" in their communities, present at moments of crisis before official authorities: in hospitals, homes, and places of pain or transition. Drawing from personal experience, Philip Amerson observes that, while pastors are constantly offered courses and resources to "improve" their leadership, the core need for many is simply encouragement and collegial support.
A significant point in the episode is Philip Amerson’s critique of contemporary denominational life, specifically within United Methodism. He laments the shift away from networks of mutual support and toward models that inadvertently foster competition—measuring success by church growth and flashy programs rather than by compassionate ministry and care for one another.
As a remedy, Philip Amerson extends a personal invitation to pastors seeking renewal and meaningful connections. He highlights the upcoming We Belong Retreat, a unique three-day gathering in New Harmony, Indiana, designed for pastors and faith leaders to experience true belonging and re-energize for their ministry. The retreat, scheduled for April 13–16, 2026, is offered free of charge for invited guests and promises a supportive environment centered on rest, community, and affirmation.
Key Takeaways:
- Pastors are “first responders” for emotional, spiritual, and communal crises, sometimes arriving before medical or law enforcement professionals.
- Faith leaders need encouragement and connection more than constant advice to “improve”—sometimes a simple thank you goes a long way.
- Denominations have moved away from fostering collegiality and now often pit pastors against one another, focusing on growth and programming over relationship.
- Opportunities like the “We Belong Retreat” can provide much-needed spaces for rest, renewal, and authentic connection among clergy.
- Listeners are encouraged to share this invitation with pastors who might benefit and reach out directly to
- Philip Amerson. philip.amerson@gmail.com
- for more information.
- If you know a faith leader who could use a boost of support, or you’re curious about how meaningful connections can transform ministry, this episode is a warm reminder of the enduring importance of community. Reach out to Philip Amerson or pass along the details—let’s help our faith leaders be renewed and well cared for.
philip.amerson@gmail.com
